posted November 29, 2022 01:26 AM            

A guy from my primary school contacted me on FB and we caught up and had an amazing night full of laughter and that ended with a beautiful kiss.

Like me, he is not married and with no children. He told me that he loves me and heaps of other stuff.

Since, I've been doing the charts, one aspect after another.

Finally, looking at all the crap aspects together tells me what a really bad time I would have in this situation.

These are the bad aspects:

His Sun, Mars, and Mercury, are in my 7th house (over time, open enemies, and x3 = a LOT of planets)
His Pluto is sesisquare my Sun exact
His Neptune is square my Sun
His Saturn is square my Sun

My Sun is then, in a Tsquare with his Neptune and Saturn opposition, AND my Sun is sesisquare his Pluto.

Given I hardly have any Pluto in my natal chart AND that my Sun has ONLY squares in my natal, my Sun just wouldn't survive this situation. I would be eaten alive.

He on the other hand has a very well supported Sun with heaps of excellent supports that includes Saturn and outer planets.

To top it off, his Jupiter is trine my Sun... ENLARGING the whole dynamic. And perhaps, too, luring me in with the heightened feelings of optimism, along with his planets in my 7th.

No thanks, I'll be staying away from this one even though the magic fairytale would be amazing. We are very different people though.

Let this be a lesson - always look at the whole picture and each person's chart if your time and heart are valuable.