posted May 04, 2023 08:24 AM            

I’m confused to even feel this way, bc we have no SN/NN contacts. I’ve never dated anyone (not even a brief hookup) when there was no contact to the nodes. It just never happened! So what’s going on? He didn’t lie about his age, I checked

posted May 04, 2023 09:07 AM            

Sun square Neptune on one side, Moon square Neptune, Neptune square Venus Mars on the other...

There is some nice house activation, and the composite energy is pretty intense. Moon at the apex of the tsquare with Mars Pluto battling in opposition... intense war of emotions, power plays, control issues... bonding happens fast with Pluto, and I actually was surprised I didn't see more Pluto in synastry. But the composite makes sense.

With Neptune, go in with eyes wide open. You are both older and have more life experience, so this doesn't have to be a negative. There are some nice resonances in the synastry with moon trine by sign (and a wide trine by degree), and the Pisces Venus overlays between you two. I am sure it feels very natural because you both land in each other's 4th houses.

posted May 04, 2023 09:26 AM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I see a whole lot of Neptune happening, and honestly when you said that you both tell each other how beautiful you are... that's what I immediately suspected.

Sun square Neptune on one side, Moon square Neptune, Neptune square Venus Mars on the other...

There is some nice house activation, and the composite energy is pretty intense. Moon at the apex of the tsquare with Mars Pluto battling in opposition... intense war of emotions, power plays, control issues... bonding happens fast with Pluto, and I actually was surprised I didn't see more Pluto in synastry. But the composite makes sense.

With Neptune, go in with eyes wide open. You are both older and have more life experience, so this doesn't have to be a negative. There are some nice resonances in the synastry with moon trine by sign (and a wide trine by degree), and the Pisces Venus overlays between you two. I am sure it feels very natural because you both land in each other's 4th houses.

I think there is a natural partnership happening, but it's possible you don't see each other as clearly as you could. Neptune does make for some nice romance though!

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Thank you StoneMoon for the quick response !!
Yes I’m definitely trying to keep my eyes open. Like I already said before, I’m trying to see the whole picture, I see the negatives and the possible lack of sustainability, but I just can’t let it pass, bc it all feels so incredibly good!! And it’s so mutual!! He just doesn’t hold back and communicates his feelings so openly, I’ve never experienced anything like this with a man, I was attracted to. I don’t lose respect for him, when he’s vulnerable. It actually makes me like him even more. I find him incredibly attractive even when he cries. Usually when I’m in heterosexual relationships, I start to feel like I have to hold back constantly, bc men tend to be overwhelmed pretty fast, when it comes to emotions. With him though.. he’s so emotional but still very masculine in other things, so it feels balanced and we’re texting and communicating constantly. I write him 10 times a day and he responds 15 times! When we meet we’re laughing so much together, there’s so much sexual tension but also friendship and pure adoration.

Can you tell me, where some potential conflict or danger might be? If you see any?

And is it even possible to have a longterm relationship with someone, where the composite doesn’t seem to have a clear direction? Also the comp Neptune squares and the Sun square Saturn and Uranus are pretty bad. Like I said I’ve never dated anyone where the composite was so afflicted! Even if I wanted to date someone like that, it didn’t materialize, the attraction just wasn’t mutual.

posted May 16, 2023 11:00 AM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
The synastry and composite seem all over the place and chaotic. I‘ve met ppl I had so much better synastry and composite charts with, yet still this seems to be the most mutual obsession I’ve ever experienced, it’s passionate and innocent all at once! It’s pure euphoria. I cannot describe it better. We’re intellectually, emotionally and physically on one level, and I can’t stop thinking about how perfect and beautiful his face looks and he tells me every day how beautiful I am. It feels like a teenage love. Literally. Although we’re both much older.

I’m confused to even feel this way, bc we have no SN/NN contacts. I’ve never dated anyone (not even a brief hookup) when there was no contact to the nodes. It just never happened! So what’s going on? He didn’t lie about his age, I checked

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posted May 25, 2023 07:20 AM            

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Originally posted by rudi23:
not a valuable input to your synastry question..but while reading your post i had huge shock at first
a very funny thing..the sagy ascendant person has exactly the same natal chart as friend of mine to the degrees
he/she must be an astral twin ahhah

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