posted March 17, 2024 05:07 PM            

I recently started seeing someone new and want to know if there are any red flags or aspects that create a short-term relationship vs. a long-term one...

Composite:

posted March 18, 2024 10:28 AM            

[A lot of people say 6H placements aren't good for a composite chart, but if both of you have planets in the 6H or close to it, it's kind of unavoidable/ inevitable so that doesn't really make any sense].

Long-lasting? That depends on if you two are willing to work through any challenges that come your way, individually and as a couple. Astrology really doesn't matter in that regard.

BUT. Just adding a little more info based on the charts, Moon-Pluto in negative aspect in composite usually creates this underlying aura of mistrust that's hard to shake once it's set.

posted March 20, 2024 03:09 PM            

Thank you for your reply. For long-term aspects I was wondering if there was any that show long-term because I have heard there are aspects that can show break ups or divorces and wanted to see if there was any of those red flags in our charts.. I'm happy you see positives.

posted March 21, 2024 03:41 AM            

Your cap sun square Saturn is suggesting issues with older male figures, which is why you were attracted to this relationship. He has the ruler of his 4th house in the 4th, so either his father played both mom and dad or the father had difficulties with women and passed this trauma down to him. Perhaps I'm reaching, but the insecurity he is showing, at.. the age of 40? is giving red flags. Especially with the Pluto mars you guys share--even ignoring the age gap this could be quite manipulative. His Saturn is sextiling your inner planets so there is some glue. His Venus on your IC can feel good, but it's also receiving negative aspect to Neptune so be careful of deception...

posted March 22, 2024 10:20 AM            

I’m not sure about his fathers relationship with women, but he told me his mom was very abusive and didn’t give a lot of nourishment to him (telling him to suck it up when he was hurt or crying even when injured).. he said his relationship with his dad was also rough because he was hard on him also but he had a better relationship with his dad than his mom.. He also said both his parents used to beat him really bad. There was a time when he broke his nose while playing a sport and instead of his mom taking him to the hospital she punched him in the nose and then forced it back into place with her hands..

His insecurity stems from both of his exes leaving him for someone else and cheating on him.. and he’s needy I think because his upbringing was lacking in affection and attention.. his parents never went to any of his sports games either or supported him in anything he did.