posted January 05, 2023 08:36 PM            

I am so in love with him, I've never loved anyone more. recently I had a blow up on him when we were on our way to a club about another girl he was texting next to me, and my best friend talked to him about it. he told her he loves me, but we haven't talked about it since, and I don't know if he could mean that he loves me the way I do... I broke things off once last year and told him he needs to back off, and he only lasted a week before he tried talking to me again. he recently told me he did that because he missed me. we're inseparable, something about this feels karmic, I know what he's thinking, he knows me better than anyone. I see him in my dreams, and they feel prophetic -- I dream of things he says or does before he does them.

he's red I'm blue.

posted January 05, 2023 08:47 PM            

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posted January 05, 2023 10:02 PM            

I can't directly answer if he loves you, I'm no expert lol.

It looks like his pluto is in opposition to your moon. That will create magnetism and intensity, probably some longing feelings and a possessiveness - whether that is coming from pluto or the moon I'm not sure; perhaps they both experience the same feelings but I feel like Pluto would have more of that intensity while moon would be on the receiving end? Or even vice versa.

Sun trine Moon as far as I can see, that's nice.

Jupiter opp Jupiter? I am not sure how that would play out, differing views on things? Or one day you are agreeing and the next you are on completely opposite sides of an idea.

I also think Jupiter is opposite mars, perhaps when you have differing opinions this could create a bit of anger. Maybe your differing ideas will sort of irke each other?

Looks like mars are conjunct I think - creates an understanding in rhythm perhaps - but could get a little heated if you get in each others way.

Venus in Cap squares your sun I think, not the end of the world - it could just be different tastes, or doesn't always get how you express yourself?

Your venus sextile his merc I think, that's nice for chatting or understanding "like" through words?

I think your pluto is trine his venus? That's nice, intense but not as intense as with the opp.

I'm not sure if this is a proper T-square or what but it looks like your jupiter is square to his pluto, and then his pluto is square your mars?

The sense I get, whether the aspects are right or wrong, is that there are mutual feelings but they may be coated with a bit of longing?

posted January 05, 2023 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
I sometimes struggle to see the aspects in that form; it's easier for me in grid form. But I'll do my best; sorry if some are wrong.

I can't directly answer if he loves you, I'm no expert lol.

It looks like his pluto is in opposition to your moon. That will create magnetism and intensity, probably some longing feelings and a possessiveness - whether that is coming from pluto or the moon I'm not sure; perhaps they both experience the same feelings but I feel like Pluto would have more of that intensity while moon would be on the receiving end? Or even vice versa.

Sun trine Moon as far as I can see, that's nice.

Jupiter opp Jupiter? I am not sure how that would play out, differing views on things? Or one day you are agreeing and the next you are on completely opposite sides of an idea.

I also think Jupiter is opposite mars, perhaps when you have differing opinions this could create a bit of anger. Maybe your differing ideas will sort of irke each other?

Looks like mars are conjunct I think - creates an understanding in rhythm perhaps - but could get a little heated if you get in each others way.

Venus in Cap squares your sun I think, not the end of the world - it could just be different tastes, or doesn't always get how you express yourself?

Your venus sextile his merc I think, that's nice for chatting or understanding "like" through words?

I think your pluto is trine his venus? That's nice, intense but not as intense as with the opp.

I'm not sure if this is a proper T-square or what but it looks like your jupiter is square to his pluto, and then his pluto is square your mars?

The sense I get, whether the aspects are right or wrong, is that there are mutual feelings but they may be coated with a bit of longing?

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sometimes I think I feel more intensely for him until I remember how he couldn't let me go when I broke things off... maybe the longing is equal, but he is better at hiding or controlling it. aquariuses are so hard to read, lol. I love them but it always feels like I'm searching for an understanding of them that I'll never get.

the stuff about anger/things getting heated are so spot on. we've had spats, but never angry at the same time. one of us will get short tempered with the other, and the other backs down. we immediately feel bad, but it does get heated.

I'm glad that you see that they seem to be mutual feelings. it's hard to get him to speak anything of feelings, but his Capricorn Venus has him constantly trying to help with acts of service - fixing things, helping around the house, bringing me small things from the store like a coffee, etc. so I try to look at his actions rather than words.

posted January 05, 2023 10:46 PM            

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Originally posted by emniwa:
sometimes I think I feel more intensely for him until I remember how he couldn't let me go when I broke things off... maybe the longing is equal, but he is better at hiding or controlling it. aquariuses are so hard to read, lol. I love them but it always feels like I'm searching for an understanding of them that I'll never get.

the stuff about anger/things getting heated are so spot on. we've had spats, but never angry at the same time. one of us will get short tempered with the other, and the other backs down. we immediately feel bad, but it does get heated.

I'm glad that you see that they seem to be mutual feelings. it's hard to get him to speak anything of feelings, but his Capricorn Venus has him constantly trying to help with acts of service - fixing things, helping around the house, bringing me small things from the store like a coffee, etc. so I try to look at his actions rather than words.

do you have any thoughts on my moon in his 12h? at least I think I am reading the chart right and that's the placement. I'm also new to this

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posted January 05, 2023 10:55 PM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
I confused are you the aries or gem moon?

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posted January 05, 2023 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
I confused are you the aries or gem moon?

