posted August 28, 2022 05:17 PM            

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Davison Chart

Composite chart

posted August 31, 2022 11:18 PM            

Off the top of my head he is going though Saturn oppose Jupiter right now
and Uranus oppose Pluto.

Sometimes people can split up and get back together. While there were times I hoped to get back with someone...how would I trust that they wouldn't do it again? (Scorpio Moon here, trust is not my strong suit) But don't listen to me, plenty of people can take a break, and get back together and be together the rest of their lives.

One example I know of was the girl was having a Uranus square Venus transit. Only had one boyfriend so when boyfriend started talking marriage and she had this life crisis of "I don't know what it feels like to be with anybody else, and I need to experience that" And broke up and she dated someone else, but realized she wanted her HS sweetheart back. They have been married for almost 4 years now.

posted September 01, 2022 12:02 AM            

In the composite again there are intense and exciting feelings with Venus trine Uranus/Neptune and the Venus-Mars midpoint conjunct Chiron/ASC, so the feelings and affection are mutual, but Chiron is opposite Saturn and square Pluto, so again there is a core incompatibility as for mutual understanding and different approach to issues, this t-square can potentially turn to be quite toxic in the long run as one of the two would dictate and project their own issues against the other and it looks very difficult to find a compromise... with mercury quincunx to Uranus/neptune there is also a lot of frustration and difficult communication... Vertex is conjunct DSC and opposite Mercury, so you actually have a soul and mind connection, but it is very difficult to have this otherworldly connection work out on the earthly plane as your individual needs are not in tune in the reality... so despite the mutual feelings there is something that feels always unfulfilling between you two...

Unfortunately you're having transiting saturn retrograde going though composite Saturn/Vertex/DSC square to Pluto, and transiting Uranus/North Node square to the same Saturn/ASC-DSC axis... I am sorry to say that I think that fixing the break up with these transits at this time looks unlikely...

Since Saturn and Uranus retrograde are all about taking time and reviewing, I'd suggest you to take your time for yourself and think through whether you really want him to come back, would it be good for your wellbeing and self-worth... ?

posted September 01, 2022 02:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I notice strong Juno conjunctions on both ends.
He is 4 days older than my husband.
If you are meant to be back together maybe he is going though a transit where he is not thinking clearly.

Off the top of my head he is going though Saturn oppose Jupiter right now
and Uranus oppose Pluto.

Sometimes people can split up and get back together. While there were times I hoped to get back with someone...how would I trust that they wouldn't do it again? (Scorpio Moon here, trust is not my strong suit) But don't listen to me, plenty of people can take a break, and get back together and be together the rest of their lives.

One example I know of was the girl was having a Uranus square Venus transit. Only had one boyfriend so when boyfriend started talking marriage and she had this life crisis of "I don't know what it feels like to be with anybody else, and I need to experience that" And broke up and she dated someone else, but realized she wanted her HS sweetheart back. They have been married for almost 4 years now.

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Hey straw
Thabks for responding

Well thats right
And he had said to me that he is sure that ill be ok for one month and after this month
The same problems or new problems will start to rising. Because he says that i have done this before.
And it's true in some way
Bit i really have see my wrongs this time.

You are right
Saturn juoiter and pluto uranus pluto oppositions
By the way transit uranus opposite his draconic venus
Is that mean anythint ???

posted September 01, 2022 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi efaki94, sorry about the situation...
Looking at the chart, honestly it seems to me that he's not appreciating and not undertsanding your efforts and does not do too good for your self-esteem... you have a inner block with the Chiron-Saturn opposition square to your ASC-DSC and his Mars is conjunct to your Chiron square to your ASC/Moon, so while initially you may have felt a deep intimacy with him, the relationship may have given a lot of insecurity to you both and were not able to support each other at emotional level... actually, I see that there is affection, but there are also strong incompatibilities...

In the composite again there are intense and exciting feelings with Venus trine Uranus/Neptune and the Venus-Mars midpoint conjunct Chiron/ASC, so the feelings and affection are mutual, but Chiron is opposite Saturn and square Pluto, so again there is a core incompatibility as for mutual understanding and different approach to issues, this t-square can potentially turn to be quite toxic in the long run as one of the two would dictate and project their own issues against the other and it looks very difficult to find a compromise... with mercury quincunx to Uranus/neptune there is also a lot of frustration and difficult communication... Vertex is conjunct DSC and opposite Mercury, so you actually have a soul and mind connection, but it is very difficult to have this otherworldly connection work out on the earthly plane as your individual needs are not in tune in the reality... so despite the mutual feelings there is something that feels always unfulfilling between you two...

Unfortunately you're having transiting saturn retrograde going though composite Saturn/Vertex/DSC square to Pluto, and transiting Uranus/North Node square to the same Saturn/ASC-DSC axis... I am sorry to say that I think that fixing the break up with these transits at this time looks unlikely...

