posted March 23, 2024 05:01 AM            

I don't think the synastry is too bad - but the composite screams short term/won't get off the ground to me. I do like the juno opposite sun/venus - and transit nn is conjunct sun/venus right now so it makes sense that we've become friends.

Composite nn is widely conjunct his natal moon - composite saturn is conjunct both our saturns (widely again); composite moon is conjunct my natal sun. Composite MC is widely conjunct his DC. That uranus on the DC is terrifying haha...
If this is even relevant the composite Sun/moon midpoint is conjunct his nn in taurus (if i even calculated the midpoint correctly). There's also some envelope looking thing - I don't know if that even counts.

There's so much saturn in synastry I'm also blind - if this turns into anything, even just as friendship its a big saturn lesson for me i feel.

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posted April 18, 2024 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
Still learning so I’ve not much to add then what you can already see except the envelope is called a mystic rectangle which is dynamic but also harmonious as you can imagine.

The struggle with it, from what I understand is that the two oppositions can create a see-saw affect. It is possible to work with it but it does take self awareness and a desire to overcome the obstacles that it presents

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posted April 18, 2024 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Thank you I’m actually not sure of the orb allowance because Sun/venus is wide from Neptune and Pluto, if those 6 degrees count then it is a mystic rectangle. There is also a grand trine, if the MC is counted, which in my logic it would be because of the importance of angles, also Chiron, some people don’t believe asteroids count - but Chiron is important to me because in my natal it’s in my 7th house opposite my Saturn. Then if Chiron and mc does count, there would be a kite with Neptune, Chiron, MC, and Pluto. If a larger orb allowance is reasonable then there would be another kite, sun/venus, MC, Chiron and Pluto. So there would essentially be two kites, one mystic rectangle, a grand trine… sounds like a lot, don’t even know what it means. Either way, if something romantic were to happen at some point it would be a very unconventional relationship because of the age gap

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posted April 18, 2024 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
I don't recommend marriage based on the charts, but for a semi long-term relationship if you decide to have one, things can be beautiful and emotionally satisfying.

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posted April 19, 2024 02:00 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
How big is the age gap?
I think up to 10 degrees is fine for sun and moon as they are luminaries… But I’m unsure if it’s different for larger configurations of aspects like a kite or a mystic triangle.
I’ve been looking into angles a lot recently because of the tight angle conjunction in my synastry and even emailed an astrologer who’d written about the importance of tight angle conjunctions in synastry. He described it as an energy that sucks in, so is very binding. Also seen other experienced astrologers writing about using an angle as part of a grand trine, etc…
Chiron is also very important to me as it is at the very top of my chart and forms a yod, has had a very big impact on my life.
As you probably know those planets, Chiron and the MC would all be, very much, about growth and with all the Saturn aspects would definitely help you towards your purpose, I should think.
You’ve also got a moon/Venus conjunction which I have with my bf - it’s a lovely thing and can create a very loving/kind connection

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posted April 19, 2024 06:17 AM            

I find the Venus NN conjunction and Pluto Chiron conjunction interesting as well. Definitely a potential to grow but sometimes just saying no to a relationship which doesn’t offer you what you want is enough to learn that lesson and not have to repeat it!

posted April 19, 2024 06:52 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
That is quite a big gap. Las March i ended a long term relationship that was 14 years difference. He was older. Interesting the composite was fairly good except for a Pluto square Saturn and a Neptune, Moon, Venus t square (which are both pretty big red flags I suppose!). He wanted to be in control and couldn’t accept his part in any relationship issues. Was bad news. But because of the t square involving Neptune and Venus I didn’t see him for who he really was until much later.

I find the Venus NN conjunction and Pluto Chiron conjunction interesting as well. Definitely a potential to grow but sometimes just saying no to a relationship which doesn’t offer you what you want is enough to learn that lesson and not have to repeat it!

Are you dating?

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posted April 19, 2024 07:38 AM            

The composite is very dynamic and oppositional isn’t it..? I can imagine that it creates an exciting energy but perhaps doesn’t feel very harmonious or stable. Perhaps that is why it is bringing up some fear. But I’d like to see your natal to see what else is there

posted April 19, 2024 07:55 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoIsMyTeacher13:
Can you post your natal? I wasn’t actually sure which one was you in the synastry…

The composite is very dynamic and oppositional isn’t it..? I can imagine that it creates an exciting energy but perhaps doesn’t feel very harmonious or stable. Perhaps that is why it is bringing up some fear. But I’d like to see your natal to see what else is there

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posted April 23, 2024 10:56 AM            

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Forgot to send this last week!

Ohhh, that’s rough. You’ve also got Pluto conjunct (fading) your natal Uranus too. That’s good to be a doosie! Uranus is opposite my natal Uranus atm and Neptune is opposite my Saturn. Also Pluto on my DC. Sometimes I feel like I may implode, inner turmoil is intense!

What I can see so far are a lot of themes of independence vs stability. Needs of excitement and perhaps some push pull between wanting stability but fears around feeing stuck and wanting to move forward. A dislike of stagnation… This makes me wonder if the fear about relationships comes from a fear of being controlled/dominated..?

posted April 23, 2024 11:40 AM            

I think it’ll be difficult to know how this all plays out until you’ve bed with each other for a few months. If you are together then you can use the experience to make sense of the chart and vice versa.

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Sure keep in mind, I’m sort of currently going through my Saturn return at the moment.

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Forgot to send this last week!

Ohhh, that’s rough. You’ve also got Pluto conjunct (fading) your natal Uranus too. That’s good to be a doosie! Uranus is opposite my natal Uranus atm and Neptune is opposite my Saturn. Also Pluto on my DC. Sometimes I feel like I may implode, inner turmoil is intense!

What I can see so far are a lot of themes of independence vs stability. Needs of excitement and perhaps some push pull between wanting stability but fears around feeing stuck and wanting to move forward. A dislike of stagnation… This makes me wonder if the fear about relationships comes from a fear of being controlled/dominated..?

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You’re dead on about needing stability but also being fearful of stagnation. Very true… although I don’t think Pluto is conjunct Uranus? I think that’s Neptune that’s so close to Uranus.