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posted April 17, 2024 06:46 AM            

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i watched jewel's video on it, and wanted to see others experience with it, but havent found any.

she described the aspect as the couple would be using each other for their fantasies, and not totally seeing the other for who they actually are.

moon person would interpret the neptune as very flirtatious, while neptune would think the moon person is easily seducible she says. the two would bring out a lustful side to each other, and the neptune persons more unrefined traits would come out. there could be objectifying each other, and wanting to get something out of one another.

the two can view each other in the beginning as having everything they've wanted, and can fulfill whatever fantasy each other may have, but, she describes it as the couple is in a bubble that will inevitably pop.

im curious to see if this rings true for people who have experienced this aspect? or maybe have experienced something different?

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posted April 28, 2024 04:33 AM            

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Hard Moon-Neptune aspects in synastry is something i have seen triggers dishonesty and not being completely truthful with what they really feel. One or both might not see clearly what the other really feels and wants from the relationship and one or both might just be in it because of some advantage they think they`ll get from the relationship. One or both might pretend to be someone their not in hopes of trying to be someone they think the other wants but ultimately will fail at it because at the end of the day you are who you are It`s really hard keeping your real self tucked away for most of your relationship. Because of this "pleasing" need one might feel like they have lost themselves being in a relationship like this. Whoever is the pleaser/pretender will eventually become resentful and grow frustrated with not getting their true needs met. They made the mistake of thinking that if they pretend to be like this or that they will eventually get what they want but instead they just made the other think that they were someone their not and ends up not getting their real needs met. Both people might end up very disappointed.

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posted April 20, 2025 04:30 PM            

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i have this exact with someone. i think we do project fantasies onto each other, but isn't that what man and women do?

it's very lustful, but i believe very soon after the initial contact, you slowly start seeing each other for who you are.

for example, in this specific synastry, he though i was a sure one night stand, and i rejected him. therefore his porn bubble indeed went off.

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posted April 24, 2025 04:10 PM            

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I always question the validity of generational planets aspecting personals because if you have an aspect natally, everyone born within a few years of you would have these same exact aspects, give or take a few degrees.

I understand no human will ever be perfect and these are obviously karmic lessons that need to be cleared.. but we can't go through life avoiding these types of relationships.. and everyone with bad aspects aren't meant to be unhappy or live a bad life.

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posted April 26, 2025 11:11 AM            

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*I always question the validity of generational planets aspecting personals because if you have an aspect natally, everyone born within a few years of you would have these same exact aspects, give or take a few degrees*

this argument on generational planets doesn't really make sense bc you're not going to have a hundred siginficant relationships / friendships with a hundred people. you are not going to mee an enttire generation of people. and in a case of a developing relationship, everything matters, including outer planets, especially if neptune is highly significant in a persons chart. outer planets are carriers of karma and very present in our most important relationships.

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