Since Saturn and Uranus retrograde are all about taking time and reviewing, I'd suggest you to take your time for yourself and think through whether you really want him to come back, would it be good for your wellbeing and self-worth... ?

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Hello stoika
Thanks for your quick response once again

Yes that chiron square to my moon and saturn is heavy and the truth is that he can harm me so much and so deep . I am more strong now to let the words into me but i have done so many mistakrs the last months .
He kept complaing a out things and i disnt care .i had many responsibilities the last 3months .job , volunteer, not enough sleep .i was and im still exstaued.
So he just bumb .he was patient with me and i took that for granted.

I really want him and really love him. Its not just ego . I cant imagine not grow old with him. I dont wsnt him to change .ok just a little bit sometimes.so to be more sensitive.but he hide his sensitivity
Very well.

Sometimes he hurts my feelings and srlf esteem but i do the same . The most times with no intetion. But we havesnyany good memories together .

posted September 01, 2022 08:33 AM            

Ill give you an upadate if anything change .

posted September 07, 2022 06:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
I am sure he did you good too... Composite North Node is square Lilith and trine to Chiron, so this is a karmic connection about healing, and since his Mars is conjunct to your Chiron and sextile Jupiter and triggering your natal t-square, whatever is going to happen you're going through a "test" for your own inner healing, and this includes learning self value and not to blame yourself too much :-)
Well... you did your move... I hope he will rethink about his own mistakes as much as you're doing ❤️

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Stoika helloo again
Sorry for asking again
But whats your opinion about transit node and uranus opposite his draconic venus???

posted September 08, 2022 02:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi efaki94

looks like changes in relationship matters or a very independent attitude at this time. I dont believe much in draconic chart though, I mean I am not sure if it is effective.

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Oooh super nice 🥴😭

posted September 08, 2022 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
efaki, how long have you been together? I see that you fit his 7th house and he fits yours. He has Aries on the 7th house and you have Mars in your first and you have Sagittarius on the 7th house and he has Jupiter in the same house with his Sun.

He also has Moon close to the DC and you have Moon close to your ASC.

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Hey chryssa
Are u greek??
I think we have tslked again

We ve been 6years together
I ve never notice the things you said
You r right
R these signs good??
Also his venus in 11th and mine in 5tb

posted September 08, 2022 05:25 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Yes, they are very good. I was sure it was a serious relationship. I hope you two solve your issues and get back together. Maybe you can let him have his space for a while and you have your space also so you can think things clearly so you can solve your problems. Go into no contact until he wants to solve things with you. Thus, you will not harm the relationship further.

Best wishes to you

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Thank you dear
Im on no contact some days now.
But Sunday we hooked up(sorry for that 🥴
And its was so nice,he hugged me after that and kissed me goodbye.

Also he now faces problems with his job he might lose his job and he is really stressdd out
. He said he was happy seeing me whem i asked him if he misses me but thats all.

Im really empty but im not gonna contact him.

I ll keep you posted

posted September 08, 2022 07:15 AM            

If you give him an easy break-up, meaning that you are still there even though he kicked you out of his life, you make everything easy for him to move on.

He broke up with you, then you shouldn't be in his life anymore.

Trust me on this. I made the mistake to still talk with my ex even though he moved on, and he didn't feel the break-up because I was still answering his texts and give him the confort of still being in his life (half-being because we didn't meet or anything) even though he broke up with me.

But my case was different, I understood that I can't have a future with him.

If you want to be with him, don't confort him even though he kicked you out of his life. It's not about having resentments or hating him for this, but we try to confort our separation anxiety through this - messages, short dating, to check if you're still there for him.

posted September 08, 2022 08:54 AM            

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Be careful about this. After some years pass, you feel the need to change some things.

If you give him an easy break-up, meaning that you are still there even though he kicked you out of his life, you make everything easy for him to move on.

He broke up with you, then you shouldn't be in his life anymore.

Trust me on this. I made the mistake to still talk with my ex even though he moved on, and he didn't feel the break-up because I was still answering his texts and give him the confort of still being in his life (half-being because we didn't meet or anything) even though he broke up with me.

But my case was different, I understood that I can't have a future with him.

If you want to be with him, don't confort him even though he kicked you out of his life. It's not about having resentments or hating him for this, but we try to confort our separation anxiety through this - messages, short dating, to check if you're still there for him.

Go to coach lee on youtube. His content can help you a lot to save the relationship or save yourself from this break-up in case it doesn't work out.

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Totally get what you mean
And what i was thinking these days.

Im not gonna sleep with him again
Because I feel i missed him much more afyer that. And i spread my energy.

But if he contact me what should i do ??or if he ask me to meet??