posted December 17, 2022 07:21 PM            

Synastry http://ibb.co/0tkH4dj

Composite
http://ibb.co/M92Bg0j

posted December 21, 2022 02:01 PM            

First thing I noticed was that your ascendants conjunct. Is his TOB accurate? Also, are you on the inside, the Gemini Sun?

IMO Ascendants conjunction give an immediate sense of kinship, you both have a sense that the other is like you, relates to you, has a similar background as you.

I can definitely see the attraction on your part, with your packed 5H, his moon falling in your 7H, and a large part of his Cap stellium trining your Mars/Mercury and conjuncting your Neptune.

However, I don't sense a deep romantic attraction on his part. I think he may find you fascinating, is intrigued by you, but I think over time it will fade away.

I say this because: His stellium conjuncting your Neptune brings a deep fascination, but the honeymoon period will pass and once the fog clears away, we're left with a solid inconjunction to your Sun and Venus. I think this is an indication he may be fascinated with the idea of you, but will eventually realize he assumed lots about who you are, and in reality you are different than what he expected. I think this will mainly be his fault for not taking the time to see/know the real you.

At the same time, your Sun/Venus will feel unseen. As these are two huge aspects of who you are, you may end up unfufilled, having to pretend to be someone you aren't to remain satisfied. You may feel, when you are most yourself, it just won't click with him.

His Jupiter also inconjuncts your Mars/Mercury. Also contributes to the above.

Your planets mainly fall in platonic houses for him (9H, 10H), where he activates your romantic 5H and 7H. Neptune and Jupiter in his 5H is nice, but with those inconjunctions, I worry 5H Neptune is an indicator of him projecting his ideals onto you. Once again, when the fog lifts, those inconjunctions start showing themselves.

His Saturn in your 7H, and your Saturn in his 8H, also point to an obstruction of intimacy.

The composite looks nicer than the synastry to me. I like the 7H Stellium (I'm including Sun and Saturn in the 7H, I use equal houses.) but the Sun/Saturn conjunction in the 7H may prevent the partnership from expressing itself fully.

Venus and Moon in the 8H promises intensity, so in the bedroom you may be compatible, but that Moon square Neptune reinforces the idea that the relationship isn't grounded in reality.

This is just my two cents. With his Pisces moon, he may like this ungrounded, idealistic energy. And as a Pisces moon myself, I adore Taurus moons.

Overall I see an attraction on your side (ooh, your mars opposite pluto...) but based on astrology, I'd guess over time the relationship falls a bit flat.

posted December 21, 2022 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by anevolena:
Not nearly as experienced as Stoika but I'll do my best.

First thing I noticed was that your ascendants conjunct. Is his TOB accurate? Also, are you on the inside, the Gemini Sun?

IMO Ascendants conjunction give an immediate sense of kinship, you both have a sense that the other is like you, relates to you, has a similar background as you.

I can definitely see the attraction on your part, with your packed 5H, his moon falling in your 7H, and a large part of his Cap stellium trining your Mars/Mercury and conjuncting your Neptune.

However, I don't sense a deep romantic attraction on his part. I think he may find you fascinating, is intrigued by you, but I think over time it will fade away.

I say this because: His stellium conjuncting your Neptune brings a deep fascination, but the honeymoon period will pass and once the fog clears away, we're left with a solid inconjunction to your Sun and Venus. I think this is an indication he may be fascinated with the idea of you, but will eventually realize he assumed lots about who you are, and in reality you are different than what he expected. I think this will mainly be his fault for not taking the time to see/know the real you.

At the same time, your Sun/Venus will feel unseen. As these are two huge aspects of who you are, you may end up unfufilled, having to pretend to be someone you aren't to remain satisfied. You may feel, when you are most yourself, it just won't click with him.

His Jupiter also inconjuncts your Mars/Mercury. Also contributes to the above.

Your planets mainly fall in platonic houses for him (9H, 10H), where he activates your romantic 5H and 7H. Neptune and Jupiter in his 5H is nice, but with those inconjunctions, I worry 5H Neptune is an indicator of him projecting his ideals onto you. Once again, when the fog lifts, those inconjunctions start showing themselves.

His Saturn in your 7H, and your Saturn in his 8H, also point to an obstruction of intimacy.

The composite looks nicer than the synastry to me. I like the 7H Stellium (I'm including Sun and Saturn in the 7H, I use equal houses.) but the Sun/Saturn conjunction in the 7H may prevent the partnership from expressing itself fully.

Venus and Moon in the 8H promises intensity, so in the bedroom you may be compatible, but that Moon square Neptune reinforces the idea that the relationship isn't grounded in reality.

This is just my two cents. With his Pisces moon, he may like this ungrounded, idealistic energy. And as a Pisces moon myself, I adore Taurus moons.

Overall I see an attraction on your side (ooh, your mars opposite pluto...) but based on astrology, I'd guess over time the relationship falls a bit flat.

Best of luck!

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posted December 22, 2022 12:29 PM            

If he’s gone that long in love with you I’d bet he knows the real you by this point lol.

You know each other much more than I do— I’m still learning astrology myself

Can I ask, what makes you ask? What makes you (possibly) doubt this may last?