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Topic: Signs of a breakup? Possible reconciliation?
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htv32 Newflake Posts: 3 From: Philadelphia,PA,19104 Registered: Aug 2023
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posted August 07, 2023 05:17 PM
I currently broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months ( we got together when his pVenus conjunct my natal Mars) and it’s ripping my soul apart. We broke up due to communication issue; we fought over small things and never really resolved it. I also have issue control my emotions and have been currently diagnosed with ADHD, so he said even though he loved me he thought splitting up would be the best option for us right now as I need time to work on myself. It was an amicable breakup as we addressed our communication issues in the past; we went on our last date, hung out, cuddled and kissed and said goodbye and we both cried a lot. I’m curious what’s the indication on our charts that signal a breakup. And if there’s any indication of a reconciliation on our charts? Any help appreciated! Synastry chart: https://imgur.com/a/3cuK6L7 Composite chart: https://imgur.com/a/KuAkhPS Progressed synastry when we brokeup: https://imgur.com/a/QDS0GMC
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3838 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 08, 2023 01:59 AM
It doesn’t sound like it’s gonna be a real breakup unless other things happen along the way… Can you post the aspects charts?Is he the Virgo Sun? Tr Uranus is opposing his Scorpio Moon which rules his DSC causing disruptions and instability to this relationships. It’s also squaring your Leo Sun on the ASC, forcing you out of your shell so you might feel more competitive and feisty during this period. I feel that there will be ego issues between you: Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn. You have Moon conjunct Pluto square Sun in Composite. Tr Saturn is opposing the composite Sun, causing stress to the relationship and triggering the square. It’s also gonna oppose the Virgo planets in the coming months, indicating other challenges.
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htv32 Newflake Posts: 3 From: Philadelphia,PA,19104 Registered: Aug 2023
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posted August 08, 2023 11:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: It doesn’t sound like it’s gonna be a real breakup unless other things happen along the way… Can you post the aspects charts?Is he the Virgo Sun? Tr Uranus is opposing his Scorpio Moon which rules his DSC causing disruptions and instability to this relationships. It’s also squaring your Leo Sun on the ASC, forcing you out of your shell so you might feel more competitive and feisty during this period. I feel that there will be ego issues between you: Leo, Scorpio, Capricorn. You have Moon conjunct Pluto square Sun in Composite. Tr Saturn is opposing the composite Sun, causing stress to the relationship and triggering the square. It’s also gonna oppose the Virgo planets in the coming months, indicating other challenges.
Thank you for your response! The breakup seems pretty set though because he took a month to think about it and said he would not change his mind as that’s the best option for us. He’d been thinking about whether he should stay in the relationship for a while. And while I did agree we had communication issues, I felt like I was blindsided by his decision. Progressed Composite with Aspects: https://imgur.com/a/mo9CISD Composite with Aspects: https://imgur.com/a/vgQHLfV Synastry: https://imgur.com/a/vqi2PpQ I also did a horary asking whether we will get back together: https://imgur.com/a/yCN2wHc IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3838 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted August 09, 2023 05:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by htv32: Thank you for your response!The breakup seems pretty set though because he took a month to think about it and said he would not change his mind as that’s the best option for us. He’d been thinking about whether he should stay in the relationship for a while. And while I did agree we had communication issues, I felt like I was blindsided by his decision. Progressed Composite with Aspects: https://imgur.com/a/mo9CISD Composite with Aspects: https://imgur.com/a/vgQHLfV Synastry: https://imgur.com/a/vqi2PpQ I also did a horary asking whether we will get back together: https://imgur.com/a/yCN2wHc
I said it doesn’t seem definite because you said “we went on our last date, hung out, cuddled and kissed and said goodbye and we both cried a lot.” so it doesn’t sound like he truly wanted a breakup but he’s doing so because he sees no resolution to your issues, as from what I know Virgos tend to put up a lot but will let go if they see no future (all earth signs are the same). However, Virgos are not unforgiving people, they will still miss their exes for awhile until such a day they completely see no point in holding on… Your pComp Moon just entered Scorpio, which is a difficult sign for Moon to be in due to the intense emotions and can be irrational. Furthermore, Moon is receiving harsh aspects from Saturn/Uranus/Neptune. Unfortunately this doesn’t look good for the next few months. Even if you patch back, emotions will still be volatile. You’re both very young so I’m not sure how mature you are at handling that Pluto energy in your composite. Your Horary main significators don’t apply and sadly Mars seems to have mixed feelings with Venus/Moon. But Moon is transferring light from Mars to Venus so there’s a chance…though in a square aspect means with difficulties or delay. I’m curious that his significator Mars is in Mercury’s rulership and applying conjunct to Mercury. Is there possibly someone else in his life? If not then it’s showing his interest in whatever represented by Mercury and he’s going towards that.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 177069 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 27, 2023 10:47 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 177069 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 13, 2023 11:32 AM
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