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Topic: INSANE CHEMISTRY BUT DOES THIS HAVE GOOD POTENTIAL?
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CuriousV
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posted August 24, 2023 11:50 AM
  
Hi! This guy and I have absolutely insane chemistry, the first date was super comfortable and we were chatting like old friends...nonstop texting after that and seem very easy flowing, great banter back and forth in between dates. The sexual chemistry is so off the charts that it is actually starting to scare me. It's so intense and passionate, feels very animalistic, like we want to devour each other lol. I've never experienced anything like this and I've had plenty of dating experience/relationships and with my Scorp venus I've always had hot/heavy stuff in that department, but this is something else. I'd like to see where things go and curious if this has good potential. Can you guys give me your input? Thanks!SYNASTRY (I am in Blue). Both times of birth are correct.  COMPOSITE  IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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posted August 25, 2023 03:05 AM
Moon conjunct Venus in the 8th and several saturn contacts. I don't know that much but it looks good to meIP: Logged |
Allstarchamp
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posted August 25, 2023 05:18 AM
Yes, Moon conjunct Venus, Venus sextile Moon... Sun Trine Venus DW. Your Mars/Venus in his 5. His Moon in your 7th.
Maybe Saturn opposite Sun might be difficult to handle in the long run but its binding, Mercury square Neptune could mean misunderstandings... but as a whole this looks very nice.IP: Logged |
Kekerina
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posted August 25, 2023 04:59 PM
Can you try the chart with asteroids like eros 433, psyche 16? IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted August 26, 2023 02:49 PM
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Originally posted by Kekerina:
Can you try the chart with asteroids like eros 433, psyche 16?
Hi! Here you go. I also added Valentine and Cupid since I saw they were making conjunctions. Any other asteroids that I should add? What do you think is creating this crazy chemistry between us? The weirdest thing is - he is NOT my type at all whatsoever so it's strange to be so turned on by him.  IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted August 26, 2023 06:24 PM
Also, I just noticed that his Juno conjunct my DC in synastry and our Vertex conjunct DC in the composite chart. Are those significant?IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted August 28, 2023 03:37 PM
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Miasangel
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posted August 29, 2023 07:36 AM
Mars in the first house striking again. I swear this overlay is like a drug. Undeniable and somewhat impulsive physical attraction IP: Logged |
vansio
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posted August 29, 2023 10:34 AM
pluto square moon. best of luck IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted August 29, 2023 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by vansio:
pluto square moon. best of luck
Can you please elaborate? How bad is it?
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vansio
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posted August 30, 2023 03:56 AM
it’s all-consuming and awful, however, to each their own ✌️ great, exceptional sex ‘til the toxic comes to the forefront typically someone in the dynamic is in need of therapy IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted August 30, 2023 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by vansio:
it’s all-consuming and awful, however, to each their own ✌️ great, exceptional sex ‘til the toxic comes to the forefront typically someone in the dynamic is in need of therapy
We both have Moon square Pluto natally although his is pretty wide angle, plus I have Scorpio Venus and his Cap Venus is in the 8th H and from what I've read, he will also have Scorpio tendencies because of that house placement when it comes to how he approaches intimate relationships. Is that correct? So looking at that, I think we both would welcome the intense all-consuming dynamic in a relationship, at least I know for me personally, I've always liked that and actually crave the intensity, all or nothing kinda connection. Him? Not sure since it's way too new, time will tell. As for therapy, hhmmm, we definitely have scars and been badly burned in past relationships but I've taken years to heal past traumas and been continuously doing self-growth work...again, not sure about him, something tells me he's not fully recovered as he doesn't like talking about his past and says he just wants to move forward and create happy memories. Is Moon square Pluto the only bad aspect that I should be concerned with? Do we have enough good aspects that would soften that or balance it out? IP: Logged |
Allstarchamp
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posted August 31, 2023 08:20 AM
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Originally posted by CuriousV:
What do you think is creating this crazy chemistry between us? The weirdest thing is - he is NOT my type at all whatsoever so it's strange to be so turned on by him.
To me from the synastry chart : physically, Mars sextile Pluto can be significant. On the emotional level, Moon conjunct Venus is a very powerful aspect and it adds emotional depth to any physical attraction in a synastry chart + you guys have the Sun Venus DW which adds to your connection and appreciation of each other. As for any magnetic attraction between you, there's a tight Sun-Lilith conjunction which is known to be very sexual.
Your composite chart looks ok. Tight angular Sun-Venus conjunction is always super nice. Main worry is that afflicted moon though but more the Moon-Saturn opposition than the Moon square Pluto because the orb is very wide and not so significant IMO. However, better have a hard Saturn aspect than no Saturn aspect.
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CuriousV
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posted September 01, 2023 08:30 PM
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Originally posted by Allstarchamp:
To me from the synastry chart : physically, Mars sextile Pluto can be significant. On the emotional level, Moon conjunct Venus is a very powerful aspect and it adds emotional depth to any physical attraction in a synastry chart + you guys have the Sun Venus DW which adds to your connection and appreciation of each other.As for any magnetic attraction between you, there's a tight Sun-Lilith conjunction which is known to be very sexual.
Your composite chart looks ok. Tight angular Sun-Venus conjunction is always super nice. Main worry is that afflicted moon though but more the Moon-Saturn opposition than the Moon square Pluto because the orb is very wide and not so significant IMO. However, better have a hard Saturn aspect than no Saturn aspect.
