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Topic: Found My Soulmate..Or Is He?
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lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 22, 2022 01:11 PM
God, I swear this is it. This has to be it. I haven't been this head-over-heels for anyone else ever. Time is confirmed for both of us, synastry, composite and davison attached. Someone either get me out of my rose tinted glasses or tell me this is it. Please it's been forever I have been waiting and waiting.. SYNASTRY COMPOSITE DAVISON IP: Logged |
lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 22, 2022 01:14 PM
Okay, I attached the images but now I cannot see them here, I can only see a box, if I right click on the box and choose 'open image in a new tab' it opens in a new tab, so I am confused. Can anyone else see the images???This is how I attached the images, removed the spaces between img and the url, what did I do wrong?? [IMG] http://imgur.com/a/cfx1ugF.jpg [/IMG]
[IMG] http://imgur.com/a/Lzvd2QS.jpg [/IMG] [IMG] http://imgur.com/a/wYGvWBI.jpg [/IMG]
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2694 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 22, 2022 03:16 PM
Personally I am not the biggest fan on susn/uranus square in the composite. And on top of that there is moon opposite Uranus. Emotional disconnectedness. The fact that both people have Taurus energy might make it worse. Taurus does not handle interpersonal space that well. I think if the two are ever to break up, it will come from the red person. Sun is partner's 7th is nice. Perhaps the biggest reason why the AC person feels in love. Overall whether they can work things out, will come to the question of if one or both will break under the cold air of Uranus. Composite sun square chiron. I love that aspect. It means the male is a little more in love and/or invested. IP: Logged |
lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 23, 2022 06:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: Personally I am not the biggest fan on susn/uranus square in the composite. And on top of that there is moon opposite Uranus. Emotional disconnectedness. The fact that both people have Taurus energy might make it worse. Taurus does not handle interpersonal space that well. I think if the two are ever to break up, it will come from the red person. Sun is partner's 7th is nice. Perhaps the biggest reason why the AC person feels in love. Overall whether they can work things out, will come to the question of if one or both will break under the cold air of Uranus. Composite sun square chiron. I love that aspect. It means the male is a little more in love and/or invested.
Thank you for replying. I am the person in red and he is the blue one. Can't think of breaking up with him..yet..but who knows what's in store in future. Interesting to hear he is the more in love because I feel like I am the one head over heels, he is a tooooo cool and calm and not prone to expressing mushy feelings,though he is very possessive kind of person. So maybe sun square Chiron gives that possessiveness? We are the couple who wont leave hands for one second when we are out, because he won't leave my hand, and I am ok with that. As for emotional disconnect is concerned, I do get that. It does bug me a little. Both of us have been through a lot of struggles through our lives, bunch of failed relationships, financial issues, he lost his mother at a young age and he was really close to her..etc. etc. And I feel like he now pushes every emotion down, won't express, won't share. And I can't complain because I don't want him to get hurt thinking of past experiences either but then I see his sad eyes and he won't share why he is sad and then it bugs me. Also his job takes him places while mine keeps me in one city, so we have extended periods of long distance relationship status, so is this also because of sun square Uranus? There is certainly a lot of unpredictability in our relationship.
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sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted November 29, 2022 08:45 PM
In the composite, it is said that Uranus squares indicate the relationships just doesn't get off the ground because of "external forces". Just, "something" possibly inexplicable or literal makes it not happen.There's just a feeling that dwells in the interaction that it's not meant to be. Uranus represents an outer force that intrudes into the potential of the union. The Sun symbolises the very heart, identity and the will of the relationship. The Moon is the soul. IP: Logged |
lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 30, 2022 12:03 PM
Ok so it looks like I am just looking through rose tinted glasses and the relationship is not really there, not getting off the ground. Ok that's appreciated, thank you. IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted November 30, 2022 05:32 PM
I think what the tool of astrology brings is that you are able to enter a situation with an informed approach.Which is theoretically, protective. But, as is well known in science, the observer can influence the experiment simply by observing. Given this, it is then possible to influence the course or a relationship by injecting into it, what you see in the charts. It's all very delicate. IP: Logged |
lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 01, 2022 10:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by sassaqua: I think what the tool of astrology brings is that you are able to enter a situation with an informed approach.Which is theoretically, protective. But, as is well known in science, the observer can influence the experiment simply by observing. Given this, it is then possible to influence the course or a relationship by injecting into it, what you see in the charts. It's all very delicate.
Yes (hides face) I am trying to just let things be and not let this analysis color my behavior in any way But some corner of my mind is obviously also stuck on that Uranus square factor And if things don't workout tomorrow it will be tempting to say,oh you know uranus square sun opposite moon, that's the culprit But I know for a fact that's not true, it's upto us, astrology is a tool and it's humans in a relationship who will decide what to do and what not to do... It's extremely confusing Thanks anyway,I really appreciate it. IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted December 01, 2022 11:24 AM
Totally understand. I do it too.New date, I say don't look at the charts. Invariably I look at the charts, and go way deep. It takes the charm out of dating but when I find the bad stuff I am glad I looked at the charts. Its whacky IP: Logged |
Dwhelps Knowflake Posts: 124 From: Registered: Jul 2020
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posted December 01, 2022 07:57 PM
The same problem I have 😛😛On that note, I dated someone who I had a composite Uranus square with, one of those ‘nah, never gonna last’ aspects - and in retrospect, we could have made it work. Just takes a whole lot of patience and communication. We surely loved each other immensely!
