posted October 13, 2022 10:26 AM            

Sometimes I can come off as emotionally unavailability.

Being direct and telling the Gemini the way you feel might break the ice..but you have to be careful not to be to direct.

I can't speak for that Gemini, but i'd run for the hills if you came off as too direct.

I don't know what stage you guys are at and just making assumptions.

posted October 13, 2022 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Alot depends on the Gemini, the Gemini might feel the same way as you...they might be a little unsure of there feelings.

Sometimes I can come off as emotionally unavailability.

Being direct and telling the Gemini the way you feel might break the ice..but you have to be careful not to be to direct.

I can't speak for that Gemini, but i'd run for the hills if you came off as too direct.

I don't know what stage you guys are at and just making assumptions.

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posted October 13, 2022 12:44 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
You have a Gemini Sun and Aries Moon just like they do. I’m surprised you don’t like people who are too direct. I only know them because we lived on the same floor together in college. We’re not close friends or in contact outside of seeing each other in person. I will do my best to feel this person out a little better.

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Most things I prefer directness, like right now I'm at work.

I'm typing this on my personal laptop and answering IT incident tickets on my work laptop..(never do anything personal on your work issued laptop - the end point VPN will collect a log of websites).

I'm almost cursing that I wish the problem description in the ticket was more clear.

what I meant in my original description is coming to hard to fast...that's what I meant by directness. Sorry for any confusion.

When it involves commitment...I always like to have some wiggle room.

Do feel the person out more....if they feel the same way.

If you find out the person is in some kind of dilemma...and you can fix it..do it!!!

Only attempt if your 100% sure you can help...if not it will backfire.

With Aries mooners they always like things done quickly and correctly. They will take it to heart if you can do all that.

My Aries moon conjuncts my Mercury and Sun, so I don't know how differently it effects the person.

FYI: I'm Gemini male...I don't know if that helps.

posted October 16, 2022 07:55 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Most things I prefer directness, like right now I'm at work.

I'm typing this on my personal laptop and answering IT incident tickets on my work laptop..(never do anything personal on your work issued laptop - the end point VPN will collect a log of websites).

I'm almost cursing that I wish the problem description in the ticket was more clear.

what I meant in my original description is coming to hard to fast...that's what I meant by directness. Sorry for any confusion.

When it involves commitment...I always like to have some wiggle room.

Do feel the person out more....if they feel the same way.

If you find out the person is in some kind of dilemma...and you can fix it..do it!!!

Only attempt if your 100% sure you can help...if not it will backfire.

With Aries mooners they always like things done quickly and correctly. They will take it to heart if you can do all that.

My Aries moon conjuncts my Mercury and Sun, so I don't know how differently it effects the person.

FYI: I'm Gemini male...I don't know if that helps.

My Planets
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☉‘ ♊, ☽ ♈, ASC ♑, ☿ ♊, ¡÷ ♉, ¡ö ♋ , ♃ ♒, ♄ ♏, ♅ ♐, ♆ ♑

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posted October 16, 2022 11:55 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Thank you! I will watch myself so that I don’t come on too strong, but as an Aries Sun, Merc and Mars, that’s hard to do. Lol! I will keep that info about the VPN in mind. Does that apply to work/school wifi as well? Never do anything personal while connected to it?

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All it means is whomever is managing your VPN will be able to view your data.

Just keep an eye out for VPN providers and go through there End Point User Audit policy and how they collect and use user logs.

All of them will collect some kind of data to perform some kind of anomaly detection. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anomaly_detection

Anyway, I strangely got along with a triple Aries in HS, she was sun, moon and mercury.

Aries suns have always been the few people that have the energy for me to keep up with...I was surprised she saw right though me...we had a moon conjunct moon.

I did have a strong connection to an Aries sun were my mars conjunct her moon.

The energy was there and I can tell me both felt it...but I was to preoccupied with other things.

I also hope the Gemini isn't too preoccupied. This is why it takes a bit of directness to remind the Gemini..but not to much.

It either takes off or it doesn't..you'll know soon.