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Topic: Romantic Relationship
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Somna7H
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posted May 06, 2023 02:24 AM
  
Hi,
Please share your thoughts.
I'm interested in this person in romantic ways.
Will it be good for both of us ?
Will we be good for long run ?Natal Chart of her:
 Our Synastry. Blue is me.
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mee_chryssa
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posted May 07, 2023 05:40 AM
Are you of a different culture? or there are some different backgrounds or values?IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted May 07, 2023 06:45 AM
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Are you of a different culture? or there are some different backgrounds or values?
We have different backgrounds.
The only hurdle right now is the people around us and the society. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted May 07, 2023 11:05 AM
yeah, that's represented by your Moon square her Sun. Depending on how traditional you both are, this could turn serious, but if you both care about your own traditions, this will not work out. Sun square Moon is a bit unconventional or there are big differences between people like race, culture, or huge obstacles against getting together as a couple. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted May 07, 2023 08:43 PM
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
yeah, that's represented by your Moon square her Sun. Depending on how traditional you both are, this could turn serious, but if you both care about your own traditions, this will not work out. Sun square Moon is a bit unconventional or there are big differences between people like race, culture, or huge obstacles against getting together as a couple.
I still hide from my family.
But her family already knew about us.
And unfortunately they forced her to cut all connections with me.
And I think this is the End of it.
Another tragic experience of my life.
Thank you very much for your time to help me.
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mee_chryssa
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posted May 07, 2023 11:50 PM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
Thank you very much for your time to help me.
You're welcome. Maybe you will be together, just to know that this shows the differences. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted May 08, 2023 12:42 AM
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
You're welcome. Maybe you will be together, just to know that this shows the differences.
I'm feeling myself very low ever since I heard that she has been physically assaulted by her family member. Her phone has been seized so that she can't keep communication with me.
I think I should apologise to her and I will request her to forget about me. I don't want to see anyone getting hurt Just because of me. But I know very well that she loves me very much. More than I love her.
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mee_chryssa
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posted May 08, 2023 07:07 AM
The thing is that the synastry is not bad, but that sun square moon shows the differences. I know that you also live in India and traditions are really important there. That's why this aspect might be a little more harsh than it usually is. Maybe you can work it out. But since she was physically injured for this, maybe its best if you let it come naturally, if it will.  IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted May 08, 2023 10:21 AM
Honestly she don't want to leave me.
I tried to tell her since the beginning about future consequences.
But she is totally different in this matter than me.
She don't want to back off.
Because she said she feel something different when around me. A different types of connection. And I believe her.Talking about India.
Honestly it's all about Money.
If you are rich then you can do many things without any issues.
But for a poor person like me fighting with people of this sick society very tough.
Wish I had a better job and more money to support her. Do we think this Synastry is good for long run ? If We can able to survive this current crisis. I don't want to leave her and don't want to disappoint both of us. Specially her. Because she putting so much faith in me. And in the other hand I don't want to her suffer. Thank you very much.
Hope everything will be right for us.
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julyjuly
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posted May 08, 2023 11:12 AM
I think the synastry is quite good. There is a trine between your sun, a trine between your mercury, a sextile between your venus, your mars is opposite each others and your moon is in compatible elements. There seems to be a harmony between you. Post the composite.
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Somna7H
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posted May 08, 2023 12:40 PM
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Originally posted by julyjuly:
I think the synastry is quite good. There is a trine between your sun, a trine between your mercury, a sextile between your venus, your mars is opposite each others and your moon is in compatible elements. There seems to be a harmony between you. Post the composite.
Thank you very much.
So Astrologically it's very positive.
We feel very easy while we interact with each. Specially she felt very comfortable and happy when around me.
I'm posting composite(mid point) too.
She wanted to move with me.
But because of lack of money I have no place to move with her.
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Somna7H
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posted May 08, 2023 12:40 PM
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julyjuly
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posted May 09, 2023 04:05 AM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
We feel very easy while we interact with each. Specially she felt very comfortable and happy when around me.
