posted August 02, 2023 11:09 AM            

My only thing about him is that I don't feel super attracted to him. He's very respectful, which could be a part of it. I like that he's respectful but we don't really touch much or talk about deeper emotional things, which tends to make me feel really drawn in and attracted to people. I've been feeling very much friendship vibes with him.

I do feel like based on just looking at our birth charts that I /should/ feel attracted to him physically, but I've just been waiting for it to grow.

Let me know what you guys see here, is it more friendship vibes? Do we have long-term potential? Would it even be a good relationship?

Thank you!!

Synastry:

posted August 08, 2023 07:52 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
To me the culprit is Saturn in the 5th house of the composite, deadening that element of fun flirtatious romance you need. If the birth times are precise, you also have composite moon in the 12th, where emotions are hiding but it’s so close to the AC it’s like they’re just beneath the surface. So close! With the composite north node in the 11th it does seem destined for a more platonic vibe, especially because in the past you may have karma around hot and heavy flings. However I don’t think this is a death sentence… it sounds like you are used to more fiery individuals, people who take the lead and are easier to access emotionally and physically. I wouldn’t read his “respectfulness” as a lack of potential for passion. The composite north node indicates the lesson of this encounter is precisely to learn how to be more cool-headed in relationships. This is in complete alignment with your own karmic lesson, because your natal north node is also in the 11th. Your past life karma is around getting way too emotionally enmeshed in romantic situations and melding too much with the other person, too much water and fire, too much compassion and passion. I think this encounter holds some important karmic lessons for you. I mean, you guys have DW moon conjunct AC AND AC conjunct MC! That’s a heavy indication of a strong connection. But getting the emotional depth takes time, work, and patience that you may not have learned yet. See what you can learn with this guy.

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