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Topic: Venus Synastry Question
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rfrazie1
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From: Oakland, CA
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posted March 03, 2024 01:29 AM
  
Hi everyone, new to the site.I've been learning more about synastry charts over the past few months and Im curious about something. If I have Venus Conjunct Pluto with a woman (I'm the Venus) and I also have Venus conjunct Ascedant (I'm the asc) how long will it take for her to lose interest in me? I'm currently OBSESSED with her. I think about her everyday and night. The problem was, I'm married, and I was trying hard not engage with her. Now I'm having second thoughts. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 03, 2024 07:00 AM
I had those aspects once i was Pluto and Venus what signs are those conjunctions in and which house does the conjunctions land in? That will play a big part. We had it in fixed signs the Rising-Venus conjunction was in my 2nd and in his 12th and the Venus-Pluto conjunction was in his 3rd and my 4th house how this played out was that i was completely obsessed with him but this guy had 100 % of his personal planets spread out in my 5th, 12th, 7th and 4th houses so that also played a huge part in my attraction towards him and he loved the attention he got from me. Me as Venus and Pluto made the Rising/Venus person feel "desired" and very "seen" to a point where he became addicted to that attention and seeked it out even when it was not to his best interest which i have a feeling is happening to you right now as soon as she stopped giving or showing you any attention you became insecure and feel the need to "do" something about it even when you might know it`s not right or the best for you. It took me a while to lose interest but i think a lot of factors played into that like i mentioned earlier all of his personal planets were in two of my Water houses which is strong in my chart too because i have planets in there natally so the themes of those houses interests me and i`m drawn to it and he also had planets in two of my relationship houses the 7th and 5th houses water house overlays can be very intense and trigger deep feelings in the house person and the relationship houses can also have the house person view the Planet person as "relationship" material we also had an exact conjunct between Venus and Pluto which were in my 4th house and a close conjunction between his Rising and my Venus and all of this were in fixed signs. IP: Logged |
rfrazie1
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posted March 03, 2024 12:00 PM
The venus-pluto conjunction was in scorpio, in my 8th house. The rising sign-venus conjunction is exact and in Pisces In my 1st house. Her sun is also in my 1st house. We also have mars trine pluto (I'm pluto here), moon trine pluto (I'm moon), sun trine mars (sun). How much was she really interested in me if the only pluto contact she had in natal was venus trine pluto? I feel like I NEED to be with her at this point in my life. I hope she's still interested. I'm lost  IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 03, 2024 02:43 PM
Are you still Married? If so then you need to do the right thing and get a divorce before you pursue her. I`m not surprised that the woman in question turned out having her Venus in Pisces these people might find themselves drawn to someone unavailable and even be the "other" woman but be careful some Venus in Pisces aren`t the most faithful types around even when they are in love. They can form relations with more than one person at a time and can have weak boundaries. If you are not happy in your own Marriage then you need to be honest about that but you should also be careful about who you give your heart to esp if you have any hard Neptune aspects in synastry or if you are dealing with a Piscean/Neptunian type with this what you "see" might not be real and you might look back at it all and realise how wrong you were about the person. Having a Venus-Pluto conjunction is very intense but having that conjunction in a Water house is almost unbearable so you feeling intense attraction for her comes as no surprise. With her Venus in exact conjunct to your Rising might have her thinking you "look" ideal and therefore might think you are an ideal mate to her but if you are not doing anything deeper in her chart this might just be a physical attraction for her but she might lose interest in you when she gets to know you on a more deeper level or she might have problems devoloping more serious deeper feelings for you. IP: Logged |
rfrazie1
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From: Oakland, CA
Registered: Jan 2024
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posted March 04, 2024 03:17 AM
More background.I'm still married and she has a boyfriend. From what she tells me, he can't provide for her enough for her to feel safe (i.e. not good with money making decisions). We work together, I'm a supervisor (not hers in particular) and I'm helping her regain the confidence in herself (she had major issues at work and needed therapy) to push herself to the next level. Natal wise, I'm heavily platonic (scorpio sun, sun conjunct pluto, mars square pluto), she is not. It's just a interesting position because I've never felt this strongly about anyone. IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 04, 2024 09:15 AM
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Originally posted by rfrazie1:
More background.I'm still married and she has a boyfriend. From what she tells me, he can't provide for her enough for her to feel safe (i.e. not good with money making decisions).
This is very common in Venus in Pisces people to fall in love with people who struggle but also forming other relations because of issues in their relationship hence why they might end up cheating. Has she shown you that she is interested in having a relationship with you? Because Venus in Pisces people can be very confusing and this is what i`m trying to warn you about is that even when they might find themselves attracted to someone else and form a relationship with that person doesn`t mean they want to leave their partner sometimes they fall in love with more than one person at a time and sometimes they cheat because their partner is not treating them well or they are insecure about them but they are still very much in love with the person and not the one they cheated with. Their boundaries aren`t clear and they are mutable. Here is a interpretation on Venus in Pisces that i found which i have found to be true for a lot of people with this Venus sign- As a negative expression, it's not uncommon that people with Venus in Pisces experience some sort of cheating or deception. It is because Pisces represents secrets and mysteriousness. So, either you or your partner may have a secret relationship, or keep your relationship secretive." I don`t know if she`ll be worth you throwing your Marriage away but if you feel it`s right then do the right thing first and end your Marriage before you pursue her. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 04, 2024 03:53 PM
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angryant2021
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posted March 05, 2024 01:35 AM
Maybe you should look at your transits before jumping into this one..IP: Logged |
rfrazie1
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From: Oakland, CA
Registered: Jan 2024
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posted March 05, 2024 04:23 AM
Unfortunately, I don't know anything about transits.Are they meaningful and accurate? IP: Logged |
SleepyDiary
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posted March 05, 2024 05:34 AM
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Originally posted by angryant2021:
Maybe you should look at your transits before jumping into this one..
Yes esp look for hard Neptune transits to any of your personal planets or Rising sign. If you have any sort of influence from this Planet be careful with choices you make during this time you might be self-deceptive and not see things clearly during these times and have a rude awakning. IP: Logged |
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