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Topic: Just for fun - comparing 2 synastries with 2 new guys
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frida
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posted September 29, 2023 06:49 AM
  
As the subject says, I'm posting this just for fun. I always get surprised how transits work - I haven't been on a single date since Saturn entered my 7th house 8 months ago, and half of that time Venus Rx was in my 12th house. Now that Venus is finally approaching my Asc, 2 interesting guys showed up. I think both synastries are really interesting. Which one would you go for?  I don't have birth times! The synastry with the Leo (A) has only harmonious aspects! That's mind blowing to me.
His Moon is in Libra for sure and wherever it is, it probably makes significant, harmonious aspects to my planets in Aquarius and/or Libra. Have you ever dated someone with so many easy aspects? I'm so used to some squares and tension, Mars / Moon or Venus conjunctions, Venus Pluto contacts etc. Honestly, it feels so nice and healing to like someone but not feel crazy hormonal attraction. I'm still attracted to him, but in a mellow way. I'm really curious to see what happens... I like the feeling, but from what I hear, such easy synastries don't have enough staying power. The only Saturn contact is his Saturn on my IC. Guy B, Scorpio - I'm meeting him tonight and I predict that the sparks will fly (Mars conj Venus, opp Moon; Sun sq Moon; Mars trine Pluto). I think there would be too much tension for the long run. I'm really curious about his Sun+Venus on an empty leg of my Moon, Venus, Chiron T-square. I've had enough difficult "growth" in relationships and don't want more of it (plus I don't like the age difference), but I know it's a powerful placement so it's interesting. I am in blue, inside, in both charts.
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vansio
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posted September 29, 2023 11:10 AM
if i had to choose: B is betterIP: Logged |
julyjuly
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posted September 29, 2023 12:07 PM
I would choose the first one. It really looks harmonious.Post the composites. IP: Logged |
frida
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posted September 29, 2023 07:24 PM
Wow, as I thought, the thing with B - Scorpio would be intense. How can the charts say so much, it never stops to amaze me. When we met I thought I was totally wrong, I can’t ever like this guy. After 2 hours, I was fighting myself not to jump on him! I think I had a mental stimulation orgasm 😂 yep, as I thought, I loved that Scorpio depth and intensity. I think we both showed a lot of maturity by stopping ourselves from getting physical because things could get complicated. I don’t know anymore what’s good, what not… but for sure all those squares generate a looooot of heat. I think it’s early for composites… but I admit I took a peak. The one with Leo is harmonious and it has a yod. I haven’t seen that many easy aspects in relationship charts. The one with Scorpio possibly has a bit challenged Moon, which I don’t like. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
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posted October 03, 2023 11:44 AM
There's no physical attraction, or not enough in the first synastry.
With the second one you have Venus conjunct Mars. He falls with his personal planets in ur 4th house which adds the depth and recognition. Especially with the Sun. Probably his Venus reminds u of someone. Usually, Venus in the 4th reminds someone of someone in their family.
The thing is that ur Moon is square his Sun, and this shows some differences betweenn u two. Maybe religion, race, being from different countries, being very different from each other that puts a strong boundary. If not, this will express itself as being very misunderstood by him. IP: Logged |
frida
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posted October 03, 2023 12:04 PM
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Originally posted by mee_chryssa:
There's no physical attraction, or not enough in the first synastry.
With the second one you have Venus conjunct Mars. He falls with his personal planets in ur 4th house which adds the depth and recognition. Especially with the Sun. Probably his Venus reminds u of someone. Usually, Venus in the 4th reminds someone of someone in their family.
The thing is that ur Moon is square his Sun, and this shows some differences betweenn u two. Maybe religion, race, being from different countries, being very different from each other that puts a strong boundary. If not, this will express itself as being very misunderstood by him.
Great points! Thanks for the comment Yeah, I already saw the Scorpio again and the attraction is undeniable. We are different for sure. Re 4th house, he is from a town where my mom grew up and where I still have some family. It's his Saturn square my Mars that I really don't like, and he is 6 years younger than me. Anyway, I feel like I should stay away and not complicate my life, if that's even possible. Why can't we people just enjoy easy, boring, harmonious relationships haha
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Randall
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posted October 17, 2023 03:14 PM
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frida
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posted October 17, 2023 08:08 PM
Synastry A - nothing 👎 Just a drag. I actually liked how I felt with him because I’m tired of big passions… so I just wanted a nice, mellow time with someone. But he probably wanted something else even though he expressed interest in me. Synastry B - Saturn square Mars is playing out since the beginning. I don’t feel comfortable sharing details online I don’t think something long term will develop, but the connection is meaningful, for me at least! IP: Logged | |
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