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ScorpioMango
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From: Boston, MA USA
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posted February 26, 2024 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioMango     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This relationship felt like a lightening bolt that shocked me into some major self-development/shadow work I never knew I needed. Specifically around my inconsistent relationship with my father and my anxious attachment. Words can't express the gratitude I feel for this person, truly.

It lasted about 6 months and was never "fully committed" as we met right after both getting out of long-term relationships. We mutually agreed to a "friends with benefits" situation and we genuinely were very, very close as friends. We met each other's friend groups, travelled a bit, and spent as much time as we could together. It ended almost a year ago now. For context, I began feeling quite attached and eventually started falling in love, which I expressed and we decided it was best to end the relationship.

I'm thinking of this person because I just launched my own business and quit my 9-5, and he played a major role in helping me gain the confidence to do so. I miss our friendship most of all, and it feels like SUCH a shame that we aren't in contact.

But sometimes I wonder if it'd be a bad idea to reach out. I wonder if this was all just meant to be for a short time, as our synastry has some strong Uranus and Pluto. Not to sound depressing LOL (sorry, I'm a scorpio) but idk...just seems like a missed chance at a really strong friendship.

Our synastry and composite (I'm the scorp sun, he's the sag sun):

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ScorpioMango
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posted February 26, 2024 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScorpioMango     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's try the charts again

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InTheStars
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posted February 28, 2024 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for InTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am no astrology expert, but whatever you had, it sounded beautiful. I hope you guys are able to reconnect.

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InTheStars
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posted March 03, 2024 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for InTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to boost your post. I'm rooting for y'alls love! (Romantic or not, it's definitely spiritual.)

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Randall
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posted March 03, 2024 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have to save the charts to a picture site--like tinypic--and then use the IMG tags on that link.

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Randall
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posted March 27, 2024 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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