posted March 03, 2024 10:16 PM            

This man and I fell madly in love last year and shared six insanely profound weeks navigating the blast-off we were in. He was with another woman too, (we were all consensual), and this was new for all three of us. Normally I'd never go for that, but as you can probably (maybe?) see from the chart, the meeting HAD to happen.

Eventually he had to leave to go home to his country and I anyway called it off because I could not handle the open dynamic anymore. He expressed that we felt like an open book, one with many unknown chapters with everything possible; and being 29, that he wasn't ready to stand by my side (his words).

Well, over the summer the other girl went to go work with him and his friends, and there things progressed between them and now they're in a relationship. She's 22, he's 29, I'm 40. He's in his Saturn Return.

We just reconnected (with boundaries) (he's back in town) and the connection is just still so crazy profound, I can't imagine that we wouldn't end up together at some point. It is feeling more pre-ordained than ever and I find myself staring at the stars, trying to decipher a clue here about what might come to be. I feel like I trust our love, whatever it will or will not be. Yet at the same time, I can't really imagine that we won't be together again. (To me, it seems the relationship he's in now is triggering/healing and not forever.)

My question for you all is: Do you see some sort of fatedness reflected in our composite/synastry? I am trying to trust the depth of conviction I have about this love. I have had big loves in my life, but this one feels like God tapping me on the shoulder saying "here he is!" (Btw, the love making was like a holographic heaven dream.)

Looks like our composite north node is 0degrees on the vertex? Love stellium in the 5th/6th with positively aspected Saturn/Neptune in Cap conjunct in the 7th. I think a grand trine is in our synastry too.

My exact Aquarius Mercury / Scorpio Pluto and 7th house Saturn conj Mars (Scorpio) can't wait to hear from you! Ha

Thank you so much.

Synastry and composite here. I'm the Aries ascendent. (Btw, if you know how to figure out the Eros/Psyche aspect, I'd love to get to that too!)

posted March 07, 2024 01:29 AM            

If it is fated, does it mean you will end up together and live happily ever after? That could happen, or it could not.

Looking at the synastry, I think it would be stupid for him to away. But it seems that is what he is doing and the reality is that many people do walk away from these very profound romances. As much as we think that everyone is looking for the ultimate love, the reality is that these relationships can be very painful and some people don’t want to deal with them.

posted March 07, 2024 03:29 AM            

If it is fated, does it mean you will end up together and live happily ever after? That could happen, or it could not.

Looking at the synastry, I think it would be stupid for him to away. But it seems that is what he is doing and the reality is that many people do walk away from these very profound romances. As much as we think that everyone is looking for the ultimate love, the reality is that these relationships can be very painful and some people don’t want to deal with them.