posted October 03, 2023 01:58 PM
Me(27F) & my boyfriend (29M) of almost 3 years have the chance move in together in a few months. We always excitedly talked about living together one day, & its always felt like we should.
BUT- now that we have this chance I’ve made the mistake of diggin too deep into our transits for next year, our synastry, etc, to see if it is the right choice or not. The reason is because I’ve been a little scared about finances (he just got a new job that’s higher paying but not as stable) and I’ve been nervous about losing friends and being less social if I live with him. I’ve also just been nervous that for some reason if we live together, it won’t work out (even tho our relationship is great, I just have relationship anxiety)I’ve definitely given myself cold feet and I wonder how I’d be feeling if I didn’t look at the astrology. I usually don’t let astrology dictate my life or get in my head, but I think this time there are SO many things that point to it not working out…
Synastry:
http://i.imgur.com/bGVviuQ.jpg
In synastry (he’s on the outside) we have moon sq moon which I heard gets worse when you move in together. Cuz right now I’ve never really felt it be an issue. We have other harsh aspects like moon sq Venus, moon sq saturn, sun sq Uranus. We also ONLY have south node synastry, which is my biggest fear, because I hear that shouldn’t be what you follow in life, and I haven’t found any couples that only have
SN synastry and are still together.
Composite:
http://i.imgur.com/Mdq0Hmh.jpg
In composite, we have Uranus sq the moon. But, we also have SN conjunct sun & MC, & NN conjunct moon & IC. Which I think is really interesting. Maybe this is why it feels like we are meant to move in together or create a home life together? But Uranus is squaring most of it…
Aside from that, our personal transits next year are worrying me.
My transits for next year:
Transit Pluto sq MC
Transit Pluto sq Mars
Transit saturn sq moon
Nodal reversal in libra/Aries
His transits for next year:
Transit Uranus sq ascendant
Transit Uranus conjunct Venus
Transit Pluto sq sun
Saturn return (exact in Feb)
Transit Saturn opposite Moon
Seems like we both will have major changes with career, home life, & relationships bc most of these planets fall in the angular houses in our charts. I can post the transit charts if it’s easier.
AND to top it all off… my solar return for next year shows 4+ planets in my 12H. Seems like it’ll be a lonely year for me for some reason.
With all of this combined, I can’t help but feel like if I move in with him, we would break up or go through hard times together. But then I wonder, what if I don’t move in with him? What would happen then? Cuz we both will still be going through these transits and have this synastry… would we still break up? Would it manifest in a different way?
What do you guys see? I love him and don’t want to lose him, and I would love to live with him, but now I’m too nervous.
Lindaland
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