posted December 20, 2023 07:01 AM            

A few things I’ve noticed so far that are unique to this relationship: the connection is very deep with a strong sense of an almost telepathic communication, we both have children and our parenting styles match, he doesn’t see himself as spiritual but is extremely intuitive, I feel complete acceptance from him. We are both very open with each other. Our friends are very happy that we are together.

Also, what is new to me is that I’m looking at his flaws realistically but instead of focusing on criticism I also feel acceptance and an almost maternal love towards him.

So far, everything feel very relaxed and comfortable

We’ve got both Sun and Venus in the 12th but also Jupiter. There is definitely nothing secret about this relationship. We are very affectionate in public and friends are delighted for us

posted December 20, 2023 05:26 PM            

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Originally posted by itisokay:
I read in this forum that comp node conjunct ıc is a marriage indicator, states that two person want to build a nest
Also you may look/add at the vertex too

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Thank you! Yes, I’ve read that as well re the IC/ NN conjunction though I don’t entirely understand why. Do you?

Just had a look at our vertex’s in synastry and they are literally on top of each other (less than a degree apart) in Sagittarius 5th house. In composite it is 17 degrees in Sag, right beside Neptune. . My guess is that because our AC’s are conjunct and our MH’s are conjunct , this is why the vertex is conjunct also. Do you know?

posted January 04, 2024 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
Thank you! Yes, I’ve read that as well re the IC/ NN conjunction though I don’t entirely understand why. Do you?

Just had a look at our vertex’s in synastry and they are literally on top of each other (less than a degree apart) in Sagittarius 5th house. In composite it is 17 degrees in Sag, right beside Neptune. . My guess is that because our AC’s are conjunct and our MH’s are conjunct , this is why the vertex is conjunct also. Do you know?

However, there doesn’t seem to be much online about vertex conjunct full stop. Do you know anything about this?

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posted January 04, 2024 12:36 PM            

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Ah, that is interesting! Did you know from the beginning that you would get married/live together?

I’ve noticed that I’ve been thinking what it would be like to live with him already. Almost from a practical standpoint - as in “how would it work/what would it be like?” But mainly because he is very easy to be with and can imagine us getting along very well in a domestic setting..

We both have children from a previous relationship. I’ve spent more time with his child and already have a bond with her, which feels like a Leo connection (her Leo Sun, my Leo Venus and ASC) though I haven’t looked at her chart.

posted January 04, 2024 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:

Interstesting observation. I am married and we have NN in the 4th not conjunct the IC, though.
I second looking at where the vertex is placed.

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Ah, that is interesting! Did you know from the beginning that you would get married/live together?

I’ve noticed that I’ve been thinking what it would be like to live with him already. Almost from a practical standpoint - as in “how would it work/what would it be like?” But mainly because he is very easy to be with and can imagine us getting along very well in a domestic setting..

We both have children from a previous relationship. I’ve spent more time with his child and already have a bond with her, which feels like a Leo connection (her Leo Sun, my Leo Venus and ASC) though I haven’t looked at her chart.

posted January 04, 2024 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
Ah, that is interesting! Did you know from the beginning that you would get married/live together?

I’ve noticed that I’ve been thinking what it would be like to live with him already. Almost from a practical standpoint - as in “how would it work/what would it be like?” But mainly because he is very easy to be with and can imagine us getting along very well in a domestic setting..

We both have children from a previous relationship. I’ve spent more time with his child and already have a bond with her, which feels like a Leo connection (her Leo Sun, my Leo Venus and ASC) though I haven’t looked at her chart.

The vertex is conjunct in synastry and is in the 5th house in Sag (both synastry and composite). I’ve read that vertex conj is a marriage indicator and have also read that it is a karmic/fated aspect. There is definitely a theme of romance, creativity and children in our relationship so far!

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posted January 04, 2024 04:08 PM            

I’ve noticed that I’ve been thinking what it would be like to live with him already. Almost from a practical standpoint - as in “how would it work/what would it be like?” But mainly because he is very easy to be with and can imagine us getting along very well in a domestic setting..

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Same with someone I have north node conjunct ıc conjunct saturn! I like how practical he is at housework. We also have vertex at 7 conjuncting dsc.

posted January 05, 2024 04:30 AM            

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I’ve noticed that I’ve been thinking what it would be like to live with him already. Almost from a practical standpoint - as in “how would it work/what would it be like?” But mainly because he is very easy to be with and can imagine us getting along very well in a domestic setting..

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Same with someone I have north node conjunct ıc conjunct saturn! I like how practical he is at housework. We also have vertex at 7 conjuncting dsc.

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Oh wow, what a combo! That sounds very positive for settling down… Is it quite a relaxed/secure connection?

I wouldn’t say that ours feels particularly relaxed (though he is very relaxed as a person) it feels somewhat dynamic

posted January 05, 2024 10:49 AM            

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I wouldn’t say that ours feels particularly relaxed (though he is very relaxed as a person) it feels somewhat dynamic
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It makes sense that it feels dynamic! Comp venus is opposite with mars which creates a fun teaseful dynamic. Also pluto squares the sun venus conjunction which creates the consept of constant transformation about self and tastes.

Your planets are mostly at his 3rd and his planets are mostly at your 11th house. 3rd and 11th houses are kind of friendship/communication related houses so it makes sense that you remained friends at the beginning! Also his venus being at your 12th caused you to ignore him for a long time and remained friends I guess, 12th made the attraction dormant I believe.

When I put my moon at friends 12th, he could never quitely understood my true feelings. He didin’t believe I missed and liked him a lot and waited him for a long time when we were apart. He was clueless. 12th house made him blind to my emotions. In this case, his venus being at your 12, hid his venusian -dating material- qualities so that maybe thats why you remained friends for such a long time? I am not sure 12th house works like that but I just guessed .
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posted January 06, 2024 01:41 PM            

That’s really interesting about your unaspected Venus in composite. I haven’t really understood that concept until now so thanks for giving me a good example.

Interestingly, we were both attracted to each other when we first met. I likely would have persued him had he not been in a relationship with someone else. Then I was in a long term relationship with a man who became manipulative with me over time. That ended early this year after a year of trying to make it work.

So it was mainly down to timing being off. But, and you’ll find this interesting no doubt, our AC is conjunct by 1 degree so both our 7th houses are in Aquarius, Pluto was hovering over both our DC when we got together. We are both at the start of a Pluto transit of the 7th house!

The connection does feel very friendly, in some ways we are very alike (quirky in the same way, which I love). So although dynamic with a fair amount of magnetic attraction and physical affection it is also easy.

Definitely something karmic going on. Can feel an ease that is beyond how well we know each other

posted January 06, 2024 01:45 PM            

That’s really interesting about your unaspected Venus in composite. I haven’t really understood that concept until now so thanks for giving me a good example.

Interestingly, we were both attracted to each other when we first met. I likely would have persued him had he not been in a relationship with someone else. Then I was in a long term relationship with a man who became manipulative with me over time. That ended early this year after a year of trying to make it work.

So it was mainly down to timing being off. But, and you’ll find this interesting no doubt, our AC is conjunct by 1 degree so both our 7th houses are in Aquarius, Pluto was hovering over both our DC when we got together. We are both at the start of a Pluto transit of the 7th house!

The connection does feel very friendly, in some ways we are very alike (quirky in the same way, which I love). So although dynamic with a fair amount of magnetic attraction and physical affection it is also easy.

Definitely something karmic going on. Can feel an ease that is beyond how well we know each other