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mir
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posted August 15, 2022 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
synAstry... srry

I think it's time for a progressed thread without any end. And this for a big part based on the research of Paul Westran. There are more threads about it but now we have a tool to show the biggies in graphs. Tell your story and post the graphs from the moment you met plus the upcoming (20?) years. You can also post relationships from the past. But please share some INFO with the graphs you post (when it all started, how close you are/were, when it ended etc.) so that we know what we're looking at. After all, it's all about T I M I N G . . . .


I will start....

So, I met him in 1997 and we had an affair back then. It didn't last very long as he was already in a relationship for years in which he wasn't happy. At first we were crazy about each other but nothing seemed to work out as it should be....

Our progressed synastry in those days explains it all, a Sun-Venus SQUARE + Venus-Venus square (= my pSun-pVenus conj. square his nVenus). We met when Sun-Venus was exact which you can see at the line touching the very bottom pretty early 1997 and were close from that very moment. HUGE attraction leading to nothing (how bad can it be).
There was nothing between Venus and Mars so I won't post that graph.

When we broke up, we didn't see ach other for 2,5 decades. But I never forgot what we had and I always hoped to see him back one day. So I had NO clue about his life until recently.
When I looked at our progressed synastry a year ago I was excited to see promising aspects ahead of us which inspired me to look for him. Well, that wasn't easy but after enough effort I finally found him (single!) in january this year. I had an exact progressed NEW MOON (my pMoon conjunct my pSun) in january so all the energy to go after him haha.

That energy full of life and kid-like fire was there again.... exactly like back in the days.

We are not very close at the moment cause he's extremely busy and it turned out to be totally completey impossible to BE close without enough physical presence/nearness. So yes, I took the much-needed distance from interacting online or by phone. But fact is, we are both clearly open for more in the nearby future.

So here the promising graphs; as you see, we met again during a tight Venus-Venus trine in january this year.

http://astrowin.org/scripts/prog_synastry_chart.php

In short: we want to see Sun-Venus, Venus-Mars and Venus-Venus trines, conjunctions and oppositions below the green line (window of effectiveness) at the right time for the start of a relationship. The green line is a 2 degree orb which you see at the left. The quincunx is irrelevant if we chase start markers. I always look past it. The squares are separators.

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angryant2021
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posted August 16, 2022 03:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for angryant2021     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend and I met last year 2021 and as described in the description for natal sun conj progressed venus, it truly was love at first insight rather than sight!

Everything has been steady going and this summer we moved in together.

I *think* I am feeling the Ve-Ma quincunx now, as of late I have thoughts of breaking it off/not suitable longterm. I suppose this indicates friction in 2031 and 2040.

Not much going on here except maybe some positivity that might offset the Ve-Ma square in 2040.

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vansio
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posted August 16, 2022 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote


With all due respect to your interest, Mir, I do not believe progressed synastry amounts to much besides magnetic energy. Though I will include info for you besides what’s shown in the graphs. Since my “progressed synastry” is happening now, not some distant hypothetical future, and with strict conjunctions.

Currently, my progressed Moon conjuncts his natal Moon, and will conjunct my own natal Sun soon (in November). My progressed Sun is simultaneously sextiling my natal Moon. (which means, not shown in this chart, it too had sextiled his natal Venus sometime in 2018, among all these other aspects).

His progressed Venus is applying conjunct to his own natal Sun and 7th Ruler Mercury (exacts May 2023 and July 2014 respectively). His Progressed Moon entered his natal 7th House a couple months ago. His progressed Sun has been conjunct my natal Venus (as shown-yellow).

We serendipitously met in 2015. That time, his progressed 7th Ruler Mercury was conjunct his natal Sun. His progressed Venus was conjunct his own natal Moon, and my natal Sun (as shown-blue).

My Ascendent Ruler (progressed) Moon was conjunct my 7th Ruler in both natal and progressed, Saturn: March-July this year.

He and I are no longer speaking (since June). And frankly I don’t wish to hear from him ever again

The last thing he said to me was something like “because of our history, it is all in or nothing, and that’s not going to work” By it he means to spend time together. i asked him to actually let me go then. so he blocked me.

As for the progressed Venus trine to natal Mars graph, blue, my natal Mars is also conjunct my Ascendent.

