posted June 14, 2023 08:36 PM            

It looks sort of messy in my opinion, but there is some level of attraction; so I’m curious 🤔

posted June 19, 2023 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Anyone?

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Actually this guy and I have been friends for like 4 years or something - and there’s always been an undertone; but I’ve never been super into him because he’s very small town and small minded. Also, judging on if his tob is correct, descendent in Sag, and Uranus square Venus - I don’t think he’s boyfriend material. Even though he’s very giving, and has a sexual side it seems. Like he’s all over the place - I don’t know if romance is like his thing, although he may end up falling for someone who’s his friend. I’ll post his chart because I’m interested in opinions!

posted June 20, 2023 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
There’s strong energy. His moon complete your natal t-square, and mars moon aspects from both ends - that’s strong attraction. Because of hard Uranus, you might not feel it’s that strong. But Uranus rule his DC so he should be more into it. However, relationships houses are not activated.
Gemini Stellium opposite Uranus/DC, Mars opp. Neptune, - no wonder he is all over the place. His Moon and Venus have hard Pluto and Saturn aspects so he has more serious, insecure, controlling side and could be attracted to something more stable, but it might be hard for him to get into it.
There’re many patterns in charts. Looks complicated.

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posted June 25, 2023 07:40 AM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
Lol, yes the synastry looks chaotic.

He appears to be a very multiskilled and talented person.

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Uh oh, but not significant in any way right? The attraction right now is really high - it’s getting a little difficult to resist. I know the composite is a mess too 😅

posted June 25, 2023 07:40 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Uh oh, but not significant in any way right? The attraction right now is really high - it’s getting a little difficult to resist. I know the composite is a mess too 😅

I mean, he’s solid in his job not so solid in money tho.

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posted July 11, 2023 05:59 AM            

Anyway you said his birth time is inaccurate so his Moon could be in Aqua, right? Do you know for sure it's 4-6am and is he for sure a Gemini rising? Nonetheless he's still got a Gemini stellium opposite Uranus. That makes him someone extremely independent and rebellious, the latter I mean he's likely to carve his own path, doesn't follow the norm or tradition unless that's what he also believes in. However his Venus is in placid Taurus which shows he can be still quite traditional when it comes to matters of the heart. He would want a stable partner who's secure, stable, possessive and jealous (or he can be like this to his partners). He can also be very sweet, passionate and giving as shown by his Venus sextile Moon/Mars, trine Neptune. Where do you see his Venus square Uranus? 🤔 You're the one with this aspect, right? 🤣 I'm confused here.

Anyway Mercury rules your IC/DC and it's conjunct his Gemini stellium so that's a very nice contact. You will feel that he's the one for you, and if he's really a Gemini rising then you have ASC-DSC rulers conjunct too, although your DSC ruler is also opposite his Uranus so that's why you're feeling uncertain about him because he can come off hot n cold. Let's take it that his DSC is really in Sag... He has Uranus on the angle and 7H ruler in Aqua. That will cause him to be attracted to Uranian personality type, on top of Jupiterian type. In your natal Uranus trine sun, sextile moon and square Venus, am I right? So you do have Uranian traits. You also have Moon conjunct ASC, Mars sextile Mars, Venuses conjunct, Venus trine Mars. These are all very nice aspects - you may feel in sync in terms of your rythmn, sexual expression, values, interests and love language.

His Venus square your Uranus/Neptune, he may also feel that you're hard to read. You've Moon-Mars opposite/square DW. This is a very hot yet volatile connection. Be careful of taking things too personal with each other, especially when your Moons are also square and quincunx each others' Plutos. When one feels hurt or betrayed, it won't go down well. May end up with manipulation and mind games.

Composite Sun square Moon shows that you're drawn together due to your differences although over time you may start arguing due to this esp when communication breaks down. I usually don't like to see this in composite as it shows the couple becoming unsupportive of each other, but it isn't a deal breaker. cMoon is at the midpoint of Venus-Saturn so an emotional bond or dependency is likely, plus Moon forms a nice trine with Jupiter/Neptune/Pluto.

posted July 11, 2023 08:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Thanks, I see the images now. Funny they're not showing on my ipad but work OK on my android phone. 🤔

Anyway you said his birth time is inaccurate so his Moon could be in Aqua, right? Do you know for sure it's 4-6am and is he for sure a Gemini rising? Nonetheless he's still got a Gemini stellium opposite Uranus. That makes him someone extremely independent and rebellious, the latter I mean he's likely to carve his own path, doesn't follow the norm or tradition unless that's what he also believes in. However his Venus is in placid Taurus which shows he can be still quite traditional when it comes to matters of the heart. He would want a stable partner who's secure, stable, possessive and jealous (or he can be like this to his partners). He can also be very sweet, passionate and giving as shown by his Venus sextile Moon/Mars, trine Neptune. Where do you see his Venus square Uranus? 🤔 You're the one with this aspect, right? 🤣 I'm confused here.

