posted June 15, 2022 12:07 PM            

I've been dating a guy for nearly a year now. We get on great, he's stable but the excitement/fizz has really faded fast. Faster than I have felt previously in other relationships. Other than that excitement aspect it's a nice relationship.

I saw our composite and researched the aspects as individuals but struggle to figure out some of the balance of aspects against each other. We have a lot of Neptune/Uranus Squares and wondered if this could have anything to do with it?

Any insight would be fab.

Composite here: http://imgur.com/a/vCM2Yz4

posted June 15, 2022 04:27 PM            

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Originally posted by tojunoandbeyond:
https://imgur.com/a/vCM2Yz4

I've been dating a guy for nearly a year now. We get on great, he's stable but the excitement/fizz has really faded fast. Faster than I have felt previously in other relationships. Other than that excitement aspect it's a nice relationship.

I saw our composite and researched the aspects as individuals but struggle to figure out some of the balance of aspects against each other. We have a lot of Neptune/Uranus Squares and wondered if this could have anything to do with it?

Any insight would be fab.

Composite here: https://imgur.com/a/vCM2Yz4

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Post your synastry too.

I am surprised! Your composite has sun conjunct mercury conjunct venus. Back in the days, there was a forum member who argued that TRUE LOVE relationships are the ones in which sun, venus and mercury are conjunct in the composite chart. Some agree with this. Others do not.

I see you have this aspect with this person so I am curious about the synastry. Also, saturn is trining mercury, moon and sun, which I would think would create or add stability to the relationship.

posted June 15, 2022 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by chocogold:
Post your synastry too.

I am surprised! Your composite has sun conjunct mercury conjunct venus. Back in the days, there was a forum member who argued that TRUE LOVE relationships are the ones in which sun, venus and mercury are conjunct in the composite chart. Some agree with this. Others do not.

I see you have this aspect with this person so I am curious about the synastry. Also, saturn is trining mercury, moon and sun, which I would think would create or add stability to the relationship.

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Interesting, I actually had sun, venus and mercury conjunct with my previous ex in composite too. Maybe it's just not true love for me!

posted June 16, 2022 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by chocogold:
Post your synastry too.

Back in the days, there was a forum member who argued that TRUE LOVE relationships are the ones in which sun, venus and mercury are conjunct in the composite chart. Some agree with this. Others do not.

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posted June 16, 2022 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by tojunoandbeyond:
Did a bit more digging and found the Love Stellium thread. Do the squares to Mars, Uranus, and Neptune cause issues in composite?

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Uranus and Saturn seem to be the main enemies of love stelliums.
I am not an expert but have you tried grupovenus.com?

I really like their reports.

One thing I noticed is that there does not seem to be that much connection between your venuses and mars other than your mars squaring.

posted June 17, 2022 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by chocogold:
Uranus and Saturn seem to be the main enemies of love stelliums.
I am not an expert but have you tried grupovenus.com?

I really like their reports.

One thing I noticed is that there does not seem to be that much connection between your venuses and mars other than your mars squaring.

Who is blue and who is red in the synastry chart?

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He's Blue and I'm Red.

Uranus on a basic level is about excitement, isn't it? Maybe that square is involved.

Thanks, I've had a look at grupo, I do wonder if our Saturn square Mars in Synastry is kinda killing the vibe? He has Sun square Saturn and Moon in Natal too.

It feels like it could be a Saturn influence, but also I don't know what I'm talking about!

posted June 17, 2022 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by tojunoandbeyond:
He's Blue and I'm Red.

Uranus on a basic level is about excitement, isn't it? Maybe that square is involved.

Thanks, I've had a look at grupo, I do wonder if our Saturn square Mars in Synastry is kinda killing the vibe? He has Sun square Saturn and Moon in Natal too.

It feels like it could be a Saturn influence, but also I don't know what I'm talking about!

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posted June 20, 2022 09:48 AM            

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Originally posted by chocogold:
Interesting. What about you? I see you have some planets in Taurus and in Aqua and uranus is in taurus. I believe uranus is prolly squaring your mars right now. Check your transits as well.

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Yeah I have Taurus Sun/Mercury. Added our Natals. He's Aqua.

Him - http://imgur.com/pqu6gcV
Me - http://imgur.com/mnAyJJ7

I actually have pretty nice Saturn aspects in Natal, his is more harsh.

posted July 28, 2022 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by tojunoandbeyond:
Did a bit more digging and found the Love Stellium thread. Do the squares to Mars, Uranus, and Neptune cause issues in composite?

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Yes, they do. Mars squares cause a lot of tension and Uranus squares though can be exciting but unstable… suddenly u feel close, suddenly u are very distant. I’ve seen Neptune works for people who are Neptunian. In fact, I’ve seen rs work with affliction from 1 planet, but 2 or more is tough.

The love stellium is very nice to have in a rs. It shows genuine love and affection between 2 people. The rs I have with this stellium is the closest n most loving one for me, even though it also squares Pluto.