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posted April 03, 2025 09:47 PM            

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This connection helped me grow and transform in ways others tried and couldn't. I just can't believe... I understand it's over, but is it for now or for forever? My intuition says it isn't goodbye forever, but I'm so jaded from getting my hopes up. Can you give me your objective insight?

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Synastry - I'm inside, he's outside

First Meeting Chart - time precise

His birth time is rectified, likely not exact, but I'm 95% sure about the ascendant. Our progressions are all positive. I'm not even sure I'm upset, I'm just... stunned.

We met at the new moon solar eclipse in Libra last year, we'll see each other the last time at the corresponding full moon in Libra this month if at all. Transit Mars has been going back and forth over the conjunction of his Jupiter/my Chiron, which makes sense with the kind of wounding/healing I've been going through. It'll pass over once more. I've had synchronicities and all the signs and tarot in past connections, but nothing like with this one. Even his initials on my computer keyboard are stuck. I've healed so much. I'm also not crazy attached or obsessed like in the past. What the hell is this?

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posted April 04, 2025 05:45 PM            

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Welcome back.

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posted April 08, 2025 04:48 PM            

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Just looking at your synastry.

There are some pretty challenging Saturn aspects between the 2 of you. Their Saturn squares your Venus and your Sun. Your Saturn closely squares their Pluto, which is what Magi astrology calls a nuclear clash. And those squares are in fixed signs!

Do you really want to hold on to this? I understand that you 2 may feel like natural partners because your rising signs are in opposite signs, but Saturn issues are pretty hard to overcome, imo.

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posted April 08, 2025 04:57 PM            

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I just want to add, to the question of goodbye for now or forever, it's up to you. With challenging Saturnian aspects, the issue is are you willing to "work" on the relationship? And for how long?

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posted May 18, 2025 09:55 AM            

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I not sure for say this, but we have same aspect in composite charts not really same just some.
I ever get some opinions about Aries asc that indicate relation that burn fast not mean last, but you have stellium in Taurus. Then Uranus and Neptune in 10th, as my experience (I have same) people/outside Will see you and him in different perspectives rather than the real things that only you and him who know.
IMO,even not in romantic relationship you can be friend with him later as both feel comfort together.

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posted June 05, 2025 04:42 PM            

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I had the same thoughts as above - lots of Saturn squares to personal planets. It can just make a relationship feel like a constant uphill slog with that many imho.

What was your experience of the relationship?

I’ve had a few like this and the attraction can be strong but can be quite difficult to get off the ground.

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posted June 06, 2025 03:00 PM            

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Also, interestingly the man who I had some significant hard Saturn aspects with left me feeling the same. I couldn’t quite understand why I was still thinking about him years later.

However, he did come back into my life a year and half ago when I found out he was in a relationship with my partners ex! Very strange…!

But now that I’m in my current relationship and know about astrology I can see what a car wreck that composite was and how good my current relationship is now.

You actually did a synastry reading for me when I first started seeing my current partner, we were talking about Pluto transiting the 7th house. Was this the relationship that started during that transit?

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