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CappyLove
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posted January 28, 2023 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi guys,

So my partner and I have been together for a long time, going to make 10 years in March but we've had many arguments about marriage, we were supposed to get engaged many times by now and I guess that's where the Uranus square Venus comes to play in the Davison chart. Can anyone see any signs in these charts if there is a strong possibility of getting to that (we already have the rings, dress and all that). Another big thing for me is kids, I'm dying for them!! Are kids outlined for us?
Here are our Davison, Composite and Synastry charts and our Natal's for extra help! I really appreciate it...I'm really freaking out at this point

His natal:


My natal:

Synastry:

Composite:

Davison:
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posted January 30, 2023 10:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 10, 2023 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted February 11, 2023 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for girlwiththerainysoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you elaborate more on what he says when you mention your needs to him?

Astrology-wise, he sounds like a typical virgo sun man. many of them don't get married until late 30s.

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posted February 12, 2023 05:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi! Thanks for replying! Just that he's not ready yet due to finances and wants kids as soon as we're more financially stable. As for marriage he doesn't understand my deep need since it's just a piece of paper. This year he says he'll do it since he wants to keep me in his life. I've been having a hard solar return with Saturn opposite Moon and it's taking a toll on me and in a way our relationship. I'm torn cuz I really do love him but my need to move forward with him from this stagnation is ever so high!

My solar return:

His solar return:

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posted February 13, 2023 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sassaqua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Probably the reason you don't get response is that it's too difficult to read charts that must be on different tabs.

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posted February 13, 2023 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Probably the reason you don't get response is that it's too difficult to read charts that must be on different tabs.

Thank you for the tip! Finally managed to fix it!

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posted February 15, 2023 06:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone, please??

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Stoika7
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posted February 15, 2023 06:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi dear CappyLove!

Looking at the composite, I would say YES, you will get married. Transiting Saturn in Aquarius going square to comp. Pluto/Mars in the 10th house while traveling through the comp. ASC and then square to Comp. Sun has been blocking the situation completely as for planning the future, creating big conflicts in the last two years... Also, tr. Uranus retrograde square the ASC/DSC axis wasnt very favourable and created instability around these plans. transiting south node has been traveling the tenth house giving these insecurities also at finacial level. But North Node has travelled through IC so the plans are still on the table.
I think your plans will start taking off in spring as soon as Pluto enters Aquarius heading to your Moon/Juno/Saturn stellium with transiting nodes square to the stellium. Then you may have some delays again until 2024 for effectively getting married.
Consider that this stellium is in the 12th house, so the marriage suggested by the stellium looks like a challenged plan, but again when tr. Jupiter will be conjunct to composite IC and Saturn finally in Pisces, your plans will go smoother...
Composite Mercury square the stellium is also challenging since it may suggest that you're not always on the same page as a married couple, or that different views are the challenge for the marriage plan itself. Same as for having kids, he may not have your same wish/ideas as yours. Chiron is opposite the stellium, this doesn't look very promising honestly as for having kids, it may take some time, but soon the nodes are going to be square to Chiron, so maybe there will be a resolution about this disagreements as well.

Dont' lose hope and have a bit more patience Cappy! I feel things are going to unfold in spring, it seems you will have to put some effort on all this, but it does look promising to me. Big hugs! I feel that in spring you will be ready for a plan, if there are delays this year, you will get married in 2024.

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posted February 15, 2023 06:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi dear CappyLove!

Looking at the composite, I would say YES, you will get married. Transiting Saturn in Aquarius going square to comp. Pluto/Mars in the 10th house while traveling through the comp. ASC and then square to Comp. Sun has been blocking the situation completely as for planning the future, creating big conflicts in the last two years... Also, tr. Uranus retrograde square the ASC/DSC axis wasnt very favourable and created instability around these plans. transiting south node has been traveling the tenth house giving these insecurities also at finacial level. But North Node has travelled through IC so the plans are still on the table.
I think your plans will start taking off in spring as soon as Pluto enters Aquarius heading to your Moon/Juno/Saturn stellium with transiting nodes square to the stellium. Then you may have some delays again until 2024 for effectively getting married.
Consider that this stellium is in the 12th house, so the marriage suggested by the stellium looks like a challenged plan, but again when tr. Jupiter will be conjunct to composite IC and Saturn finally in Pisces, your plans will go smoother...
Composite Mercury square the stellium is also challenging since it may suggest that you're not always on the same page as a married couple, or that different views are the challenge for the marriage plan itself. Same as for having kids, he may not have your same wish/ideas as yours. Chiron is opposite the stellium, this doesn't look very promising honestly as for having kids, it may take some time, but soon the nodes are going to be square to Chiron, so maybe there will be a resolution about this disagreements as well.

Dont' lose hope and have a bit more patience Cappy! I feel things are going to unfold in spring, it seems you will have to put some effort on all this, but it does look promising to me. Big hugs! I feel that in spring you will be ready for a plan, if there are delays this year, you will get married in 2024.


Hi Stoika!

Thank you sooo much for the reading! I do appreciate it as I'm going through depressive states (saturn opposite moon this year) which is horrid! All due to fear that things are coming to an end
I do have a question about Davison charts, from what I have seen from this relationship, they might be more accurate. What is your opinion on Davison vs Composite?
What is your opinion on this solar return as well??

