posted April 10, 2023 04:48 PM            

This is the synastry and composite with someone I feel to be a soulmate.

http://imgur.com/a/c6V5rAA

I'm not looking for advice, although I'd love your thoughts. I am mainly just sharing an example of someone I feel confident is a soulmate. The bulk of our relationship has passed, but he and I still have a great bond. I'd thought I'd share if soulmate synastry is of any interest to you.

I met him at work. This job is one of my favorite things. It gives me meaning. Everyone that works there loves it, and that place is a hub of significant people for me. He was one of the first people I ever met there, and from the moment I met him I knew we clicked.

I felt comfortable around him, we were in sync. I knew I could trust him and I felt a very strong kinship with him. We had a bond, but our story started during the pandemic.

Our place of work closed during the pandemic, which took a very strong mental toll on him. I intentionally stayed in contact with him. Right before we closed we had a moment that sparked massive sexual chemistry. So our relationship took a sharp turn in that direction in the year or so we were closed. While our relationship was primarily sexual there was this very deep, significant undercurrent flowing. I knew he needed me. I was one of the few people there for him during the pandemic. He was also very special to me-- I felt very safe with him, and hanging out with him felt very, very familiar and natural. I lost my virginity to him, and I indulged him in his own special firsts. We also kept our sexual relationship entirely secret. We did not want anyone at work to know.

From the same job I was friends with someone else. We also had a very deep connection-- his draconic sun exactly conjuncts my draconic moon. This person and I had a strong bond and was a significant person in my life too. Well, during the pandemic this person turned very dark and jealous. He turned very manipulative and was pitting the people at work against other people, one being my soulmate in question. Person B felt he was a better fit for his job so he started subtly turning the people at work against him, and belittling his accomplishments and character. Person B thought I was completely loyal to him. He had no way of knowing that internally I felt much closer to Person A. In this way I felt like a double agent, and it was not a comfortable feeling.

Person B confided in me while he was doing this, unaware that I was hanging out with Person A. It got to the point where I felt very torn between the two, and I was deeply uncomfortable with person B's behavior. I gently told person B that I thought he was being unfair, and he stopped talking to me for months.

Months later, we reopened, and both of them worked together. Tensions were very high and eventually cumulated in a fight. I, as most others, fully supported Person A and I let it be known. After this event neither of them work there any longer, although most of us miss Person A. He's still in town doing similar work, but I think this place is lacking without him.

I have not talked to Person B since. I still am on good terms with Person A but after this event, our contact naturally petered out.

All in all, this episode felt entirely karmic. Person B and I had a very special connection too, so this was tough on all of us. Yet, I stand by supporting Person A. It is profound to me that I was in the middle of it. It felt like I had to be there.

I believe in past lives, and I am sure Person A and I were together in one. It was a very wild ride, but I don't regret being with him at all. Before I was into astrology I knew he was a soulmate, and seeing the charts was no surprise.

Also, our composite Sun Biquintiles the Moon. This relationship is what made me realize the validity of that aspect... honestly one of the best ones there is.

He and I could sit and talk for hours. Just talking with him was fun, engaging, connecting. We just shot the **** , talked about nothing, yet it was fascinating how well our minds blended. He made me smile.

posted April 11, 2023 07:54 AM            

Moon conjunct Moon was 100% present. When it shines, it's great.

posted April 11, 2023 08:04 AM            

Because the other person can "tune in" to the other person's psyche easiest with these aspects.

posted April 11, 2023 08:45 AM            

You also have his Neptune on your MC, I guess something in music or cinema.

Once again I see echoing patterns - both of you have Sun-Mercury conjunction. And of course Acs-IC overlap, even with a large orb!

posted April 11, 2023 09:27 AM            

I've posted our draconic synastry in the original link. I couldn't see much, although I wish there was.

posted April 11, 2023 04:52 PM            

Dreams and telepathy were never a theme of our relationship, although we did have a deep and sincere understanding of each other. Comfortable, caring, easy.