Good luck with you and yours 🕊

Do not quote


Since our connection had been long standing, I will simply state, in rudimentary terms: in 2015 we slept together when we first met, and it wasn’t until 2021 (across the world) that we slept together again. By 2017, we both were in relationships, he figured out a way to get me to see him by inviting me to participate in an exhibition, but we kept it cordial (well, besides him crashing his car in a bumper to bumper upon seeing me standing on the sidewalk). By end of 2018, my own relationship had abruptly ended and he immediately wanted to take a train to see me but I said no. Early 2019, he tried to get me to fly out see him before he was about to courthouse-marry his university girlfriend to give her a visa post-graduating, I declined again. In 2020, they broke up, yet they’re legally married. He flew out to see me in another country 2021, even in the middle of lockdown, after half-lying to me telling me they seperated (since she had moved out). I warned him these things take years (at least two) to process, that I don’t want to get involved. And thus, commences the slow crash and burn of our connection because he’s a juggling fool. explains his last message. “All-in or nothing” — the man does need to get divorced, not just seperated and dating other people. I don’t care what the synastry, and progressed synastry, and composite, etc, says: I will not to forgive him for choosing to stay in the dark, if he were to hypothetically-eventually ask again. He became a coward, and is now dead to me. In my joking imagination, I would tell him upfront to put his money where his mouth is: to send me a couple thousand if he means reconciliation and proof of divorce papers. But the Point really is, it’s over (2022) Perfect timing


With that said, don’t assume progressed synastry implies anything beneficially grander than plain clockwork. Events could equally be a fumble or cosmic lesson. Graphs, exceptional astrological matching, doesn’t change a person’s character or karmic baggage.


This is progressed synastry of the gf turned ex-wife. They met in 2017, had an open relationship (her idea) throughout their time in university, he gave her visa in 2019, she moved in, and they separated in 2020


Based on my two examples, seems like yellow line, progressed Sun to natal Venus, here conjunction and trine, is also a breakup aspect

At the end of 2019, he told her about “me”. I yelled at him for that. You don’t just plant ideas into someone’s head about your fantasies, implicating a third person, if they’re not rooted in reality and haven’t been communicated first. We were barely speaking at that time. and I had made it very clear to him (declining his advances after my own breakup) that I don’t get involved with men in relationships; I don’t want another woman to experience the pain I did from being cheated on, irregardless if the woman pretends to be poly. I stopped speaking to him for almost a year because of that. When we reconnected end of 2020, he said he tried to call me. I didn’t notice because I had changed my number

lol writing this all for sake of explaining progressions, I clearly kind of resent this guy, excuse me.

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vansio
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posted August 16, 2022 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Cancermoon83
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posted August 16, 2022 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cancermoon83     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know how to explain it,and I've been studying progressed synastry for a long time,but these are the graphs for me and my partner.We got together in 2016.

As you can see there are no major progressions going on,except for an applying by 3 degrees pr.Venus-N.Sun sextile(Not shown in the graphs).
However,when we got together we had a double whammy Pr.Sun-Pr.Mars exact conjunction(which was also obvious in the progressed composite) and also a Pr.Moon-N.Mars(his mars) conjunction.
Our progressed moons have 6 degrees difference and they were pretty close to the Sun-Mars conjunction in the progressed composite.
That's one of the few exceptions I've seen in the progressed synastry where everything happened without any of the significant progressions.

Edit:Some info, we met in 2011,he started showing interest in 2015,We started dating in 2016 and moved together in 2017.We've been together ever since.No break ups or anything.Of course all this is irrelevant since there is nothing in the graphs to back it up.

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posted August 16, 2022 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you checked Jlo and Ben graphs? I am pretty sure you have. The progressed graph shows their relationship dynamic to the core! A jittery Sun-Venus square and Mars-Venus square in 2002, then all aspects fuzzled out into a thin air. Then in 2020 a Sun-Venus trine popped up.

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mir
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posted August 17, 2022 04:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so very much all. Keep us updated if necessary. I absorbed every word and graph. Interesting. I have some questions but will come up later with it.

I wish I could stare at the signs and degrees of all your progressed + natal Suns and Moons. Yeah I'm aware that's too much to ask but it's the more finetuned indicator for a start.

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posted August 18, 2022 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yesterday I met a VERY significant new person in my life... lol, it's so funny, I already knew him for a small time/months (this is 100% NON-erotic) but yesterday.... it all fell at its place suddenly! Our interests line up like crazy and we now have a lot of plans together haha, great!

Guess what...
My progressed Moon 3 Libra
My progressed Venus 3 Libra
His f**kin natal Sun at 3 Libra!!

I swear.. progressions are super miracle.

Ow and his progr. Moon in an applying conjunction to my natal Sun by 7 deg. now.


TIP: pay special attention to your pMoon and the people you meet! (conjunct)

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Nine
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posted August 18, 2022 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by mir:
Yesterday I met a VERY significant new person in my life...

Guess what...
My progressed Moon 3 Libra
My progressed Venus 3 Libra
His f**kin natal Sun at 3 Libra!!

I swear.. progressions are super miracle.



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mir
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posted August 18, 2022 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Nine.

With the one from the original post I have the same in january '24.

his pMoon 5 Leo
his pVenus 5 Leo
my nSun 7 Leo

[my pMoon opp. his nSun at the same time]

.. hence my enthusiasm

But we can't eat from 'hope' alone (until then) so just consider it a temporary drug which is currently widely past its shelf life. He's too busy with dying relatives and job so bad timing and I can't go half in so it's close to non-existent at the moment. I will update (by then) IF things substantially change.

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