posted November 19, 2022 08:18 PM            

So this relationship felt incredibly significant (i think for both of us!) it started off as the most amazing relationship I have ever been in and ended as the absolute most stressful experience of my life! There were some deception type things in the end/him seeming like he totally never cared & I completely over gave the entire time. But we started out as VERY similar people and ended as complete strangers, and it was a super serious relationship that ended very abruptly. I've never experienced anything like it!!

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posted November 19, 2022 08:31 PM            

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I'm amazed of this chart as I've commented on your previous post and said that that guy doesn't fit your 7th house as he is not saturnian or he doesn't have saturn in the 1st or 10th house and you post this chart of your ex bf that he has Saturn in the 1st )

So, this is simple.

3 major aspects that made the relationship work:
1. his Moon opposite your Sun - deep soulful connection
2. his Mars and Venus conjunct your Moon - extremely attracted to you and felt like you were perfect, most likely caring too with Venus, with Mars a bit impulsive, this aspect is more than Venus conjunct Mars
3. he fits your 7th house as he has Saturn in the 1st.

posted November 19, 2022 08:52 PM            

All of that is spot on too!! He definitely did think I was perfect for a long time, and was superr attracted to me even when our relationship wasn't doing too great!

There were some definite ego battles in the relationship, I didn't know about the fitting someone's 7th house!! That's great to know & definitely makes sense as to how it all ended

Thank you so so much!

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Hello,

Again )
I'm amazed of this chart as I've commented on your previous post and said that that guy doesn't fit your 7th house as he is not saturnian or he doesn't have saturn in the 1st or 10th house and you post this chart of your ex bf that he has Saturn in the 1st )

So, this is simple.

3 major aspects that made the relationship work:
1. his Moon opposite your Sun - deep soulful connection
2. his Mars and Venus conjunct your Moon - extremely attracted to you and felt like you were perfect, most likely caring too with Venus, with Mars a bit impulsive, this aspect is more than Venus conjunct Mars
3. he fits your 7th house as he has Saturn in the 1st.

The problem is that you don't fit his 7th house and that it's his Moon that was opposite your Sun, if it was in reverse, the relationship would have gone better as he is more in tune with his Sun as a man and you with Moon as a woman. Sun opposite Sun it's a bit like an ego battle, adding the misplaced energy of Moon opposite Sun, and his Mars on your Moon. And your North Node it's in his 7th house and it's very attracting for him

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posted November 19, 2022 09:02 PM            

You're so cute and cheerful )

Just date people with Gemini or Sagittarius Sun in the middle degrees or a Scorpio, look if they have saturn in 1st, 10th or if it aspects Sun, Venus in their chart in conjunction - they should have Aries ASC and the generation that you were born in will have Saturn in 1st, if you fit their 7th house (Venus in the 7th house, or Scorpio ASC and they will have Taurus on the 7th) and you can date them.

I understand the seriousness that you need and those are very important aspects to have with someone, as you have Saturn in the 7th.

posted November 19, 2022 09:49 PM            

omg look at us!! It is such a turn off when someone seems immature/irresponsible esp when it comes to interpersonal/relationship stuff

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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
You're welcome!

You're so cute and cheerful )

Just date people with Gemini or Sagittarius Sun in the middle degrees or a Scorpio, look if they have saturn in 1st, 10th or if it aspects Sun, Venus in their chart in conjunction - they should have Aries ASC and the generation that you were born in will have Saturn in 1st, if you fit their 7th house (Venus in the 7th house, or Scorpio ASC and they will have Taurus on the 7th) and you can date them.

I understand the seriousness that you need and those are very important aspects to have with someone, as you have Saturn in the 7th.

My 7th house it's ruled by Saturn too and it's a big turn off when I meet someone that I see as iresponsible or immature.

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