Anyway Mercury rules your IC/DC and it's conjunct his Gemini stellium so that's a very nice contact. You will feel that he's the one for you, and if he's really a Gemini rising then you have ASC-DSC rulers conjunct too, although your DSC ruler is also opposite his Uranus so that's why you're feeling uncertain about him because he can come off hot n cold. Let's take it that his DSC is really in Sag... He has Uranus on the angle and 7H ruler in Aqua. That will cause him to be attracted to Uranian personality type, on top of Jupiterian type. In your natal Uranus trine sun, sextile moon and square Venus, am I right? So you do have Uranian traits. You also have Moon conjunct ASC, Mars sextile Mars, Venuses conjunct, Venus trine Mars. These are all very nice aspects - you may feel in sync in terms of your rythmn, sexual expression, values, interests and love language.

His Venus square your Uranus/Neptune, he may also feel that you're hard to read. You've Moon-Mars opposite/square DW. This is a very hot yet volatile connection. Be careful of taking things too personal with each other, especially when your Moons are also square and quincunx each others' Plutos. When one feels hurt or betrayed, it won't go down well. May end up with manipulation and mind games.

Composite Sun square Moon shows that you're drawn together due to your differences although over time you may start arguing due to this esp when communication breaks down. I usually don't like to see this in composite as it shows the couple becoming unsupportive of each other, but it isn't a deal breaker. cMoon is at the midpoint of Venus-Saturn so an emotional bond or dependency is likely, plus Moon forms a nice trine with Jupiter/Neptune/Pluto.

Sorry, I can't read more now... Gotta work. 😛

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Dude thanks for your response!! You saw the things I didn’t exactly see, and I was like surely there must be more to this synastry lol - because it looked boring at first glance but I’m like in love with this dude and it seems mutual.

So, he’s sure that he was born between 4-6; I mean that’s all we have to go by… I’m also pretty sure he’s a Pisces moon, he can be very emotional or sensitive at times. I think it’s beautiful, and he’s also very shy but sweet and giving.

Haha my bad! I think I automatically assumed because our venuses are conjunct but you’re right- I just forgot he’s like 10 years older than me LOL.

So I’m his culture; most people his age are married with kids and he isn’t - last time he had a relationship was like 10 years ago or something. So I wouldn’t say he fits into the Korean mold… even though he is Korean in many ways. He’s not against marriage, it’s just not something he has pursued and I don’t know if that’s something he will do in this life time. It’s like his work is elsewhere.

Yeah! So I tend to attract Uranian/Aquarian types often - I guess it’s just because of those couple of aspects - anyway, I enjoy the Uranian energy.

I agree about moon/mars, sometimes I need to try to be more sensitive with him - or not so abrasive; if I am a little too aggressive I feel intensely guilty. Like I’m hurting my poor boy.

The composite I find meh too - although I see Juno is a conjunct Pluto and I know that’s not a major aspect but I am curious about it. And yes, feelings started to fly in June - they grew over a matter of weeks. Also it did help I knew him for like 4 years prior. Anyway; we are very much inlove - although I have absolutely no idea what he sees in me. He is an Angel. And many of our friends are drawn to him. Can you see what attracts him to me?

posted July 12, 2023 01:47 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Can you see what attracts him to me?

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Like I said in my previous post he seeks a Uranian/Jupiterian partner and you kinda fit the Uranian profile, and you have ASC-DSC rulers conjunct. You seek a Mercurial partner and that’s him. Your Jupiter widely conjunct his DSC and it co-rules your ASC so that’s again another ASC-DSC contact. You also have 1H contacts which is highly attractive too as the planet person will be strongly attracted to the ASC person though ime it can be either way.

I agree the composite looks a bit meh - no stellium or pattern formation. ☹️ Did you click on link to all aspects? It may be that compatibility is there but the relationship can’t go the distance. Of these 4yrs you know each other, were you guys close or just acquaintance?

posted July 12, 2023 04:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Like I said in my previous post he seeks a Uranian/Jupiterian partner and you kinda fit the Uranian profile, and you have ASC-DSC rulers conjunct. You seek a Mercurial partner and that’s him. Your Jupiter widely conjunct his DSC and it co-rules your ASC so that’s again another ASC-DSC contact. You also have 1H contacts which is highly attractive too as the planet person will be strongly attracted to the ASC person though ime it can be either way.

I agree the composite looks a bit meh - no stellium or pattern formation. ☹️ Did you click on link to all aspects? It may be that compatibility is there but the relationship can’t go the distance. Of these 4yrs you know each other, were you guys close or just acquaintance?

Btw I’m a babe, not a dude. Lol.

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Haha! Got it ~ well either way I don’t think it can go the distance because I'm leaving - and I know he won't move, he’s too attached to his family here. Which I understand - we’ve been friends for long but I would say over the last year or so we got closer. I’ll post the aspects to all composite - but even then if there is pattern formation the orbs are very wide, so I don’t know if it counts. I guess we just got together because of these transits and when they are over the r.ship will probably be over - well the romantic bit anyway.