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Topic: People who have been the Saturn in a Saturn sqaure in synastry!
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Rose06
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posted January 25, 2024 09:49 AM
  
ONLY PEOPLE WHOSE SATURN SQAURE TO ANOTHER'S PERSONAL PLANETS! How did you act? Were you aware of how you came across to the other individual? How did you view the planet person? How did they view you? Often, the Saturn person is viewed as stern, wet-blanket, or restrictive, were you ever like that? Or did you even mean to be like that? Or was it all unconscious? I would love to know your experience, and your stories. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted January 26, 2024 08:58 AM
I was Saturn in a exact square between Sun and Saturn and i did not handle being Saturn very well. This person triggered insecurites within me and nothing he did satisfied me. I would kill his confidence out of insecurity and hurt feelings on my part but i have never been as patient with someone like i was with him. I was very patient. That ugly side of Saturn doesn’t come out for no reason it is usually hurt feelings behind it triggered by the personal planet person or atleast in my case it was like that. It was a ‘’higher purpose’’ type of connection, i was the one that had to learn a lesson and get a ‘’reality check’’ about myself and decisions i had made in my life and my experience with him really opened my eyes up. Saturn is very commited, serious and patient but when it’s had enough and the planet person doesn’t change then it’s nothing left to do then to move on. To be sweet and cute with this person also felt awkward but we didn’t have much Venus stuff going on but we had an exact conjunction between Venus and Pluto and i felt that aspect, it was more like intense heated moments between us. I think we both felt more comfortable having a harsher approach to each other rather than a more loving one even when we cared about each other. If you want to make the Saturn person happy then you need to reassure them that they are appreciated and that you wont leave or swap them out when anything ‘’new’’ comes along or when your confidence is at the best it’s ever been because this is where alot of Saturn’s insecure attitude comes from. Also give them the same loyality and commitment they have given you. IP: Logged |
Rose06
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posted January 26, 2024 09:36 AM
How did that other person act if you don't mind me asking, that made you feel insecure? When I think of Saturn not being pleased with the planet person, I usually think that, the Saturn person views the planet person as somewhat immature - did you view them that way?IP: Logged |
93nov
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posted January 26, 2024 11:15 AM
I've been Saturn more times than not in a Venus-Saturn square in synastry and it almost always ends exactly like the textbook descriptions say: Venus is seen as too flighty, immature, and irresponsible when it comes to affection, finances, love, etc. which is usually true, but not as detrimental or as devastating as Saturn would have you believe. After much self-reflection, both things can be true. Saturn IS insecure/ stable. Venus IS childish/ refreshing.
The most successful couples with this aspect have found a way to integrate both lessons in their relationships. Venus is still able to move the way the want, but with a little more refinement to comfort/ satisfy Saturn. Saturn is able to tone down their insecurities and show their responsible/ reliable to side to comfort Venus.
The issues stem from both parties not seeing eye to eye which creates an overall air of stubbornness/ stagnation.
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SleepyDiary
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posted January 26, 2024 11:44 AM
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Originally posted by Rose06:
How did that other person act if you don't mind me asking, that made you feel insecure? When I think of Saturn not being pleased with the planet person, I usually think that, the Saturn person views the planet person as somewhat immature - did you view them that way?
Yes he was immature and his lack of ‘’seriousness’’ irritated me.
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SleepyDiary
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posted January 26, 2024 11:55 AM
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Originally posted by 93nov:
I've been Saturn more times than not in a Venus-Saturn square in synastry and it almost always ends exactly like the textbook descriptions say: Venus is seen as too flighty, immature, and irresponsible when it comes to affection, finances, love, etc. which is usually true.
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Haha i have this aspect with a friend where i am Saturn and this is exactly how she is. IP: Logged |
Rose06
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posted January 26, 2024 02:01 PM
Question though, if the planet person is "childish" how is the saturn person necessarily the insecure one in the situation for expressing distaste? I mean, if the person is legitimately childish, and they are a grown adult, how is it a "bad thing" or an "insecurity" if the saturn person just wishes for the planet person to be more mature? hahaha does that make sense? because I hear all the time about saturn being insecure and this and that, but no, what if the planet person is legitimately just a man-child or woman-child? Like wouldn't saturn be somewhat good to have in the planet person's life then? IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted January 26, 2024 02:41 PM
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Originally posted by Rose06:
Question though, if the planet person is "childish" how is the saturn person necessarily the insecure one in the situation for expressing distaste? I mean, if the person is legitimately childish, and they are a grown adult, how is it a "bad thing" or an "insecurity" if the saturn person just wishes for the planet person to be more mature? hahaha does that make sense? because I hear all the time about saturn being insecure and this and that, but no, what if the planet person is legitimately just a man-child or woman-child? Like wouldn't saturn be somewhat good to have in the planet person's life then?
