posted March 24, 2023 01:34 AM            

We started talking casually, as friends around October of this year and we have been in constant communication ever since. This is the longest I have ever talked to someone online. We live in two different countries but we make time for each often, we talk through Face-time a lot and we have pics, vids and selfies of each other. To be honest,I don't find the guy particularly attractive but he's attentive, sensitive, smart and kind which why I didn't want to cut off contact.
Lately, he's been hinting about wanting to take a vacation and come to my country to meet me. I can't help but feel hesitant, I don't know if I should say yes because while I'm intellectually attracted to him, I'm not physically and I don't know how to deal with it. I feel terrible about it and I don't know what to do.

I also looked at our Synastry out of curiosity and all the hard aspects to our moons freaked me out tbh. It's not comforting in the least.

posted March 24, 2023 08:05 AM            

the mutual Jupiters for example. They sit among a whole lot of crappy though, and, so, they also stand out even more.

If either of you are reclusive or depressed people the Jupiters are aspects that could make you turn to each other for close companionship, and depend on each other for up-lifting. Of course Jupiter on Mercury is a riot!

There are other aspects too that are nice, and some really not so nice for an intimate in particular. His Moon doesn't look good in that synastry, yeah.. nope.

By the looks of it (quick glance) you've both got natal challenges.. maybe this is why you have found companionship in each other?

When people are of similar age range I always look at how Chiron is aspected. And there are some interesting exchanges here to be careful of.

Can't you have it your way and just say how you like him and all but will not promise anything romantic? Just because someone visits doesn't mean you owe them a joyride.