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PlutoIsMyTeacher13
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posted November 18, 2023 04:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’ve recently started dating a friend of a friend whom I’ve known for years and wow, it’s wonderful but also very intense! It feels good but the intensity is bringing about a confusion for me, like “what is going on here?!” Never quite experienced anything like it. We are very much on the same wavelength emotionally, but there is definitely more to it than that. Can’t quite explain it.
I’ve only recently (past 6 months) been teaching myself about astrology and am even newer to synastry and karmic astrology so I wanted some help with this.
It seems to me that there is quite a strong karmic element to our synastry but I’d like opinions.
Not sure how many and which aspects to list but going to list what I think is the most important.
Me and him

North node Leo 19 29’, Moon Leo 11 46’ conjc
Asc Leo 0 27’ , Asc Leo 1 01’ conjc
Venus Leo 5 58’, Moon Leo 11 46’ conjc
Venus Leo 5 58’, Asc Leo 1 01’ conjc
Sun Virgo 20, Mars Pisces 27 opposition
Sun Virgo 20, Sun Taurus 25 50’ trine
Moon Scorpio 3 58, Asc Leo 1 square
Mars Scorpio 10, Venus Cancer 8 26’ trine
Venus Leo 5 58, Pluto Libra 6 43’ sextile

There is obviously a lot more…

I should also mention that as we have a exact Asc conjunction in Leo, Pluto is currently transiting over both of our descendants moving its way into both of our 7th houses

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posted November 20, 2023 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 20, 2023 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you please post the chart pictures? There is a guide in the Q&A.

The node-moon conjunction is too wide - 19 to 11 degrees gives an 8 degree orb. Most people won’t count anything over 3 degrees.

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posted November 21, 2023 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you! I’m on the inside, he’s on the outside

http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_0236.jpeg

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posted November 21, 2023 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’ve tried to add it as an Img but can’t seem to make it work! Do you have access to the link. Shall I add our individual charts too? Thanks so much for your help!

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posted November 21, 2023 03:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
[IMG]https://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_0236.jpeg?_gl=1*wskjyd*_gcl_au*MTQwMTc3OTIxLjE3MDA1NTM1MTEuNjc5MzM0NzA4LjE3MDA1NTU0MzYuMTcwMDU1NTQzNg..*_ga*MTY5NjY1MjE2OC4xNzAwNTUzNTE x*_ga_G8C8966GXT*MTcwMDU1MzUxMC4xLjEuMTcwMDU1NTU0My42MC4wLjA[/IMG]

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posted November 21, 2023 04:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh my gosh, sorry really struggling to make this work and then can’t figure out how to delete my replies!

Fingers crossed this one does!!!

http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_7559.jpeg

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posted November 21, 2023 04:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK! That one should work!!!

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posted November 22, 2023 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We can see the chart that way.

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posted November 23, 2023 05:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah sorry to be picky but this isn’t really the synastry, just his placements around your chart but without the interaspects between them or any info on his houses. When you go to astro.com, select just Synastry Chart (2), not any of the others below.

To do the BB code, use [ img ] - but without the spaces - then the link but delete the “s” in “https” and make sure the url ends in .jpg or .png - then [ / img ] again without spaces.

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posted November 23, 2023 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Our houses are nearly identical! Much easier to see that in this one though and now it’s got the aspects too. Thank you for the tips!
(IMG) http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_7570.jpeg(/IMG)

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posted November 23, 2023 07:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And again! Hopefully this one works!!!
(Img)http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_7570.jpeg(/img)

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posted November 23, 2023 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is actually driving me crazy now

(IMG)http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_7570.jpeg(/IMG)

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posted November 23, 2023 07:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted November 23, 2023 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_7570.jpeg

Ok! Please let this work…

His is on the outside, I’m on the inside

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posted November 23, 2023 07:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol ok you are close - just use brackets [] instead of parentheses () and no spaces

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posted November 23, 2023 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol

Can you see the last post that I made? You commented just after I posted a chart link that should have worked. I can definitely access it. Hopefully you can too

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posted November 24, 2023 05:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This has gotten so messy I’ve just made a new, much more concise, post :-) “no choice but to love” tia

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posted November 24, 2023 08:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yay, good job!

The exact DW AC conjunction is significant... Obviously you go through the same transits at the same time, and much of your lives are aligned - you approach each area in a similar way, so there is a deep and natural understanding between you. You also have DW MC conjunction, which wouldn't necessarily happen just because of the AC/DC action, so I find that important as well. You are here to achieve a similar purpose in the world - being in Aries, you're likely pioneers or leaders in your field(s).

