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posted August 21, 2023 03:42 PM            

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According to Linda Goodman, a conjunction, sextile, or trine between Venus and Pluto in synastry is the most reliable bond for a twin flame couple.

But what happens if there is not this?

Is it really Venus/Pluto the twin flame?

It makes more sense to me that it's Moon/Pluto.

Let's see... the moon is our soul, naked.
Pluto is "beyond death".

It makes no more sense than when two twin flames incarnate together, they incarnate under Moon/Pluto (soul union, beyond death). And not with Venus/Pluto.

In addition to the conjunction, trine, or sextile, I would also add the opposition.
Opposites are two halves of a whole.

I admire Linda Goodman very much, but I think that in this, she failed.

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posted August 21, 2023 04:11 PM            

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My Venus is trine my own Pluto, and that of millions of other people born with it in aspect.

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posted August 21, 2023 05:01 PM            

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I had the exact conjunct with two men and while i wouldn’t call them my ‘’twin flame’’ the attraction was very intense. I think Venus/Pluto just shows a potential for a very intense attraction and sometimes it doesn’t feel like love either but more like Venus gets addicted to Pluto’s attention and Pluto can get obsessed and therefore a bond might happen. But the attraction felt ‘’deeper’’ than those i did not have any Pluto aspects with. Pluto will show their love in a possessive manner and Venus loves it while Venus gets very insecure and jealous when Pluto doesn’t have their eyes on them. They both can actually get very obsessive about each other too. I also had the exact conjunction between Moon and Pluto it was kinda similar where it felt deeper and more intense it was hard to give him up. Pluto in Synastry definitivly in my experience adds more intensity and depth into a relationship where you just want to get to the core of the person esp if you are the Pluto person while the inner Planet person gets intrigued and attracted to Pluto’s depth and intensity.

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posted August 21, 2023 09:42 PM            

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WhiteBirds, do you know LeeLoo? She had a list of Twinflame indicators if you trying to search for answers. You can search her up on this forum. But I don't remember if Venus/Pluto was part of it.

I just happened to stumble upon it.

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posted August 22, 2023 12:32 AM            

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If you have conquered the Pluto, any Pluto aspect in synastry will feel like a twin flame.

If you have not conquered the Pluto, it will feel like a twin flame at first then drowning into unhealthy relationship until you learn something: letting go, then start from zero again.

Venus/Pluto is the lovely one I think because venus is the planet of love and pluto have a hard time to find venus' weaknesses and play with it, meanwhile venus will easily touch the pluto and feel mesmerized by the love venus have. But for personal taste I like trine and sextile to reduce the strong reaction from Pluto. It helps to keep the relationship have a dose of "I want to keep you (forevaaa)" in a lovely way not in a demanding way.

Moon/Pluto is known for love and hate intensely and it can easily trigger the relationship into very unhealthy relationship and often mistakenly as greatest bond of love. A constant power struggle is always there whether you admit it or not. Both can easily trigger each other for better or worse as this involve emotions and emotions keeps fluctuated, it's not permanent, so your love is. I often see somewhere between their relationship, one or both will experience losing all the feeling (or feeling an intense hate) when things doesn't go their way but have a hard time to let go because there's a bad habit that is hard to break in the relationship (codependency issue, obsession to suspicion, jealousy to controlling - wants to be the upper hand always). This is a love of highest to lowest, never the stable one as the planet of underworld (Pluto) touch the planet of emotions (Moon). If you like a stable emotional reaction in relationship, you might not like this connection.

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posted August 22, 2023 12:34 PM            

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I have a minor Venus Pluto aspect natally, but I think Pluto aspects are overrated when it comes to true love.

I don't consider obsessive, compulsive, overly sexualized, hate/love, scorched earth, power struggle plutonic relationships true love.

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posted September 15, 2023 05:04 PM            

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Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.

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posted October 08, 2023 05:11 PM            

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posted October 09, 2023 09:07 PM            

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My boyfriend’s Pluto sextiles my Venus. I am deeply in love with him. His Venus forms a sesquiquadrate with my Pluto. I don’t know where our relationship is going but whatever cos our relationship feels so fated to us, so it feels like we’ll always be together.

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posted October 20, 2023 09:56 AM            

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