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Topic: 11h stellium synastry
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jupiterhour
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posted June 04, 2024 07:03 AM
  
Hello everyone,
I've been wondering if some of you have any advice for this relationship with a crush i have. We're like acquaintances, almost friends and i like them very very much. We meet from time to time, but it's so hard to tell if something can happen.
And the synastry is making me doubt if things can ever deepen between us.
They have a Pisces Stellium (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars and Saturn) falling in my 11th house with the Mercury and Mars somewhat touching my only Pisces placement (Moon), idk where my planets are falling for them, bc i don't have the time of birth. They have their Venus close to my Rising and their Jupiter is trining my rising as well.
We have out of sign Sun - Mars, Saturn - Mars (me being the Mars) and their Sun, Mars and Saturn are sextiling my Sun. Like, i feel like 11th house is pretty non-sexual house, like i don't think i've ever read something about things going deeper than a close friendship. It feels hopeless not going to lie. And the fact everything happens within the realms of Pisces is scary to me, too, because Pisces people are so hard to fathom. If any Pisces Marses can share some insight as well, i'd be forever grateful.  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 05, 2024 07:12 PM
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Randall
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posted June 29, 2024 12:28 PM
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jupiterhour
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posted September 20, 2024 08:34 AM
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AquaMoon323
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posted September 27, 2024 11:30 AM
Hi I am a female with Pisces Mars and I attract Pisces energy like the plague so I know it well! Pisces every is very unstable! In my experience without some grounding elements in their chart they tend to behavior just like mutable water! Think waves coming and going forever in motion. Even with a Taurus sun and fixed aqua moon my Mars in Pisces effect me heavily. I can be extremely indecisive and flighty. As for the 11th house stellium. Honestly I’d say don’t waste your time!! I had an 11H stellium with a guy I had a FWB type relationship for many years! We had passionate aspects & then a lot of 11th & 6th House that just created this weird sexual chemistry (mars in the 8H) but it just wasn’t enough to actually create a deep romantic connection. We had a lot of Saturn aspects as well so they could also be apart of it but ultimately I felt we were stuck in the friends zone! Even with having a sexual relationship there’s no denying the lack of true intimacy I felt. If you are a more Aquarius, Capricorn, Saturn type then maybe that could work for you but even me being an Aqua moon Cap Rising, Saturn dominate found it unfulfilling. Maybe my emotional Pisces Mars, passionate Aries Venus, loving Taurus Sun are to blame 🤷♀️ IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 29, 2024 12:11 PM
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LilyIris07
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posted September 30, 2024 01:00 AM
I don’t know if that’s true for everyone who has 11th house synastry - I have Uranus in Aquarius in 11th house; and Taurus Venus. They are squared, but sometimes I find people who fall into my 11th to be good friends but also the type that I’d want to be in a relationship with, it depends. Also, if it’s super late Aquarius and falls into my 12th (Pisces) it starts to aspect my Mars (Leo 29degress) in an opposition and I like that. IP: Logged |
AquaMoon323
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posted September 30, 2024 03:15 AM
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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
I don’t know if that’s true for everyone who has 11th house synastry - I have Uranus in Aquarius in 11th house; and Taurus Venus. They are squared, but sometimes I find people who fall into my 11th to be good friends but also the type that I’d want to be in a relationship with, it depends. Also, if it’s super late Aquarius and falls into my 12th (Pisces) it starts to aspect my Mars (Leo 29degress) in an opposition and I like that.
Yea but atleast Taurus Venus is a very loving and grounded Venus! Pisces is already mutable and if the 11th stellium is all in Pisces I really think that could create a little too much detachment and instability. But everyone is different and there is so much more to a chart both natally and synastry wise that create the dynamic.
And I’m referring to falling into someone’s 11th house not them into your 11th house. And than like I started my Venus is in Aries so naturally I tend to crave more passionate relationships than “friendly” which might be apart of the problem lol but hey I can only speak from my experience
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AquaMoon323
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posted September 30, 2024 03:27 AM
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Originally posted by AquaMoon323:
Yea but atleast Taurus Venus is a very loving and grounded Venus! Pisces is already mutable and if the 11th stellium is all in Pisces I really think that could create a little too much detachment and instability. But everyone is different and there is so much more to a chart both natally and synastry wise that create the dynamic. And I’m referring to falling into someone’s 11th house not them into your 11th house. And like I started my Venus is in Aries so naturally I tend to crave more passionate relationships than “friendly ones” which might be apart of the problem lol but hey I can only speak from my experience
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LilyIris07
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posted September 30, 2024 07:18 AM
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Originally posted by AquaMoon323:
Yea but atleast Taurus Venus is a very loving and grounded Venus! Pisces is already mutable and if the 11th stellium is all in Pisces I really think that could create a little too much detachment and instability. But everyone is different and there is so much more to a chart both natally and synastry wise that create the dynamic. And I’m referring to falling into someone’s 11th house not them into your 11th house. And than like I started my Venus is in Aries so naturally I tend to crave more passionate relationships than “friendly” which might be apart of the problem lol but hey I can only speak from my experience
That makes sense - I mean there is a general explanation for all the houses for a reason - because it applies to many cases. I admit that the 11th is a very light house.
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jupiterhour
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posted December 11, 2024 12:40 PM
Okay, so what Im reading currently is that while we do have a good synastry Venus-ASC, Jupiter-Venus, Moon - Moon, Sun - Sun. The 11th house placements of their planets indicate that i'd be more open to share my future plans (which is 100% true) with them and just be all communicative, but not much in the romantic department shall happen?
Also, I find that Pisces Marses (conj Sun and Saturn) tend to be a tad bit on the aggressive side? Which is something i didn't see happening, but this person is very moody and attacky.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 15, 2024 04:50 PM
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Randall
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posted January 28, 2025 05:14 PM
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