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sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 1051 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted December 01, 2022 08:20 PM
Great feedback for the op!
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2694 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted December 02, 2022 02:58 AM
I would say "love" is a feeling completely detached from the charts. True love (not lust) origin is not from this world. It is from much higher up. The charts are events and circumstances from maybe a plane or two beyond our physical one. Love controls and commands even the planets. It is not entirely up to us. It is 50/50 choice and destiny. I am personally very happy that I can read charts. I feel like am better than psychologists and therapists sometimes! Not a long while ago I met this good looking guy whom women were drooling all over, and he was a modest yet cute and smart guy, in a very scientific job (I learned he was a virgo stellium). He could have been a fashion model easily. Despite all that, I felt bored out of my mind whenever I had a conversation with him. Based on this, I immediately bet with myself that I have a trine-loaded composite chart with this guy due to the extreme boredom. He asked me out and I said I would go on a date if he gave me his full birth info. I had asked him several times before but he was always very mysterious about it (later I learned he has pluto in the 3rd house, so fitting of his mental paranoia, he would refuse to believe that I needed his info to look at his natal chart). Eventually I said fine, don't give your info, make it yourself on astro.com and send it to me. He did. I found out his birth info easily from that using the ephemeris, and was finally able to look at my composite with him. What do you know, it had grand trines all over it. Maybe just one opposition. Certainly was not enough to keep either of us interested. IP: Logged |
Stoika7 Knowflake Posts: 2402 From: Rome, Italy Registered: Mar 2019
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posted December 02, 2022 04:35 AM
Hi lovelyricha1, In the composite, Moon is conjunct North Node, and you have a Juno/Neptune/Jupiter stellium, so that's why you feel you found your soulmate... He may actually be, but South Node is attached to Uranus, so there is a lot of instability and ups and downs and periods of physical separation... Uranus/South Node usually points to short term relationships... but yeah, there's a lot of heavenly and romantic feelings, Venus/Mars midpoint trine to Uranus, and Lili0h comjunct Sun/Mercury trine Saturn, if you keep this flame burning it is possible that you may overcome the instability, by accepting that things are how they are... I dont like Juno/Neptune and Pluto quincunx Chiron though, there may be some dynamics of subtle manipulation and unclear direction of the relationship, unsaid and unclear stuff, you both need to open up more to each other or just there is some unrealistic attitude preventing you both to face issues between you two. IP: Logged |
lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 03, 2022 04:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by sassaqua: Totally understand. I do it too.New date, I say don't look at the charts. Invariably I look at the charts, and go way deep. It takes the charm out of dating but when I find the bad stuff I am glad I looked at the charts. Its whacky
Damn if we do, damn if we don't IP: Logged |
lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 03, 2022 04:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dwhelps: The same problem I have 😛😛On that note, I dated someone who I had a composite Uranus square with, one of those ‘nah, never gonna last’ aspects - and in retrospect, we could have made it work. Just takes a whole lot of patience and communication. We surely loved each other immensely!
Ahhh,...so maybe we make it work and set a new trend IP: Logged |
lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 03, 2022 04:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: I would say "love" is a feeling completely detached from the charts. True love (not lust) origin is not from this world. It is from much higher up. The charts are events and circumstances from maybe a plane or two beyond our physical one. Love controls and commands even the planets. It is not entirely up to us. It is 50/50 choice and destiny. I am personally very happy that I can read charts. I feel like am better than psychologists and therapists sometimes! Not a long while ago I met this good looking guy whom women were drooling all over, and he was a modest yet cute and smart guy, in a very scientific job (I learned he was a virgo stellium). He could have been a fashion model easily. Despite all that, I felt bored out of my mind whenever I had a conversation with him. Based on this, I immediately bet with myself that I have a trine-loaded composite chart with this guy due to the extreme boredom. He asked me out and I said I would go on a date if he gave me his full birth info. I had asked him several times before but he was always very mysterious about it (later I learned he has pluto in the 3rd house, so fitting of his mental paranoia, he would refuse to believe that I needed his info to look at his natal chart). Eventually I said fine, don't give your info, make it yourself on astro.com and send it to me. He did. I found out his birth info easily from that using the ephemeris, and was finally able to look at my composite with him. What do you know, it had grand trines all over it. Maybe just one opposition. Certainly was not enough to keep either of us interested.
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lovelyricha1 Knowflake Posts: 174 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 03, 2022 04:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stoika7: Hi lovelyricha1, In the composite, Moon is conjunct North Node, and you have a Juno/Neptune/Jupiter stellium, so that's why you feel you found your soulmate... He may actually be, but South Node is attached to Uranus, so there is a lot of instability and ups and downs and periods of physical separation... Uranus/South Node usually points to short term relationships... but yeah, there's a lot of heavenly and romantic feelings, Venus/Mars midpoint trine to Uranus, and Lili0h comjunct Sun/Mercury trine Saturn, if you keep this flame burning it is possible that you may overcome the instability, by accepting that things are how they are... I dont like Juno/Neptune and Pluto quincunx Chiron though, there may be some dynamics of subtle manipulation and unclear direction of the relationship, unsaid and unclear stuff, you both need to open up more to each other or just there is some unrealistic attitude preventing you both to face issues between you two.
Opening up, more communication, that's what I have zeroed down on..even before I shared the charts here..if only I could get him to open up more, I need him to talk to me and not stew in his feelings, rein them in because of his past.. Thanks, much appreciated IP: Logged | |