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Topic: Deep soul love
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 506 From: A South African in South Korea Registered: Jan 2022
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posted September 17, 2023 01:41 AM
Hello! It's been a minute since I've posted here - I have made a successful move to another country and I am soooo happy! I have this friend, who I have actually posted about before - but I didn't have his birth time; now I do. There isn't really anything romantic between us, but I have this deep soul love for him, and I think he has it for me too. I am curious about the charts, I know the composite is decent and can explain the soul love - the synastry is meh to me, lots of squares and may explain the lack of romantic appeal. In both charts there are like no romantic houses aspected - so, I guess it is a very platonic connection, but I am like very obsessed with him haha... So I would like to know, does he feel that same deep connection to me? I think it is a deeper divine connection, not that those are all that important in the long haul. Can someone take a look for me, and check if there is anything significant - if its mutual, and if MAYBE waaaaaaay in the future there could be something romantic? Just curious haha... Sometimes it does feel a little unrequited though, or perhaps ungrounded. We are I suspect at very different stages of life. Synastry: Composite: Davison:
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mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 17, 2023 06:05 AM
lol, he's attracted to u like crazy - his mars opp ur venus.Its not stable though... but he is attracted to u ur moon is conjunct his north node so there's the obsession from ur part. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 506 From: A South African in South Korea Registered: Jan 2022
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posted September 17, 2023 06:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by mee_chryssa: lol, he's attracted to u like crazy - his mars opp ur venus.Its not stable though... but he is attracted to u ur moon is conjunct his north node so there's the obsession from ur part.
lol thanks! it's not aspected tho is it? I see his pluto is opp my venus - what makes you say its not stable? IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 506 From: A South African in South Korea Registered: Jan 2022
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posted September 17, 2023 07:23 AM
Ohhhh I see it, it’s wide tho, at 7 degrees. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 17, 2023 02:06 PM
it's pretty basic, you could have this with a co-worker... Sun/Moon trine each other. ASCs are not compatible with each other. you have saturn on ur ASC, he has Moon on DC, totally different ways of connecting in relationships... the only thing that is going to romantic relationship is the opp from his Mars to ur Venus and Opposite Sun signs which is a plus, but it would've been better between Sun/Moon, but that's all... Was he married before? or had a long termm relationship with someone that was older than him?? even a year? IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 506 From: A South African in South Korea Registered: Jan 2022
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posted September 17, 2023 08:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by mee_chryssa: it's pretty basic, you could have this with a co-worker... Sun/Moon trine each other. ASCs are not compatible with each other. you have saturn on ur ASC, he has Moon on DC, totally different ways of connecting in relationships... the only thing that is going to romantic relationship is the opp from his Mars to ur Venus and Opposite Sun signs which is a plus, but it would've been better between Sun/Moon, but that's all... Was he married before? or had a long termm relationship with someone that was older than him?? even a year?
I don’t think he’s been married - and I’m not sure but his last girlfriend was like 9 years younger than him. He’s a tad commitment phobic I think, anyway - I thought the synastry was boring haha, that’s why I was curious about the composite. Especially for explaining this love I have for him. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 18, 2023 02:08 AM
I don't use composites because I don't think they work... maybe someone else can help u with that.IP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 808 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 18, 2023 04:18 PM
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stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 808 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 18, 2023 04:32 PM
She sh-ts on everybody's posts.You have Sun Conjunct Pluto, Venus Opp Pluto, Sun Trine Moon, North Node Conjunct Moon, Neptune Trine venus to name a few. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 18, 2023 04:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by stillatlarge: She sh-ts on everybody's posts.You have Sun Conjunct Pluto, Venus Opp Pluto, Sun Trine Moon, North Node Conjunct Moon, Neptune Trine venus to name a few.
