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scarygworl
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posted August 10, 2023 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scarygworl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I sense equally deep and intense feelings both ways but can't help but shake the feeling of being stifled.

I want to give it up now. please help me understand this.

Synastry Chart (I'm inside) :
http://ibb.co/6F8X5Dr

Aspects (I'm horizontal):
http://ibb.co/xXJCy8y

Composite:
http://i.ibb.co/93NCSRB/image.png

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Randall
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posted August 10, 2023 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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scarygworl
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posted August 13, 2023 05:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scarygworl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Randall!

I just want some closure. I want to know whether my feelings are reciprocated. I've gone through some pages here and it suggests that the bond is equally alluring for both of us but he can't seem to reciprocate in any concrete ways.

I just want confirmation that I'm not being played like a fiddle here I guess. Please help!

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PlutoWasHere
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posted August 13, 2023 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi scarygworl,

The first thing I noticed is his Scorpio Pluto opposite your Taurus Moon. Moon-Pluto aspects are known for attraction but might also feel tense and could indicate power struggles.
https://cafeastrology.com/synastry/moon_pluto_aspects.html

His difficulties with reciprocating might be connected to his own natal Leo Moon being opposite his Aquarius Saturn. That’s a tough natal aspect and indicates he might feel emotionally blocked.
https://astrologyking.com/moon-opposite-saturn/

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scarygworl
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posted August 13, 2023 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scarygworl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Hi scarygworl,

The first thing I noticed is his Scorpio Pluto opposite your Taurus Moon. Moon-Pluto aspects are known for attraction but might also feel tense and could indicate power struggles.
https://cafeastrology.com/synastry/moon_pluto_aspects.html


Woah! thanks for this, I read a lot of Pluto-Moon discussions on here and they mostly said it's the moon person that experiences this more intensely but there's also some vertex interactions and other fun stuff happening on his end. how does that impact our dynamic do you think?

I feel that there have to be more than a few things counter balancing all the intense energies because when we're together there's a flow that's making both of us suspect some woo-woo stuff going on. It's kind of hilarious and mind boggling actually.

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His difficulties with reciprocating might be connected to his own natal Leo Moon being opposite his Aquarius Saturn. That’s a tough natal aspect and indicates he might feel emotionally blocked.
https://astrologyking.com/moon-opposite-saturn/


This is crazy! I'm kind of using our charts to learn about astrology too and the whole thing in the link about relationship with the mother impacting relationship dynamics is so true. Thank you so much for this info, PlutoWasHere

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scarygworl
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posted August 13, 2023 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scarygworl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also kinda wanted someone's "prognosis" of this whole relationship. where's this going? anything particularly concerning like indicators of abuse? Both of us are neurodiverse and that adds to our susceptibility so I want to be extra careful about that for sure!

This intense of a connection where it kind of feels like we share a brain is a first time experience for me so I'm definitely reeling from it.

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Hikaru29
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posted August 14, 2023 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His natal Moon is opposite Saturn square Pluto. He is not very open with his feelings. Furthermore his Moon square your Moon… need more effort in emotional understanding.

Rx Venus is conjunct Tr Sun in Leo now and affecting his Moon t-square….also squaring your Moon btw. So if you’re feeling a bit lost now, you may wanna wait for this transit to pass before making any decision.

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scarygworl
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posted August 17, 2023 09:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scarygworl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Hikaru29!

I think that's just what I'm going to do. Wait it out

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Randall
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posted August 31, 2023 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted September 16, 2023 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aquariusqueen85
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posted October 16, 2023 04:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquariusqueen85     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That Uranus conjunct Venus opposite Mars looks scary to me… 😩

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