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OrbitalFire
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posted September 04, 2023 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OrbitalFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote


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mee_chryssa
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posted September 04, 2023 02:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/012294.html

I explained here the reversed roles and how it can keep u stuck on someone...

It applies with Venus too and I see he has also Moon in Capricorn.

For u it should be easier because it is the ruler of the ASC..

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posted September 04, 2023 03:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OrbitalFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for this ive seen this thread and I know I'm stuck on him I was just wanting to see if there was hope for reconnection

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posted September 04, 2023 07:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unfortunately, astrologically wise, there's not much to hold on to... the only important connection is the conjunction from Mars to Venus, and Venus conjunct Venus. These 2 planets are very physical oriented. Not that this is not important, but that's not soul connected.

His Moon is conjunct your North Node, but this is an aspect of obsession.

The other aspects Mars conjunct Sun, Saturn conjunct Sun, etc..., are not really the main focus in a synastry... if there's nothing on Sun/Moon/ASC, the others will not make up for them.

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posted September 04, 2023 07:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OrbitalFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's fair enough, but I feel how I feel

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posted September 04, 2023 08:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by OrbitalFire:
That's fair enough, but I feel how I feel

I know

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posted September 04, 2023 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Allstarchamp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi there,

There's a Moon Venus trine as well which is nice and as long as we don't have your love interest birthtime, we cannot conclude anything regarding house overlays both in synastry and composite.

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posted September 04, 2023 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OrbitalFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks everyone I know I don't have his birthtime and I'm not really looking for a relationship reading, I was just hoping transit wise in the composite, or aspect wise in synastry there could be some indicators of reconnection, atleast for closure or.resolve on my end

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posted September 04, 2023 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/012294.html

I explained here the reversed roles and how it can keep u stuck on someone...

It applies with Venus too and I see he has also Moon in Capricorn.

For u it should be easier because it is the ruler of the ASC..


Would you count female's Mars conjunct male's Sun? My past partner, I was the Mars but his Moon also oppose his Sun.
Luckily my Venus/Sun aspect his Mars. I would hate to chase.
He did too LOL

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posted September 04, 2023 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OrbitalFire, give it some more time and focus on yourself.

I hope maybe after the Venus rx is over, theres's clarity. It just stop yesterday so yah

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posted September 04, 2023 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
Would you count female's Mars conjunct male's Sun? My past partner, I was the Mars but his Moon also oppose his Sun.
Luckily my Venus/Sun aspect his Mars. I would hate to chase.
He did too LOL


Sun/Moon and Mars/Venus are pairs, each representing the female and masculine parts of us.

It's not the same and as strong when they are with other planets like Mars/Sun, Venus/Sun. It doesn't make anything to me when I meet someone with Gemini Sun, unless they have Venus in Gemini also.

The strongest effect is when they are in pair. Second comes Mars/Moon.

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posted September 04, 2023 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Happy 1111 posts mee_chryssa!

If someone aspect my ASC (which oppose my Mars) - makes me a chaser?
I dunno why but I end up finding my friend who was Venus Gemini (on my ASC) initiating plans. Is it different in platonic dynamics? But then her Mars trine my Moon. Or it depends how their Mars is placed in their own chart?

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posted September 04, 2023 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mee_chryssa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Happy 1111 posts mee_chryssa!

If someone aspect my ASC (which oppose my Mars) - makes me a chaser?
I dunno why but I end up finding my friend who was Venus Gemini (on my ASC) initiating plans. Is it different in platonic dynamics? But then her Mars trine my Moon. Or it depends how their Mars is placed in their own chart?


Thaaank you!

Venus initiating is different from Mars initiating. Venus does the chase too, but in a lovely, compromising way, proposing... Mars takes action and does it.

It matters what Mars does in the chart too.

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posted September 04, 2023 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OrbitalFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
OrbitalFire, give it some more time and focus on yourself.

I hope maybe after the Venus rx is over, theres's clarity. It just stop yesterday so yah


I'm trying very very hard. It's so difficult when you just fall for someone then they do a 180.

I'm trying to process my emotions and take it a day at a time. I'm not able to convey in words they way made me feel, so to everyone this was just a fling and I'll get over it.

But it was more than that. I feel it in my heart. I didn't even have this feeling with my ex husband so I know this is significant.

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posted September 05, 2023 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OrbitalFire I get it... I have strong feelings and emotion too for this person the moment we spoke (via messaging) and it was strong - its hard to shrug it off. I kind of knew the feelings for him won't go away even if I am healed from our break up. He end up becoming cold-ish back in April and became more cold end of July. It hasn't been the same. However, Im stubborn and remain faithful he will open up to me. But for me, I'm letting him taking the initiative to do so and I'm giving him his space. And I think of this guy every day.

I stopped checking transits of our composites bc that's all I could focus on. him and when... if you believe hell reach out again, I say believe in it while putting your energy into yourself and process whatever you need.

Sometimes we don't know what they're thinking - so we think all sorts of thoughts and sometimes for the worse.

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posted September 05, 2023 02:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SimplyLuna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
Thaaank you!

Venus initiating is different from Mars initiating. Venus does the chase too, but in a lovely, compromising way, proposing... Mars takes action and does it.

It matters what Mars does in the chart too.


I love being the Venus person then haha - It feels natural in that state.

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posted September 13, 2023 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OrbitalFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, and sorry to learn you're going through a similar thing.

He hasnt responded to my last message and I doubt he will ever reply or reach out to me.

I read the venus square pluto and even moon square mars can be a case of one sided or unrequited love. Maybe that's what's happening here with me.

Anyway, good luck xx

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