When someone’s Saturn is activated in synastry their serious side comes out. They want a serious committed connection with the other person so any immaturity or lack of seriousness in the other person will trigger an insecure response from the Saturn person. They can very easily think the other isn’t as serious as them about the relationship just by being a bit lighthearted or childish. But Saturn isn’t always insecure sometimes The Saturn person is just more mature than the other person and can have this ‘’parent’’ attitude towards them or the connection between them is just a serious one. And yes Saturn can be good for the planet person because they bring stability and some much needed reality checks into the planet person’s life. Saturn is also wise so the planet person might see them in that light too IP: Logged |
Librapurr
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posted January 28, 2024 08:47 PM
It needs self-control for Saturn not to be harsh toward a planet. I like a good Saturn when somebody thinks you’re childish, but tolerate. It depends on natal how good you can handle Saturn .IP: Logged |
93nov
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posted January 29, 2024 09:53 AM
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Originally posted by Rose06:
Question though, if the planet person is "childish" how is the saturn person necessarily the insecure one in the situation for expressing distaste? I mean, if the person is legitimately childish, and they are a grown adult, how is it a "bad thing" or an "insecurity" if the saturn person just wishes for the planet person to be more mature? hahaha does that make sense? because I hear all the time about saturn being insecure and this and that, but no, what if the planet person is legitimately just a man-child or woman-child? Like wouldn't saturn be somewhat good to have in the planet person's life then?
We all have an inner-child, for starters.. and no matter how old we get, that part of us still needs to be expressed. In Saturn's eyes, Venus expresses this side in excess.. which can be good and bad depending on the circumstances and the audience/ receiver. Perfect Example: My ex-boyfriend was Venus in our Venus-Saturn square, but in his new relationship, he is Saturn. He was overly-materialistic and aloof for ME which made me feel like an old hag nagging all the time. In his new relationship, he just proposed (He still cheats and acts aloof). The difference? His new love is a flighty Gemini venus. I am a Scorpio Venus. I believe Saturn is now teaching him the lessons I was trying to teach him (we also have Saturn-Node DW).
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Rose06
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posted January 29, 2024 01:43 PM
Inner child is different than literal manchild behavior though hahah but I sort of get what you mean.IP: Logged |
93nov
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posted February 05, 2024 07:29 AM
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Originally posted by Rose06:
Inner child is different than literal manchild behavior though hahah but I sort of get what you mean.
It depends on your perspective lol speaking as someone who was Saturn and viewed many guys as "men children" (lmao) after the break-up and a few years of reflection, i actually started to see the positive in their behavior. They usually always end up finding someone more suitable for them anyway which is the irony in all of it. People usually assign "death of the ego" to Pluto or Neptune but i think Saturn should be considered too. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 17, 2024 05:01 PM
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SimplyLuna
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posted February 21, 2024 12:10 AM
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problematique
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posted April 20, 2025 04:59 PM
saturn in a saturn / moon square: i found him to be silly and whiny, especially for his age. i was older, and tried making sense of what he should do. probably the childish most weakest man i've ever met in my life. he called me naive and silly, too. truth is, we were both very stupid at the time but he was stupider. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07
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posted April 21, 2025 05:14 AM
When I have these contacts, and the Saturn person thinks I’m immature it deeply hurts my feelings - because usually it’s a Sagittarius Saturn that’s opposite my sun, that views me as childish - but I have my own Saturn conjunct my Moon so I know that’s not true, it’s just my expression that presents itself as childlike at times, whereas my moon/saturn is another person altogether…. But usually people have that judgement of me don’t know me very well. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted April 25, 2025 07:49 PM
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Randall
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posted May 03, 2025 02:39 PM
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Belage2
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posted May 04, 2025 01:31 PM
In astrology, we speak of Jupiter as the planet reflecting our values, but our Saturn also reflects our values. In my experience of being the Saturn in specifically a Saturn square Sun synastry, the Sun individuals were trying to get me to do things that were against MY value system. Each time, I pushed back. My Saturn was like, come correct! Of course, the Sun person went away. Looking back, no loss... Those values I had back then have not changed. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted May 04, 2025 04:08 PM
Saturn square our Mercury/Mercury conjunction. They ghosted me, gaslit me a lot. I finally got the truth, months later, but it came with a lot more gaslighting. IP: Logged |
Starfuncks711
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posted May 04, 2025 05:09 PM
New here, and just posted my first topic. Spreading the love with a reply! Let me fumble my way through my answer - I'm not just new HERE, I'm new to "advanced" astrology: I am Saturn (3°31 Libra) square Sun (5°40 Cancer). I understand this is karmic (?). I feel inexplicably drawn to him. We are great when there are no expectations. Basic needs of mine (seeing each other) get twisted into his perception that I am insecure. Any reaction I have towards expecting, uh, ya know, to share experiences with my man is relabeled as insecure/needy/demanding. Ironically, we are LDR; and that is my preference. I don't know many needy/insecures that are comfortable with that. So he amplifies all the stereotypes. He criticizes his mother heavily, but yet feels obligated and duty bound to her. I feel he continues this quiet resignation to the irascible woman in his romantic life. He says relationships are the most important thing to him, but prioritizes others over cultivating ours. (We are separated anyhow).He is nearly 50, lifelong bachelor, and seemingly comfortable with that.Ironically, he is incredibly kind and loving - when he wants to be. However, I read somewhere that Sun square Moon (in his natal) can be an indicator of narcissism. Hope this was insightful. IP: Logged |
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