posted April 16, 2025 12:08 PM
To provide further context, this man and I have been in contact online for a couple of years but live about as far away from one another as two people can. We met in person for the first time not long ago when our travels happened to put us in the same place and while it was as dreamy and beautiful as I could've hoped for, it was also unexpectedly uncomfortable and intense at some points, like the innate, inexplicable familiarity/deep attraction/emotional intensity that makes romance between us also causes disproportionate emotional reactivity of other kinds and can create a frankly unnerving amount of gravity and tension.
Here are the transits to our composite chart when we met in person for the first time: 
And our progressed composite chart+transits at that time: 
The moon/Saturn conjunction in there is particularly interesting to me-- My hopeful read is that it indicates the beginning of a longterm emotional commitment as well as describes the intimidating feeling of heaviness. I know Venus and/or Mercury rx are generally not considered auspicious signs under which to make any beginnings in relationships but we "met" online for the first time under both and have stayed in contact since. I interpret this mostly as yet another indicator of eventually resolved issues of distance/time, but maybe that's my being naive.
(We also met during Leo season, which I think is funny given our composite ASC is in Leo, go figure!)
I am a hopeless romantic so I of course hope this story turns out to be one about a fulfilling longterm love. Unrelated to him, just as a funny coincidence, I will be moving to the city where he lives for an extended period next year and I wonder how things might develop at that point, if this will be as significant as I feel like it is.
Sorry if this is all too much info. I just, again, would really appreciate someone else to work through it with and so I'd like to give you as much to work with as possible. I'd be so grateful if you'd take a look! 
Lindaland
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