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Topic: Venus Conjunct NorthNode in synastry=Meant to be??
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EighthMoon
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posted August 25, 2009 06:05 AM
  
ARGH!I don't know what's wrong with the board today, but it's messing up my posts. Sorry for the double info MVM IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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posted August 25, 2009 06:11 AM
lol, I know, it's driving me crazy too!!Thanks, 8th  IP: Logged |
Just Mia
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posted August 25, 2009 10:14 AM
Thanks for all the replies it helps..I am more then sure the attraction is both ways..This is not a one sided thing as far as the attraction goes, we both love each other I think though I may love him a bit deeper then he loves me, but none the less its love..The biggest thing with this is timing and maturity..I think that because we have this placement and Saturn conjunct Venus and moon it gets heavy at times and a break is needed between us and for both of us..Its just that this last time when we did this break I really thought it was for good..But we will see I can go either way and what will be will be..IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted August 25, 2009 11:08 AM
MVM, I think NN conjunctions are very different from MC conjunctions.At least in my experience, with NN-Planet, the planet person represents something that the Node person is learning or ought to learn. Sometimes the relationship is very symbolic. Even in a real-life, mutual relationship, with other aspects that draw the couple together, the Planet person will still represent an undiscovered, unrealized, unexplored or not-yet-inhabited part of the NN person's self. So sometimes that plays out within the connection/relationship between the two people, and sometimes it just plays out in what it represents for the NN person. With MC-Planet, the tranformation is less symbolic and more practical and day-to-day and concrete and explicitly on this plane of existence rather than a karmic or soul level. For example, with NN-Planet, the NN person's heart might open in relation to the planet person, changing his/her life...whereas with MC-Planet, both people might have a discussion about how to keep their creative work pure without starving to death, and end up collaborating on a brilliant project. Both are transformational. But I think NN-Planet connections can be even deeper, but also a lot more confusing. Because there is that symbolic element, with NN-Venus it's harder to tell what's a real, realized connection versus what's projection and soul growth. With MC-Planet, it's easy to tell what's going on. IP: Logged |
lionseye***
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posted August 25, 2009 02:01 PM
I have this with my sweetie. His moon/venus conjunction is conjunct my north node. We worked together for a couple of years, and he was married at the time, but we did seem to have a connection...but couldn't act on it. Then after he got divorced in '07, he looked me up and the rest is history, as they say. I guess we have to wait & see how things pan out in the long run, but as for now, we're a happy little family (for the most part) with a sweet baby girl together. Back when we were working together, and just colleages at the time, I did check out our synastry, and was a bit intimidated by the nodal ties between us (his nodal axis falls along my 1st house 7th house axis as well, his nn in my first house) - And I thought, ok well I do not want anything to do with a married man, so that's never going to mean anything anyway.... lo and behold, a few years down the line he HAS turned out to be a very significant person in my life. So there you have it. Astrology wins out again lol... IP: Logged |
lionseye***
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posted August 25, 2009 02:04 PM
I would say yes, Venus/NN conjunction can mean it's "meant to be"....SOMETHING....something significant, either friend or romantic partner. But it does not necessarily mean something permanent. Just something significant. IP: Logged |
Agent_009
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posted August 25, 2009 02:04 PM
Lucia,
I experienced something similar to your situation.
I too was the NN person and was utterly obsessed with him-venus. I was certain feelings were mutual...but maybe I was just delusional lols. IP: Logged |
Agent_009
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posted August 25, 2009 02:06 PM
Lucia,
I experienced something similar to your situation.