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posted February 15, 2023 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CappyLove:
Hi Stoika!

Thank you sooo much for the reading! I do appreciate it as I'm going through depressive states (saturn opposite moon this year) which is horrid! All due to fear that things are coming to an end
I do have a question about Davison charts, from what I have seen from this relationship, they might be more accurate. What is your opinion on Davison vs Composite?


Hi lovely! as for Davidson chart, in my own experience I have always agreed with Todd, it doesn't turn out too effective to me.

As for saturn against moon, I know what you mean, I am having Saturn on my Sun square my Moon for the second time this year (after the retrograde motion) and it hugely sucks!!! But it is going to end soon!
I'd advice you though to resist falling into depression, use this Saturn energy to find more emotional control, cause otherwise your negative state of mind could have negative effects on the relationship and your plans... in summer you will have tr. saturn opposite composite Jupiter while Pluto will go back to capricorn, and this may give some instability, but you have to get there with a more established plan and excitement, from spring on use the transforming Pluto energy in revolutionary Aquarius getting close to the Moon/Juno/Saturn stellium to have a positive r-evolution of the relationship and looking positively at the future!

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posted February 15, 2023 06:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi lovely! as for Davidson chart, in my own experience I have always agreed with Todd, it doesn't turn out too effective to me.

As for saturn against moon, I know what you mean, I am having Saturn on my Sun square my Moon for the second time this year (after the retrograde motion) and it hugely sucks!!! But it is going to end soon!
I'd advice you though to resist falling into depression, use this Saturn energy to find more emotional control, cause otherwise your negative state of mind could have negative effects on the relationship and your plans... in summer you will have tr. saturn opposite composite Jupiter while Pluto will go back to capricorn, and this may give some instability, but you have to get there with a more established plan and excitement, from spring on use the transforming Pluto energy in revolutionary Aquarius getting close to the Moon/Juno/Saturn stellium to have a positive r-evolution of the relationship and looking positively at the future!


Thank you once again! Oh, I am sorry you are going through that! That sucks!!
Hmmmm, well it helps to be aware of possible complications and not to fall into the trap, its quite hard though as I'm already kinda there. I don't want to jeopardize what the good we do have. As for seeing things differently, we come from different countries and cultures so that's inevitable.
And how about him? This is his solar return until September. Trying to figure out his head.

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posted February 15, 2023 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Reading Solar return takes some time cause it has to be compared to the natal charts, and I am not a big expert of this. But it seems to me that both your solar returns match with my prediction of transits to composite, cause you both have the Sun in the 4th house. You have Uranus/North node in the 8th house and this means you need to make some "Revolution" within yourself, and this revolution will manifest also in what you want to achieve. He has Pluto in his 8th house, so I guess he will be pursuing his ambitions in career/finance.

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posted February 15, 2023 07:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Reading Solar return takes some time cause it has to be compared to the natal charts, and I am not a big expert of this. But it seems to me that both your solar returns match with my prediction of transits to composite, cause you both have the Sun in the 4th house. You have Uranus/North node in the 8th house and this means you need to make some "Revolution" within yourself, and this revolution will manifest also in what you want to achieve. He has Pluto in his 8th house, so I guess he will be pursuing his ambitions in career/finance.

Thank you soo much!!! I can do a tarrot reading for you later this week if you like! You have been very kind!

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posted February 15, 2023 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh you're welcome darling!!! Please stay positive ❤️
Thank you sooo much for offering a tarot reading! whenever you are up for it I'd be happy, thank you! :-)

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posted February 15, 2023 07:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Oh you're welcome darling!!! Please stay positive ❤️
Thank you sooo much for offering a tarot reading! whenever you are up for it I'd be happy, thank you! :-)

Thank you for your kind words! Leave your question here and I'll have a look for you during the weekend

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posted February 15, 2023 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone see if we are destined for kids next year?

Composite with Transits for next year:

Natal with Solar return for him:

Natal and Solar return for me:

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posted February 15, 2023 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone see if we are destined for kids next year?

Composite with Transits for next year:

Natal with Solar return for him:

Natal and Solar return for me:

Clean solar return for me:

Clean Solar return for him:

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posted February 15, 2023 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stoika7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thank you for your kind words! Leave your question here and I'll have a look for you during the weekend

Thank you! My question is: what can I expect if I meet J again? what potential outcome in our connection?

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posted February 18, 2023 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CappyLove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Thank you! My question is: what can I expect if I meet J again? what potential outcome in our connection?

Hi Stoika,

Here's the reading as promised!
Wow! Majority of the cards I just pulled out are from the Major Arcana!
So at present you feel forgiveness and compassion for this person and there's some feeling of stability while at the same time feeling like being at war. I'm guessing that you feel conflicted for having forgiven them or even for feeling conpassion for them.
For the future I think you'd there'd be some fruitfulness as outcome to the meeting.
In the past there seemed to have been a level of serenity with them but in the recent past there was deception, looks to me that something bad happened between you as a result to thoughtlessness, immaturity or even insecurity.
Currently, you feel that you could establish a loyal friendship or a more stable partnership as you are prospering, feeling more secure and quite charitable. Your dream is to succeed with this person as a result of all of your efforts and as a final outcome there will be improvement of circumstances and almost like a rebirth with this person as a result of the forgiveness I mentioned earlier.
I hope that makes sense to you! Do let me know what you think!

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