Thanks for your input. Is Moon Saturn opposition going to create coldness/distance and restricted emotional connection between us or what does that look like exactly? Also, do you have any idea if Juno in Synastry and Vertex in Composite right on our DSC is of any significance?
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Allstarchamp
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posted September 04, 2023 06:21 AM
To be honest, I'm not really sure about the Moon Saturn opposition, it has mixed reputation. Some really like it in composite. I personally have this in synastry in a several years (and counting) relationship. Saturn is the glue and you guys have really good aspects to balance coldness/overcriticism it can add.Vertex conjunct DC (you need very tight orb which you have) is said to be a longterm/marriage indicator in composite but I'm no expert on this even though I do have this with the same person. This is why I can relate easily  . Again, I'm no expert on the Juno conjunct DC but it feels natural to consider this on very positive aspect. Isn't Juno on the DC the most natural placement there can be? Like your ideal partner being spouse material... IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted September 07, 2023 05:14 PM
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Originally posted by Allstarchamp:
To be honest, I'm not really sure about the Moon Saturn opposition, it has mixed reputation. Some really like it in composite. I personally have this in synastry in a several years (and counting) relationship. Saturn is the glue and you guys have really good aspects to balance coldness/overcriticism it can add.Vertex conjunct DC (you need very tight orb which you have) is said to be a longterm/marriage indicator in composite but I'm no expert on this even though I do have this with the same person. This is why I can relate easily . Again, I'm no expert on the Juno conjunct DC but it feels natural to consider this on very positive aspect. Isn't Juno on the DC the most natural placement there can be? Like your ideal partner being spouse material...
Thanks Allstar. Yes, it feels very natural, we are super comfortable with each other and have quite sweet interactions. Is Sun opposite Saturn concerning though? And also, the square between Mercury/Neptune and Sun/Mars. Also, I was asking previously but didn't get anyone's input - him having Venus in 8H - does that give him a bit of a Scorpionic theme? And having my Moon in his 8H - potential for deep intimacy and emotional connection? IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted September 11, 2023 01:22 PM
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CuriousV
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posted September 19, 2023 03:36 PM
Would anyone else chip in please??I've also just noticed that we have double whammies Sun/Saturn and Moon/Saturn. Is that going to be an issue down the road? IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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posted September 20, 2023 04:31 AM
All that in the 5th house looks good. You have so many good ones they'd probably overpower the squares and that Pluto. Look at the sun trine saturn v. sun squares saturn. Should equalize one another. You have to have squares or it stagnates, right? IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted September 20, 2023 01:25 PM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
All that in the 5th house looks good. You have so many good ones they'd probably overpower the squares and that Pluto. Look at the sun trine saturn v. sun squares saturn. Should equalize one another. You have to have squares or it stagnates, right?
Thanks for your input, Stillatlarge. It seems that Sun/Saturn trine is not bad at all, in fact it's considered favorable aspect to have because it adds stability and desire for responsibility and commitment. But we also have the opposition, which is my Saturn to his Sun. Do you have any personal experience or know of how that would play out? And does anyone have anything to add about the Moon/Saturn trine? We have it both ways...thank you!
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CuriousV
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posted September 29, 2023 05:39 PM
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DamnThatGirl
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posted October 09, 2023 12:47 AM
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Originally posted by CuriousV:
Anyone, please?
This synastry is juicy AF! 💋 Have you gone on more dates with him? IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted October 10, 2023 01:45 PM
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Originally posted by DamnThatGirl:
This synastry is juicy AF! 💋Have you gone on more dates with him?
Hi! Yes, we have been regularly seeing each other over the past couple of months. The chemistry is definitely there and when we are together, it's like you mentioned hot and juicy AF, lol, but we've hit some road bumps along the way that made me and, I think him as well, question if this will go somewhere and stand the test of time. We've been able to work it out every time due to a very sweet and incredibly caring energy and magnetic pull between us but I am already seeing this connection is proving to be rather challenging... I am curious if you or anyone else can tell me what can cause a lot of miscommunication/misunderstanding between us. I feel like sometimes we are speaking two different languages when we talk to each other and have a very different communication style. I often feel like he is not clear about things or if he says stuff or answers my questions, it's so incredibly vague or elusive. Or if I tell him what bothers me because he said communication is very important to him and it's key in a relationship, he doesn't seem to hear me, he listens and is eager to discuss things but when we talk, I don't feel like he gets what I am trying to communicate and it frustrates me, I get upset, and then he gets frustrated and upset because of that...and on top of that we both have a tendency to shut down as a way of pushing the other person away when feeling upset, he does more so than I do…aagghhh  but he is always there to ask what’s wrong baby if he feels that something is off and holds me and is being very affectionate if I am upset but again, there’s something in our connection that’s causing friction and frustration. I'd appreciate any input on this, thanks in advance!
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CuriousV
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posted October 16, 2023 06:32 PM
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Aquariusqueen85
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posted October 16, 2023 07:12 PM
Omg, your composite and that 5th house overlay looks a lot like the relationship I just posted about!! It's a wild time in bed for sure! The Sun-Saturn opposition I have too with the guy I'm seeing, and it can get a little difficult with time. But we've been on and off for 12 years, so longevity is def there... haha... crack... it's crack! IP: Logged |
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