what are u talking about? lol you posted the aspects but you dont even know what they mean. u're making a fool out of urself... people that come to astrology for answers is because they dont have their answer in the real life, so most of the relationships posted here - about 98% of them - are affairs, flings, fwb, abusive relationships. So if you are taking examples from charts posted here, you are probably not going to find the ones that are really long term because there are just a few of them. if you want a rose colored answer, there you have it... it's your soulmate, you're going to marry him, it's not just a physical attraction, it's beyond the world. This is a friendship that has physical attraction and it will end after the first act. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 808 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 18, 2023 05:34 PM
Oh, and you're the authority,right? You do sh-t on everyone's post. You are pessimistic and ignore any good aspects. It's always half empty. Always. You strain to miss anything positive and magnify any negative no matter how insignificant. Your own statements and attitude you admit to prove you should keep your negativity to yourself.IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1152 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted September 19, 2023 02:44 AM
lol, u should go and learn some more astrology because you are speaking without knowledge. A trine between the luminaries is not going to make up for the strong (keep in mind, they're conjunctions, oppositions) obsessive and physical aspects. Adding the VERY incompatible ascendants. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 506 From: A South African in South Korea Registered: Jan 2022
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posted September 19, 2023 09:12 AM
Uhm just to defend myself over here lol - I know soul connections aren’t always romantic, nor are they meant to be. I’m not even really that attracted to him, which I suppose can be seen in the synastry. I guess I’m just curious about the loving feelings I get when I talk to him or am around him, and if it could be seen in the synastry or be explained by the composite. Nevertheless, I wouldn’t be surprised if nothing romantic ever happened - I guess I was just in the fantasy of that being nice with this soul feeling I have. But there’s a reason for everything, I mean it not being romantic - perhaps it’s a bullet dodged 🤷♀️ - I could see the lack of affinity in the charts, but I was just curious about anyone else’s opinion. Anyway, thanks for the input anyway guys IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2381 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted September 19, 2023 10:56 AM
You have all relationship planets aspecting each other in composite. Sun Moon Venus conjunct in Pisces should feel beautiful. Looks like it might be love. Interesting, they are all separately from outer planets. And Jupiter sq. Pluto can usually interfere with living together long term. Mars inconjuncts. So it might be not enough grounding, desire and actions to make this something serious. Unless synastry works.IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1227 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted September 21, 2023 12:06 PM
Hi Lily!I think the moon Venus sun mercury in composite explains this as well- moon Venus is one of my favorite aspects. There is a depth of love there, such understanding and forgiveness, generosity. And in the composite, Taurus ASC reflects this, Venus being the chart ruler and it's at the height of the chart. Mars is inconjunct this stellium too- I kind of really like this composite. No relationship is without it's challenges, maybe just enjoy the connection and see what happens? I didn't trace the composite back to your natal or his, but this is what I see. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 506 From: A South African in South Korea Registered: Jan 2022
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posted September 22, 2023 03:39 AM
Thanks Librapurr and Stonemoon! I’m not really sure what the Mars Inconjuncts could mean 🤔 - I do agree that the love stellium is probably playing a part. Also, NN with Uranus and Neptune - I think that also signifies soul connection if I’m not mistaken. But I do agree with the aspects with the lack of grounding - we are also from two different countries and met in a different country lol. So if anything were eeeeever to happen - I rate there would be traveling involved. With our Natals, I suspect I’m a much deeper thinking person than he is, like I don’t really know if I see any connections from his chart to the composite - I know there is from mine I think. Also, there aren’t really any romantic houses aspected - like perhaps the 10th could signal like us building something together, unless that’s just the 2nd. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 179548 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 28, 2023 02:23 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 179548 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 15, 2023 02:23 PM
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Aquariusqueen85 Newflake Posts: 11 From: Philadelphia, PA, USA Registered: Oct 2023
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posted October 16, 2023 08:54 PM
I had a similar composite with my now ex husband. It was dreamy at first, but the Mercury opposition sun/moon/Venus (and in our case also Mars—which you don’t have thankfully), caused lots of arguments. We ended up not even being able to understand each other. It was like we lived on different planets. Definitely wish I would have known to work on really making sure we understood how each other communicated. So just wanted to give you my experience, in case it goes anywhere! But I’m no expert! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 179548 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2023 05:36 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 179548 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 12, 2023 05:28 PM
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