I think the reason for this is the tight Sun-Chiron-Mercury stellium you have. This relationship can have a healing effect on you and it being opposite Jupiter strengthens its effect. I think Jupiter being opposite the sun-moon midpoint can give marriage potential. The stellium is also inconjunct Saturn and Pluto. I wonder if this also has binding effect. I hope someone more experienced can shed light on this aspect. Somna you have three personal planets and your NN in the 2nd house. What do you work with and have thought about changing your job? IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted May 09, 2023 05:24 AM
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Originally posted by julyjuly:
I think the reason for this is the tight Sun-Chiron-Mercury stellium you have. This relationship can have a healing effect on you and it being opposite Jupiter strengthens its effect. I think Jupiter being opposite the sun-moon midpoint can give marriage potential. The stellium is also inconjunct Saturn and Pluto. I wonder if this also has binding effect. I hope someone more experienced can shed light on this aspect.Somna you have three personal planets and your NN in the 2nd house. What do you work with and have thought about changing your job?
@julyjuly
Thank you very much for taking your time to help me. I really appreciate. Yes you are right about healing effect.
But I'm not sure who healing whom.
I'm feeling guilty.
Just because she loves me every person of her family abandoning her.
Talking about marriage.
She truly treating me as her husband. Unfortunately 2nd House Stellium in my Natal never helpful to me when it comes to earning money or getting better job with social status.
I'm currently doing job of security guard at entrance of a office building.
In my country when a person no other good job the last option is this job. At least I think this way from my life experience.
I always tried to change my job.
But never fortunate enough.
I failed so many times regarding job matter that now I have no courage to change my job unless miracle happens.
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Somna7H
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posted May 09, 2023 05:36 AM
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Somna7H
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posted April 25, 2025 09:52 PM
She was a scammer. She manipulated me to take my money.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted April 30, 2025 09:54 AM
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Randall
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posted June 29, 2025 08:18 AM
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Somna7H
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posted June 30, 2025 07:35 AM
I had a dream recently in which there were 5 women. And this woman called me on phone and telling me that she is happy and living good near a certain place near a park in our city. Lol...IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 01, 2025 09:51 AM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
I had a dream recently in which there were 5 women. And this woman called me on phone and telling me that she is happy and living good near a certain place near a park in our city. Lol...
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Somna7H
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posted July 03, 2025 12:24 PM
So it means Good things Happens to Bad people. And I'm not that people but she is... 🙂IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 08, 2025 03:49 PM
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Belage2
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posted July 08, 2025 09:22 PM
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Originally posted by Somna7H:
She was a scammer. She manipulated me to take my money.
Eww! Sorry to hear that! I am going to check out your natal and synastry, to do some astrological Monday morning quaterbacking.
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Belage2
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posted July 08, 2025 10:00 PM
In your natal chart, you have a lovely Venus/Moon conjunction in Gemini, but it is opposite Neptune, so you do have a tendency to idealize people you are attracted to and you might be likely to be taken advantage of. It is interesting that your Venus/Moon conjunction falls in your 2nd house of personal money and possessions. This particular person has her Neptune opposite your Venus/Moon conjunction so it amplifies the illusory aspect of your natal aspect. She also has her Sun square your Venus/Moon conjunction, so in your synastry with her, there is a Tsquare involving Gemini, Sagg and Pisces.. Natally, this person also has her Sun square her Neptune, so she might be more prone to use shady tactics to get her way. Lastlly, considering Neptune is a generational aspect, you might consider not dating the generational group of people whose Neptune opposes your Venus/Moon aspect...Unless they have other aspects that mitigate this troublesome aspect. IP: Logged |
Somna7H
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posted July 09, 2025 08:37 AM
Yes. It's not only Women but all people take advantage of me. This woman no more in my life since more than a year when I refused to give her more money. She only took things money from me and never returned anything. I decided not to date women of my age. Either it will a decade younger or older. And my intuition telling me that I should go for younger than me. Even though here these days younger women prefer to date men of their same age. Thank you very much. I appreciate your help. I will try to be very cautious regarding money when it comes to dating with women from now.IP: Logged |
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