posted July 31, 2023 01:01 PM            

Big picture (as I can attest to the dynamism/karmic potency of current circumstances) - what is the scope and severity to be expected with synastry this saturnian?

We are also trying for a child (her utmost concern in life/she’s not had one). What does the ruler of her 5th/10th conjoining my Saturn (both of which are imminently exposed to Neptune by transit) likely indicate with that? Aside from the synastry, am I wrong in my assessment that both of our charts seem to lean barren (perhaps mine moreso than hers)?

She has Virgo moon (barren) chart ruler (albeit well housed and aspecting her 5th ruler by sign in antiscia), her 5th ruler is out of sect malefic opposed rx saturn+debilitated/relatively barren Jupiter, and then almuten is exalted Venus but cadent and with a poorly dignified ruler.

I have a fallen but well dignified Jupiter as chart ruler/fertility marker, but it’s ruler is Saturn fallen at the cardinal point (stationing direct by secondary progression around Saturn return), and third quarter waning moon in leo (another barren sign) conjunct regulus and heavily cadent rules my 5th.

*Worth noting is that her matrilineal line has a record going back a few generations of women giving birth in their mid 40’s, and that I am her third sexual partner to date.

Paradoxically (and we as a unit are no strangers to paradox/stark duality) I am insatiably promiscuous and have been for most of my adult years. Here most notably I have concerns re: Saturn/Jupiter+8th venus/rahu (for the time being I am mostly ambivalent and/or only latently concerned on the Mars/Saturn fertility front). Platonically “conservative” sexuality vs its platonically libertine and liberal counterpart. We both greatly respect and appreciate eachothers sexual expression in the abstract (I can’t have children if this quality is absent in a mate and she finds my exploits both attractive and fascinating) but the compatibility long term in this regard seems necessarily tenuous. Coming to grips with the disparity which exists on this issue has been the biggest hurdle to date, and something we’re still actively trying to work through.

She is also independently wealthy (considerable wealth at that) and I am perpetually penniless. Both of us come from affluent backgrounds.

Any help is greatly appreciated. It seems important; if for no other reason than: we both *really care* about eachothers welfare (and ourselves by and large live to ingratiate others).