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Topic: Lack of venus mars aspects?
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rainyvirgo
Knowflake Posts: 157
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Registered: Apr 2017
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posted October 21, 2022 11:41 PM
  
How would things play out between people that don’t have any aspects between venus mars or any good aspects, and venus and mars are in inconjunct signs (leo x2 and cap x2) , but there’s aspects like A mars trine B sun/moon/pluto, B venus loose trine to A moon, actually wait there is one Inter aspect - A venus (woman) inconjunct B mars (the man) An old friend of mine recently popped back up in my life and there’s this like fun banter and playful aggressiveness (he’s a sag) and kind of undertones of flirty and I’m just wondering like hypothetically about it with not really have venus mars aspects other than the inconjunction with my venus I’m wondering if somehow it still kind of works because our charts are like elementally flipped (except he has an air rising) but I’m earth and fire and he’s fire and earth I’m a Virgo/Virgo/Virgo with Leo merc/venus/mars, and he’s a Sag/Sag/Gemini with his chart ruler Sag merc trine my sun out of sign, his venus and mars in Capricorn in my 5th house His sun/moon/pluto are all conjunct in Sag in his natal and all conjunct my pluto as well, and trine my mars and conjunct my IC In our composite chart Sun Mercury and mars are all conjunct in Libra, opposite Saturn (descendant ruler), with cancer rising and the chart ruler the moon is conjunct venus in scorpio exactly, and trine jupiter 🫣 But anyways the main question about the post is it absolutely necessary to have actual venus mars aspects or can there be chemistry without it, and how bad is the inconjunction anyways? His mars is inconjunct my venus but again it’s in my 5th I’m kinda surprised because I feel like I am feeling his mars expressed but the only aspect his mars makes to my planets is inconjunct my venus and Mercury IP: Logged |
rainyvirgo
Knowflake Posts: 157
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Registered: Apr 2017
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posted October 21, 2022 11:48 PM
Actually idk if it is technically inconjunct my venus because it needs to be pretty exact for that right? His venus is 15 cap and my Mercury is 15 leo, so that’s definitely inconjunct, but my venus is 13 leo IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere
Knowflake Posts: 655
From: The Nether World
Registered: Mar 2021
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posted October 22, 2022 03:47 AM
As far as I know Venus and Mars aspects are not needed for chemistry. Yin and Yang combinations of any kind can cause attraction. Yin (receptive) planets are Moon and Venus, Yang (active) planets are Sun and Mars. Sun-Moon, Sun-Venus, Mars-Moon and Mars-Venus can all generate attraction.In addition, there is also Yin and Yang attraction based on the Rising sign. Yin is represented by the descendant and the 7th house ruler. Yang is represented by the ascendant and the chart ruler. There can also be Yin and Yang attraction based on putting your planets in their 1st or 7th house, but actual angle contacts will be most intense. There can also be Yin-Yin attraction or Yang-Yang attraction. It’s more “you’re like me” than “you have something I need”. A mix of attraction is usually best, but some people have a strong preference for one or the other. IP: Logged |
vansio
Knowflake Posts: 2443
From: the outskirts of Delphi
Registered: Dec 2017
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posted October 22, 2022 04:36 AM
I’ve never understood the hype about Venus Mars aspects in synastry; it seems to be more a case of pop culture meets make-believe mythology and not actual occult tradition and science. Military-men are not known for being indulgent, lustful and philanderers.. on the contrary, disciplined, orderly and abstaining (busy with war not women—far far away from women). Waking up at <4AM to start their service, not sleeping around.
http://thestarswithinus.wordpress.com/2019/05/30/mars-power-brahmacharya/ Whereas the moon is considered the most sexual planet—he had 27 wives. Mars (a commander in chief) debilitates in Moon’s sign. Also Moon kidnapped and slept with Jupiter’s wife Tara, who then gave birth to Mercury (a bas*tard), hence why Jupiter exalts in Moon’s sign, but that’s another story. With that said, the strongest sexual chemistry I’ve had with someone, can’t keep hands off each other and insatiable… we had Moon-Sun, and Moon-Venus conjunctions. No Venus-Mars aspects whatsoever IP: Logged |
rainyvirgo
Knowflake Posts: 157
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Registered: Apr 2017
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posted October 24, 2022 02:23 PM
Thank you so much for the replies  ) ❤️ I agree with you about moon-venus!!!! I’ve been venus to the moon in a conjunction and there was crazy chemistry With the guy I’ve been seeing (not the guy in this post) we have venus square moon (his to mine) and venus trine moon (mine to his) as well as my venus conjunct his sun and his venus sextile my sun out of sign. There’s definitely a LOT of chemistry however his mars does also trine my mars venus and pluto, and his moon/mars are in my 8th house, so I’m not sure what’s doing what but we have a lotttt of chemistry in general and I feel like I want to be touching him always IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 7769
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 26, 2022 02:28 AM
Sometimes I think there is not enough going on with my husband and I's mars synastry on my end!I have Aquarius Mars the only thing aspecting it is his Jupiter Leo. I feel like I have to nag and complain so much to get what I want in bed. Actually that was a problem in both my last relationships. I am gung ho to try out their ideas...BUT NOT MINE. The first guy totally had the upper hand and a stubborn Taurus Moon. My husband will eventually come around, but he is not on it w/in 2 business weeks like I am. I did make sure that my now husband at least likes choking though. The passion will not always be stable in a stable relationship. But yeah my husband had a phase of I got you to sleep with me, I don't need to impress you now. We have made growth. You do not want to feel like (OR AT LEAST I DON'T) there isn't anymore growth when it comes to intimacy. IP: Logged | |
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