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Topic: Could i please get a second opinion on this odd synastry / composite
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OrbitalFire
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From: Sydney. Australia
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posted June 26, 2023 07:39 PM
  
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LilyIris07
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From: A South African in South Korea
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posted June 26, 2023 09:39 PM
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Originally posted by OrbitalFire:
This is a bit of an enigma. We get on like a house on fire. We share a lot in common. Our charts leave little to be desired imo though. I know astro is not the be all and end all but the dynamics of the relationship isn't really marrying up with what I'm seeing in the chart which is why its odd to me, unless I'm missing something here? He is definitely reserved but very receptive to flattery. Loves to take compliments but he doesn't really dish them out. I can tell he really likes me anyway because he texts me first thing in the morning and will keep it going throughout the day until bedtime. And if I don't reply within a few hours he will always follow up with another text (I don't mind this though hehe)
His manner of speech is very cold and intimidating but through text he is all emojis and hearts. I really do like him.. ALOT.. I think he likes me more though.
He is really sweet and kind and does lots of charity work with animals. In person he is a little standoffish, almost distant, hesitatnt to showing affection but I think maybe his 12th house says it all.
I don't mind all the 12th house action, I appreciate intensity and depth etc.
Appreciate a second opinion, thanks(I'm blue he is red) Synastry:
online image hosting Composite:
Well, there’s a harsh moon/mars opposition that causes attraction - Pluto conjunct Venus too, there’s also 8th house action. Also mars on Pluto, and there’s a mercury moon opposition, which could create an excitement in terms of communication. The composite looks interesting - lots of 12th house and 6th house action, so perhaps there’s karma between you two. How long have you known him? IP: Logged |
OrbitalFire
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From: Sydney. Australia
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posted June 27, 2023 02:29 AM
Thanks I think you're right about karma. I also think maybe it's not meant to last either, but who knows. Its been about 6 weeks now, so not enough time for it to play out but even so no aynastry/composite ive had made me scratch my head. We've also not yet been intimate.. he hasn't made a move yet but I can tell he wants to.
The synastry is so/so but the composite is like woah to me, esp with the moon oppositions and all the 12th house, which I know is very difficult for a long term relationship.
So far though we seem to make each other happy so that's all that matters in the moment I guess.IP: Logged |
sassaqua
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From: Oz
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 27, 2023 05:47 AM
There is no Mars Moon opposite here. But unfortunately, other challenges exist. Which are not as bad IF/WHEN there are more pleasant aspects to the same challenging aspects. But that is not the case here for much of the aspects, unfortunately.The Mars conjunct Saturn is the most troubling here, as the aspect is so very tight, and Saturn and Mars notoriously don't get on. The problem overall is that, any attempts made to discuss or compromise are hampered by the charts overall disharmony between yet, still, more aspects between personal planets: eg: the Sun and Venus, and Moon and Mercury. Often friendship can cope with such dynamic aspects because polite boundaries are able to be maintained. This changes though when people become intimate. And of course many are ok for a quick sexual interaction and will ignore the problems, and be on best behaviour to achieve that goal before moving on. Would be good to see the natals, maybe two people can cope with Saturn/Mars depending on their natal character (but not really). Thanks for posting nice clear charts.
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LilyIris07
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From: A South African in South Korea
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posted June 27, 2023 06:53 AM
Oh you’re right! The Mars/Moon is the one person - I still struggle to read without the tables 😅IP: Logged |
OrbitalFire
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From: Sydney. Australia
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posted June 27, 2023 07:22 AM
Thanks for your reply. I overlooked the Saturn Mars conjunction.. at worst I thought maybe Saturn would make Mars feel a little stuffy but looks like this synastry may be .. yikes!IP: Logged |
sassaqua
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posted June 27, 2023 07:42 AM
It's your Saturn on his Mars.Having said all of that, Saturn can be amazing for Mars because it solidifies Mars's hot air, gives Mars direction, and makes it's aims more tangible. There are many marriages that have the women's Saturn on the Mars. But they are also often unhappy arrangements. I believe this is just too tight for comfort. Additionally, your Saturn is already troubled/intense in an inconjunct with Jupiter. And his Mars exact, is in a tense T-square with his Moon and his Pluto (and intensified with a yod between you). His Mars is also square Venus.. Is this guy "safe" for you? Have you sussed him out? Your Jupiter enlarging the whole scene too. I don't think even with more supportive aspects it would be pleasant. Your Moons are almost square, your Uranus creates a yod with his Moon and Jupiter, and your NN are off in different directions. Is not going to be a fun time (for normal people), lol. No but yes it's pretty tricky. IP: Logged |
OrbitalFire
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posted June 27, 2023 07:48 AM
Ahhh such a shame! Haven't had such a great time with someone in so long but I feel that this is too good to be true.
I've sussed him out to the best of my ability.
I don't have social media but I found his accounts, and honestly they are so wholesome. His entire social media is dedicated to his family, and his volunteer work.
On a personal level, there has been nothing so far to indicate any red flags.
I really appreciate you looking at our charts! IP: Logged |
OrbitalFire
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posted June 27, 2023 08:01 AM
Also, are there any positives? Something to indicate a great platonic relationship perhaps?IP: Logged |
sassaqua
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posted June 27, 2023 08:07 AM
Wholesome? Nice.. as long as it's real of course.Well, you're in a pickle then. All the advice in the world generally won't curb the lure of feelings. All you can do is take it slowly and don't get in too deep for a long time. Hardest thing ever. Please let us know how it goes. Edit: that cold speech could be him holding in his tension. Anyone can do emojis - guys know girls like emojis.
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OrbitalFire
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From: Sydney. Australia
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posted June 27, 2023 08:17 AM
The advice has worked in that I'm thinking twice now and maybe a little terrified to go further. Knowing all this I might just stop it in its tracks while it's still early.
You asked if he was "safe" to me and that's something incredibly important to me so I will definitely take the advice / warningIP: Logged |
sassaqua
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From: Oz
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posted June 27, 2023 09:07 AM
All you can do is be really careful. Because it's easy to be deceived in this world.Edit: there's a lot there for a friendship, which I kind of mentioned already. The dynamic rapport you have will be attractive, and def put that person on your radar. The interaction is curious and interesting, somewhat because of the intuited difference. You're an Aquarius, read up on his chart, watch and learn. All that Scorpio in the 12H .... IP: Logged |
OrbitalFire
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From: Sydney. Australia
Registered: Dec 2021
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posted June 27, 2023 07:51 PM
Thanks sassaqua I've delineated his natal and putting the pieces together. Overall I trust the judgement of more experienced people.
Personally, no chart has ever been wrong, even if it didn't seem that way at first.IP: Logged |
sassaqua
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From: Oz
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 27, 2023 08:13 PM
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Originally posted by OrbitalFire:
.... Personally, no chart has ever been wrong, even if it didn't seem that way at first.
Wow, Interesting. it sounds like you've had some experience. Ok but still, not good to avoid relationships forever either. There will always be something challenging. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 14, 2023 12:30 PM
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