posted July 03, 2023 12:36 AM            

We're also both scary cats when it comes to initiating personal contact. He definitely moves soooo slow for my aries moon💀💀💀but when I text him he always texts back with no problem and we have a good conversation. Idk how to navigate this!! I've never had to pursue a guy before until now lol

I'm also extremely attracted to him like when I see him it's like I see hearts💞💞💞 surrounding his head😅😮‍💨 and we always catch each other's glances. Hes told a mutual friend that he's definitely into me but he doesn't make major moves!

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Cancerian men can be so so sweet but be careful because they’re sweet to everyone, 😜 so you need to find out if you’re special or just one of them. Also, they take some time to open up so don’t be pushy and just see what he does.

Your Pisces Venus trine his Cancer planets is very nice as your love nature syncs harmoniously with him. You also both have fire Moons which shows a couple who will have fun together. You may be very active together as with fire moons. But you have Sun-Moon square/opposite which means greater efforts are needed to achieve understanding between your personas and emotional natures. My personal experience with Sun-Moon square (his Sun, my Moon) is that sometimes his ego can blind me.

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posted July 04, 2023 07:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I don’t think you should pursue him too hard. Cardinal signs like to be initiators and Cancer is very cautious.

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posted July 12, 2023 01:49 AM            

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Originally posted by GirlMelanie:
I just know in this situation I backed off because I felt like I was doing all of the work and I didn't contact him for days. He went and told our mutual friend that I don't like him because "i dont text him or anything" 💀💀💀 so idk what to do

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posted July 13, 2023 10:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Nah, don’t fall for this. Did he text you at all or he’s just waiting for you to text him?? That’s not right.

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posted July 13, 2023 07:15 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think it depends on the entire birth chart. Whether or not the Cancer is sweet to everyone. The one I talk to says he doesn’t like people. He doesn’t even want neighbors. And he has a difficult time communicating. He has Saturn in the 3rd house square Mars in the 6th house conjunct the DSC. So look at the entire chart.

I don’t know if Aquarius would be a good match for Cancer. Because they can be detached. But try it if you like him.

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posted July 14, 2023 10:18 AM            

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Originally posted by GirlMelanie:
Haha, thanks I will try it out! I don't wanna just go off of our sun signs. I have a feeling we might not have good synastry on paper hence why no one wants to say it straight😭😭😭 it's okay though, aquarians don't listen anyway lol

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posted July 15, 2023 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah I know it’s more to it than just the Sun signs. Your Moon and Venus signs are compatible. Your Mercuries are in an opposition. I have this with a guy friend of over a decade. Sometimes we talk over each other. I have Mercury in Aries and sometimes I get a little irritated with Libra Mercury. Cancer Mercuries can be sensitive and emotional. I try to speak softly when I’m talking to them.

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posted July 15, 2023 12:12 PM            

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Originally posted by GirlMelanie:
We actually have moon square venus and I feel that energy but I've had moon and venus in hard aspects with others, I kinda like it? And yes i can "hurt" his feelings easily or he won't get my jokes immediately without feeling slightly offended first😭😭😭 so I do have to tread a little lightly.

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posted July 31, 2023 02:03 AM            

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Originally posted by GirlMelanie:
Wellll since THAT post, lol, I believe he's gotten more comfortable with me because he's been texting me everyday and he even asked me out on 2 separate occasions. We're getting to know each other atp. We both agreed that we don't want to rush anything but we're both interested. I just got out of a 5 year relationship with a libra man😬 I just wanted to know what you guys thought about our synastry.. I've never dealt with a cancer man before. I'm usually not attracted to them but he's different!

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posted August 24, 2023 12:46 PM            

At first it looked so sweet, but after a week it was just too much for me and I was overwhelmed by the dynamic. I needed space to breathe, he kept looking for me, he kept chasing me, he wouldn't stop calling me until midnight to morning if I didn't pick up his phone calls. He even already talked about marriage and babies, brought me to his Mom and acted like we would get marry soon. To me, it was craaazy. I broke up with him only after two weeks and he was crying, calling me hundred times, sending his friends to talk to me, to be honest I was so afraid of his obsessiveness so I disappeared completely. Due to having venus in Pisces, I actually didn't want we ended like that and I had a guilty feeling about it but when I tried to open the communication with him he started over the cycle and he wanted to know where I lived in and he would visit wherever the city I was in at that time. He started find and called my friends who knew my address. So I closed the door once again and move away. 10 years later I heard from a friend who told me that he still waited for me and still bragged to his friends that I was his first love and told me that I should stop hiding from him, I immediately felt very sad. I initiate a contact to make a closure with him, I told him I appreciated his feelings to me but we couldn't be together and he needed to stop waiting for me and I would be very happy if he started building a relationship with someone else. He cried for a little and asked me once again if he could visit me for the last time, I said no. Glad that he accepted it and we had a nice closure.

We both have Aries Moon. His Mars is in Capricorn and his venus is in Leo. My venus in Pisces won't let me chase a guy, maybe I have too many options.. lol

My husband has Mercury and Mars in Cancer, when he liked me, he also chased me, he let me know right away if he liked me and wanted a relationship with me. He brought me to his parent's house to meet them only after a month knowing each other without telling me where he took me. But, yeah, Cancer placement can be scary for my Aquarius taste, the combo can also be maddening for both.

One thing that you need to be aware of about Cancerian is, they don't usually really let go someone in their past (so make sure they have already finished what's in the past in the past). They also carry trauma so make sure you can handle their sensitivity to certain things and they can be very crabby even when it's not necessary to react like that. Your Aries moon needs to learn how to be soft, not too impulsive, and not quick to react in anger because it can be too hot to handle for Cancer placement who can also easily trigger your reactions because they can be so indirect that can loose your patient.