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posted November 18, 2023 04:08 PM            

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I’m having trouble seeing past my own bias… Saturn/moon seems like it would bog the relationship down with too much weight/responsibility, but north node conjunct Venus seems good?

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posted November 18, 2023 05:30 PM            

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Read up on composite moon-Saturn conjunction and it sounds consistently bad, and despite being a supposedly “binding” aspect, they all seem to end eventually.

And Pluto square Mars is bad, potentially even violent.

I always look to the nodes to see the karmic lesson/purpose of the relationship, and now considering the fact that composite north node is conjunct Venus BUT in the first house, it seems the purpose is for the individuals to develop real SELF-love. Composite south node in the 8th just screams that nothing should be truly shared between them - not anymore.

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posted November 21, 2023 04:57 AM            

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Bump - please! Is this forum dead? Where are all the OGs?

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posted December 02, 2023 04:32 AM            

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posted December 02, 2023 03:29 PM            

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Hi I'll be honest... I check out the threads in interpersonal astrology, but most of the time I can't read charts that look too busy - too many asteroids, or sometimes incomplete information etc. I think many people feel the same. Synastries and composites are complicated to interpret so having charts with planets only and sometimes tables as well goes a long way!

Mars square Pluto - yes, sounds very difficult.
Moon conj. Saturn - I'm not sure really... a bond definitely, but it can feel heavy.

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posted December 03, 2023 04:45 AM            

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saturn moon typically means the woman feels obligated to the connection. harboring a sense of muted authority; can be indignant

ive had that venus-neptune-nn conjunction before, in my composite 5H. its was very charming; gave my whole life to it. also the jupiter conjunct juno: this is a composite between persons born 1989 and 1993/4?

pluto square mars would imply the agency of both in the connection is built off tension and resists transformation. a trust issue. “violence” is an exaggeration, but definitely not harmonious-evolution.

i recently got out of a different connection that has pluto-trine-mars, and despite certain enforced upheaval, he trusted me. he often would admit that my actions “moved him” — heeding purpose.

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posted December 03, 2023 08:53 AM            

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Thank you vansio! Yes, they are ‘89 and ‘93. Trust issues is right. I wonder if the Saturn-Moon reflects that he is in a position of authority over her at work.

May I ask why your Venus-Neptune-NN relationship didn’t work out?

I would have thought the Jupiter-Juno was too wide to be considered a true conjunction. Juno is closer to Mars.

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posted December 03, 2023 09:20 AM            

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imo the reason something doesnt work out would not be seen in the composite. at best synastry only. that relationship of mine didn’t work out because it wasn’t meant to. frankly the love had ended before his cheating occurred; it was hard for me to admit that i didn’t want to be with him.

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posted December 05, 2023 05:59 PM            

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Hi! Im so much better when there is a table thxx

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posted December 07, 2023 07:51 AM            

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Here you go! Sorry, I didn’t realize people relied on the table. Thank you everyone for taking a look!

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posted December 08, 2023 11:10 AM            

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speaking for comp. Most of the relationships that managed itself to be established had north node conjunctions or trines I guess, when I see a north node square I tend to think they are going to have a different pathway sometime etc..
Not that I have so much wisdom but I took a look anyway. Mars square pluto may indicate playfighting? Also with sun trine mars you boost your confidence and energy together?

I guess I had a friend of mine who we had moon conjunct saturn, she tend to hide her unmeaningful histeric moments since she somehow felt a duty to be calm and persistent near me? -edit I checked and no there is no saturn conjunct moon, sorry to bother.

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posted December 08, 2023 02:26 PM            

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itisokay, I think you are confused… there is Saturn conjunct moon, but no square to the nodal axis. The square is from Ceres to Saturn/Moon opposite Chiron, forming a T-square. I also wouldn’t count Nessus with 5-degree orb to square the nodes.

But now I notice that T-square… ouch!

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posted December 26, 2023 07:27 PM            

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posted January 21, 2024 09:18 PM            

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Sasha, how is this going? I'm so curious about the NN in the 1st house. My person and I have that, and it has taken awhile for us to officially get together!

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posted January 22, 2024 09:47 AM            

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Well I am not in this relationship. This is someone else's relationship.

Interesting to have the sun in the 12th because it is a somewhat secret relationship, being between a teacher and his student. Like I wrote in the other thread, I interpret composite NN in the 1st as being about learning to be individuals within the relationship - to be interdependent, not codependent - to be whole and complete on one's own in order to have a healthy relationship.

As far as I can tell, neither of them does this. They are both serial monogamists and one is a consistent cheater. They are still together, but it started as a rebound, maybe they cheated on their exes with each other, not sure. Anyway they're still together after about ten months now. They knew each other for about a year and a half before getting together.

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