I am seeing a big theme with Mercury and thought axis (Gem/Sag 3/9) themes, along with the authenticity axis (Leo/Aqua 5/11). His Mercury, while square your Sun/Jupiter, also sextiles your North Node. His way of thinking and communicating, especially in social situations and regarding humanitarian efforts, helps you grow towards your soul purpose. This is especially interesting because there is a slight inversion with your NN in Leo, which is opposite Aquarius, which naturally rules the 11th house where his Mercury sits. I expect this to be challenging for you, but be aware that it's meant to help you grow. (And that doesn't mean he's always right - we learn from both positive and negative examples. It depends on his own evolution.) With Saturn opposite Mars along the thought axis, it's likely you will debate a lot and have many discussions and even conflicts over your points of view. Your Mercury and Venus also loosely and harmoniously aspect his NN, so you'll have an effect on him too. Both of you have karmic lessons around romance, turning friendship into love, and creativity or children. (His NN is in the 5th, naturally ruled by Leo, where your NN sits.) Additionally, his Pluto and your Mercury are conjunct the mutual IC, which indicates power struggles in communication around home/motherhood/children, or issues of nationalism and tradition. His SN is in Gemini, so he brings a lot of karma around thinking, communication, gossip. I highly recommend reading up on your respective north nodes, especially the shared Leo/5th house NN.

With his moon in the first, he's easy to read, especially for you - and you naturally nurture him with your Venus there. There is a maternal and Venusian vibe to the emotional connection. Nurturing.

I'd be curious about the composite to see the longevity of the connection and mutually held karma.

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posted November 24, 2023 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Amazing, thank you!

Yes, I thought the way that the two charts laid out in synastry with the AC and MC and north nodes were significant and felt instinctively that there is something very karmic going on. It looks very unusual!

As I said it’s intense and although there are some differing points of view, which I’m sure we will debate over - as we’ve already started.. there is also a feeling of understanding and deep compassion. I can be very critical but with him I feel almost an unconditional acceptance, which would be related to the moon conj Venus, as you said.

So, as I said, Pluto is transiting both of our descendants… At the beginning of the year I left a long term relationship that had become toxic. It suddenly felt like I had to leave, like a conveyor belt of energy was taking me to a destination and I had no choice but to leave asap. With this man it feels a similar intensity. There is literally no option but to be in a relationship with him. It’s the same feeling of being carried in a direction. But obviously not the “I’m going to leave be it by choice or by disaster”, but a “we’ve come together and the connection is fated and there is no stopping it now”

There is a definite soulmate feeling about it, but not so much one of lessons that will come to an end because once we learn we move on, but one of coming together for a much stronger lifetime purpose. It just feels right and that we.could get through anything together. Strong words for this early on but that is what it feels like!

Which chart is best for composite on astrodienst? I’ll get that up once I hear back from you.

Thank you for your wisdom, very appreciated!

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posted November 24, 2023 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You will want composite chart, midpoint method (2).

Forgive me because I am partly projecting here, but Pluto also recently transited over my DC, whereupon I also ended an LTR (a marriage actually) while simultaneously meeting someone new, whom I felt strongly destined to be with. So far it has turned to complete ash, unfortunately… However, Pluto has simultaneously been squaring my moon-Venus conjunction, so I hope the outcome for you is better! My experience with these strong soul connections just hasn’t been positive in terms of 3D manifestations. IME just because there is a strong 5D connection doesn’t mean it can manifest here in this plane, because to do so both parties have to be quite evolved. I have hope for you though <3 let’s look at the composite and aspects it makes to the natal charts. Should be very interesting with the alignments we already see.

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posted November 24, 2023 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, do you feel your south node more in the 7th or the 8th house? Read a description for each and let me know… because another house system would place your NN in the 1st.

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posted November 24, 2023 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you.

Ah, yep…. Fully aware of what happens when Pluto transits the 7th. I think it can make things very intense, can help you grow in relationships, but doesn’t bring “easy” relationships

http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_0239.jpeg

I resonate more with the north node in Leo in the 1st house / south in Aquarius in the 7th

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posted November 24, 2023 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://d.img.vision/seasidesarah13/IMG_7580.jpeg

Sorry that last one was incorrect. This one should be the composite

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posted November 30, 2023 05:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoIsMyTeacher13     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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