I too was the NN person and was utterly obsessed with him-venus. I was certain feelings were mutual...but maybe I was just delusional lols. IP: Logged |
piscpis
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posted August 26, 2009 02:42 AM
What about venus square NN ?? Would it have the same effect ?IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted January 17, 2024 06:12 PM
Meant to be what? I'm the Venus person and the North Node person is crazy about me. But I don't feel the same about them. But I always read it's the planet person who feels it the most. IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff
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posted January 17, 2024 09:55 PM
I've had this with some lovers. There's an extreme sexual chemistry there but the love may not last! The Venus person is supposed to teach the North Node person how to love, and be in relationships more! But if the North Node person refuses, more than likely the relationship will not last! ------------------
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Randall
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posted January 30, 2024 04:22 PM
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sashavittoria
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posted January 31, 2024 05:26 PM
I have this with my crush - I’m the Venus, and my OOS moon/Venus conjunction is on their NN, with my Venus exactly on it. They are in Taurus, in the person’s 7th house, so the Venusian theme is pretty strong and has played out mainly through art and poetry. At the same time, their Venus/Mercury conjunction squares my Nodes.I think they had a crush on me first and gave up, then it was me with the crush. Now I don’t know what to do - I feel them resisting their NN. They take inspiration from me to try new Venusian things, and they initiate meetings, but are slow if they reply at all to texts. So it’s hard to read them. We’ve never lived in the same city at the same time so there hasn’t been much opportunity to develop a relationship. I just wish they kept in touch, or wanted to. We also have our ACs exactly square, and their MC is right on my AC. My Mars is right on their moon. IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff
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posted January 31, 2024 08:41 PM
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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
I have this with my crush - I’m the Venus, and my OOS moon/Venus conjunction is on their NN, with my Venus exactly on it. They are in Taurus, in the person’s 7th house, so the Venusian theme is pretty strong and has played out mainly through art and poetry. At the same time, their Venus/Mercury conjunction squares my Nodes.I think they had a crush on me first and gave up, then it was me with the crush. Now I don’t know what to do - I feel them resisting their NN. They take inspiration from me to try new Venusian things, and they initiate meetings, but are slow if they reply at all to texts. So it’s hard to read them. We’ve never lived in the same city at the same time so there hasn’t been much opportunity to develop a relationship. I just wish they kept in touch, or wanted to. We also have our ACs exactly square, and their MC is right on my AC. My Mars is right on their moon.
Yes! There's a certain tease to the synastry! LMAO!
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sashavittoria
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posted February 01, 2024 08:43 AM
Yeah, I definitely feel like we're trading the roles of pursuer/pursuee back and forth, but in a very subtle and ambiguous way since we both have mutable Mars signs (mine Pisces, theirs Sag). I think we detect it in one another because we're both that way, but most people wouldn't pick up on our signals.Also, I'm not sure how seriously to take the square from their Venus/Mercury to my nodal axis. Squares to the nodes, in synastry, are not active unless they're conjunct a square that's already present in the native's natal chart, and I don't have any nodal squares natally. However, there may be some minor asteroid or something, because I do feel I'm learning from this experience about how to communicate in the pursuit of a love interest. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted February 01, 2024 03:48 PM
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Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff:
I've had this with some lovers. There's an extreme sexual chemistry there but the love may not last! The Venus person is supposed to teach the North Node person how to love, and be in relationships more! But if the North Node person refuses, more than likely the relationship will not last!
Sexual? Venus is about love also what if the North Node person already wants to be in a relationship? The guy I have this with was married for a long time. He was young at the time and said he stopped showing his ex wife affection. As if he didn’t know what to do being as though he was young. She ended up cheating on him and divorced him (but he wanted to work it out and she did not). He said he wants to get married again. So it doesn’t seem like he’s against it. What is the Venus person supposed to learn with this aspect? I’d imagine how to love or maybe learn to accept love? As the Venus person I feel like the North Node person is somewhat compatible with me in a romantic way. We like some of the same things romantically. My Venus is also conjunct his DSC and is in his 7th house. We both like the show Bridgeton and romantic type movies lol. But my Moon is also in his 5th house. And we have Moon in the 5th house composite that probably adds to it as well. It seems like a fairytale (It’s in Pisces) but I tell myself constantly that this is real life. I don’t let myself get too carried away or be too much in my head. And I keep telling him this as well. Letting him know that I am not perfect. Because for him he thinks I’m everything he is looking for. I feel that he may end up falling for me. IP: Logged |
sashavittoria
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posted February 01, 2024 06:12 PM
The planet person isn’t “supposed” to learn anything, it’s the node person whose karmic lessons are signified. For your own lessons you must look to your own north node. I also recommend checking the NN of the composite.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted February 01, 2024 07:11 PM
Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
sashavittoria
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posted February 02, 2024 08:09 AM
Thank you Randall! I was thinking that was needed.IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff
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posted February 02, 2024 09:47 PM
I agree. The Venus person doesn't do the learning, they can be seductive, though, although not on purpose.The North Node person learns from the Venus person. ------------------
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Randall
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posted February 16, 2024 02:22 PM
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