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Topic: Could all these conjunctions work? Includes Lilith. Please advise
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Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 07, 2023 01:39 PM
  
Hello everyone!
I would love to hear what you think of this synastry with my crush of 2 years and a friend who I see quite a bit, and hang out on our own without others as well. The whole time I wanted him bad and thought I felt some special vibes but nothing real, actually quite a bit of turning me away, it seemed like. Until this year when we had two encounters with clothes dropping, and talked about how we want each other but are afraid to risk the friendship, that fear mainly comes from him because he runs from relationships in his life. And he says he has to be very careful. Meaning I guess not go over too deep. He's the active runner of commitment phones. I'm the passive one. I'm kinda convinced I've been into trying to get him for this long because in a twisted way I enjoy the longing and fantasizing.What do you think? Could it have a future synastry -wise?
To me the attraction is crazy strong and I can’t stop thinking about him. And we are slightly involved but he’s afraid and I’m kind of as well now that’s been turning into reality more.
I just really wanna know if this could function. I want it so bad but knowing about the Lilith power of trying to resist and the fear, I wonder. Thank you!! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 08, 2023 09:19 AM
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StoneMoon
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posted February 09, 2023 07:19 AM
Do you want to post the charts? We can't do much without them, but you will get more help if you do post them.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 21, 2023 07:26 AM
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Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 24, 2023 10:13 PM
I don't know how to post the charts.
I could list it all if that helps.IP: Logged |
Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 24, 2023 10:27 PM
My chart:
Ascendant in Scorpio in I
Sun in aquarius in III
Moon in Virgo in midheaven
Mercury in aquarius in III
Venus in Aries in V
Mars in Aries in V
Jupiter in aquarius in III
Saturn in Scorpio IN i
Uranus in Sagittarius in II
Neptune in Capricorn in II
Pluto in Scorpio in XII
Lilith in Aries in V
North node in taurus in VIICRUSH
ascendant in Sag in I
Sun in Aries in IV
Moon in Capricorn in I asc
Mercury in Aries in III
Venus in Aries in III
Mars in Taurus in V
Jupiter in aquarius in II
Saturn in Scorpio in XI
Uranus in Sagittarius in XII
Neptune in Capricorn in I asc
Pluto in Scorpio in midheaven
Lilith in Aries in IV
North node in taurus in V
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implosions
Knowflake Posts: 579
From: canada
Registered: Aug 2017
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posted February 25, 2023 07:43 PM
Any connection that involves Lilith is gonna require a LOT of freedom between two people. Not just there, but also having a really comfortable friendship with your OWN sense of freedom. If the person in question has a history of running from relationships, or they say such; believe them! It doesn't mean that anything is doomed, but if they're already ready and willing to commit to the role of running, then they'll run- whether they return is possibly part of it. Lilith energy in Aries, with not just both your Venus, but their Sun ... I'm guessing they will be the one needing all the extra freedom. However, Lilith in synastry can be a lot about reflection. Is your own sense of freedom in a good place? How free do you feel to live your fullest life? Aries energy especially will demand a level of freedom- it's the chaotic little lamb, the puppy energy of the zodiac. The fire can go out if there is not a natural freedom. Not to confuse with Sagittarius as much- Aries also loves being part of the herd. The individual, barely aware of Self until they truly learn the Other, and how they are both separate and the same. -R IP: Logged |
Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 25, 2023 10:27 PM
Thank you so much for your response!I was telling him that he will have to want to make it work.
I kinda like the pull-push because I like to be a little surprising, but I don't want it to be like that forever. I'm very independent myself, and if anyone will describe me, they will say that I'm after my best life at all times. I'm an avid powder chaser, and I have a lot of friends, but I do things a lot on my own as well, I like to get the full choice a lot and you sometimes can't plan with others to get it. With him, I'm dreaming we could live a life as life partners, but I wonder if the timing is right. Maybe he will mature some. But it's a little hard to be on a standby too. Also it makes it hard to be in other relationships, even if I'm fully into it, I still have him in my dreams and I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings or waste their time. IP: Logged |
Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 25, 2023 10:28 PM
We are both 38, btw.And I will learn how to post the charts. IP: Logged |
Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 25, 2023 10:29 PM
Thank you so much that you took time to advise me! I really appreciate it.
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Originally posted by implosions:
Any connection that involves Lilith is gonna require a LOT of freedom between two people. Not just there, but also having a really comfortable friendship with your OWN sense of freedom. If the person in question has a history of running from relationships, or they say such; believe them! It doesn't mean that anything is doomed, but if they're already ready and willing to commit to the role of running, then they'll run- whether they return is possibly part of it. Lilith energy in Aries, with not just both your Venus, but their Sun ... I'm guessing they will be the one needing all the extra freedom. However, Lilith in synastry can be a lot about reflection. Is your own sense of freedom in a good place? How free do you feel to live your fullest life? Aries energy especially will demand a level of freedom- it's the chaotic little lamb, the puppy energy of the zodiac. The fire can go out if there is not a natural freedom. Not to confuse with Sagittarius as much- Aries also loves being part of the herd. The individual, barely aware of Self until they truly learn the Other, and how they are both separate and the same. -R
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Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 25, 2023 10:37 PM
I'm definitely wanting to provide freedom. My big belief is to let who you love, use their wings and wonder and grow alone, and return to who accepts them for their true self. Which I find to be my best characteristic and I want someone who would appreciate it. In my past relationship I wasn't getting the freedom I need, and my will to give freedom wasn't appreciated. I'm looking for that.
I'm hoping that it's a good sign we have been friends. And a good sign we don't want it to be ruined. But I can definitely see the bad in considering it could get ruined, we should BOTH know, we wouldn't let it.IP: Logged |
Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 26, 2023 01:35 PM
https://photos.app.goo.gl/oxbfPYQNXRh47UtHAMy chart IP: Logged |
Sharkacr1
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Denver, co, usa
Registered: Feb 2023
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posted February 26, 2023 01:36 PM
https://photos.app.goo.gl/udCLVcM6TTrV58hh7Crush's chart IP: Logged |
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