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posted January 05, 2023 11:37 PM            

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Originally posted by anevolena:
First thing I noticed was Sun conjunct Saturn DW, your Venus conjuncting his ascendant, and his Venus conjunct your Neptune and Uranus. I’d say he absolutely feels a genuine connection with you, as demonstrated in your post.

Sometimes astrology only goes so far. Clearly you have a strong bond, but he may just be having a hard time processing his feelings. Unsolicited non astrological advice, just be honest with him about your feelings.

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posted January 05, 2023 11:38 PM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Do you mean his moon is in your 12TH?

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posted January 05, 2023 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by emniwa:
i am the Gemini moon

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posted January 31, 2023 12:44 AM            

With his Moon in your 12H, do you find that he is attuned to you on a deep level, or do you find it hard to read his emotions?

Your Venus conjunct his ASC indicates that you find him attractive. Your Neptune conjunct his Venus is very romantic. You likely idealize him. Your Uranus conjunct his Venus adds excitement and sparkle, which I think balances the seriousness of the Sun-Saturn double whammy.

posted January 31, 2023 05:24 AM            

Can you post a composite and a progressed composite, both with transits? I am not an expert on composites, just curious, and maybe someone will see something.

posted January 31, 2023 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Dhyana:
Sun conjunct Moon indicates a sense of being a unit and complimentary, yin and yang. A classic synastry aspect in significant relationships. In the 12H it can be very private in some way or at times, although there's a DW Sun-Moon in the 10H-11H as well.

With his Moon in your 12H, do you find that he is attuned to you on a deep level, or do you find it hard to read his emotions?

Your Venus conjunct his ASC indicates that you find him attractive. Your Neptune conjunct his Venus is very romantic. You likely idealize him. Your Uranus conjunct his Venus adds excitement and sparkle, which I think balances the seriousness of the Sun-Saturn double whammy.

Based on the above, it looks mutual and binding.

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posted January 31, 2023 10:31 PM            

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Originally posted by AlmaRegulus:
You definitely have a lot going on in synastry, your Venus conjunct not only his Asc but also Antivertex. Moon opposite Pluto... Sun-Saturn DW... Venus on Neptune & Uranus.

Can you post a composite and a progressed composite, both with transits? I am not an expert on composites, just curious, and maybe someone will see something.

What is your interpretation why you guys don't go on further into a relationship?

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i hope i did this right...

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posted February 03, 2023 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by emniwa:
he is very attuned to me, but yes, he himself is hard to read. i feel like i get him but also that he's a mystery at the same time? and i do idealize him... in my eyes, he's the most amazing person i've ever met. do you maybe have any more insight on how he feels?

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Sorry for the delay in replying. The Moon rules his 5H, which although it doesn't guarantee a romantic attraction, it's conjunct your Sun, so the chances are very good he is attracted to you romantically. You also have an ultra romantic double whammy Venus-Neptune: his Neptune sextiles your Venus, and your Neptune is conjunct his Venus.

But, keep in mind that his Moon is conjunct Saturn in his 1H, which means he is rather cautious and guarded about his feelings. He also has Venus square Saturn. This indicates that he's probably insecure with women in general, which is no reflection on you at all.

Seeing his Chiron in the 8H, there may be a deep wound around physical and/or emotional intimacy, which may account for his reluctance to engage at the sexual level. Also Mars, which relates to his desire nature and sexuality, in Pisces is highly sensitive, as I'm sure you know.

Are you sure about the times of birth for you both and are they exact?

posted February 04, 2023 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Dhyana:
Sorry for the delay in replying. The Moon rules his 5H, which although it doesn't guarantee a romantic attraction, it's conjunct your Sun, so the chances are very good he is attracted to you romantically. You also have an ultra romantic double whammy Venus-Neptune: his Neptune sextiles your Venus, and your Neptune is conjunct his Venus.

But, keep in mind that his Moon is conjunct Saturn in his 1H, which means he is rather cautious and guarded about his feelings. He also has Venus square Saturn. This indicates that he's probably insecure with women in general, which is no reflection on you at all.

Seeing his Chiron in the 8H, there may be a deep wound around physical and/or emotional intimacy, which may account for his reluctance to engage at the sexual level. Also Mars, which relates to his desire nature and sexuality, in Pisces is highly sensitive, as I'm sure you know.

Are you sure about the times of birth for you both and are they exact?

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oh there is no rush at all, so no worries! we all have lives. he is afraid of women, yes, lol. i was always the one making the first move each time we were intimate, and it took a long time for him to actually be comfortable. i like shy men, and i have venus in aries so i love a chase, it did not bother me. with his chiron, there is definitely trauma. the other night, he opened up to me finally and cried a lot about some stuff, and it broke my heart but explained some things. i had never seen him cry before, or open up and talk about things very much.

i am not sure if the birth time in the above chart was accurate down to the exact minute because i did find out at some point his exact birth time. i'll post another one, it might be the same. it was about 40 mins off from what he originally told me, but changed his rising from pisces to aries.

posted February 05, 2023 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Dhyana:
emniwa, if you would like more feedback from people, also re-post the Composite chart with the correct birth time. OR, is the one you've already posted the correct TOB?

And thank you for the update. This is a very good sign. It looks like he feels safe and comfortable with you enough to open up and be vulnerable, which is huge, and an honor for you to receive him.

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