posted April 23, 2025 04:22 PM            

I do not have his exact time of birth yet but I strongly believe he is a cancer ascendant with Pluto located in his 5h.. He loves his mother and family to a fault, he is money hungry, and he started putting on weight in his 30s. He has one son from a previous relationship.

Does anyone have any info on this configuration?

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posted April 26, 2025 11:07 AM            

another case i've seen was my colleague with her moon in aqua conjunct another colleague's aqua stellium and he felt nice around her, respected her and they had this lovey dovey frienship and connected over mutual interests. she had a huge crush on him even tho she was taken. it was sweet anyway.

posted April 26, 2025 03:55 PM            

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Originally posted by problematique:
i can't stand when men conjunct my moon with their personal planets because i really dislike cancerian men. they acted weirdly possessive, a mix of insults and compliments, but this might just be due to their nature. he should be fine with this.

another case i've seen was my colleague with her moon in aqua conjunct another colleague's aqua stellium and he felt nice around her, respected her and they had this lovey dovey frienship and connected over mutual interests. she had a huge crush on him even tho she was taken. it was sweet anyway.

it all depends on what men like, but i mostly see these aspects as friendship.

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I can definitely see that too considering another Libra stellium guy I recently encountered (I've been attracting Mega Libra energy like a moth to a flame lately for some reason) who was head over heels for me, but whom I had absolutely no romantic feelings for. Yikes. Maybe this is the karma of Uranus/ Neptune playing out. Now I'm the one who will probably get friend-zoned.

I definitely feel more than friendship with this guy, though and he has expressed the same. Now whether he wants to pursue a romantic relationship with me? We shall see.

posted April 26, 2025 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
That's a lot of Neptune and Uranus squares. And I've read that it isn't good when the Saturn aspects are one-sided. And Moon square Saturn is tough.

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Saturn is one-sided? Even with his Saturn on my Sun by sextile, almost exact? The square to my moon is harsh, but still a strong Saturn contact. That applying quintile is definitely prevalent too. Also, in composite we have a very strong Sun-Saturn square. Although also extremely harsh, Saturn is strong nonetheless.

posted April 30, 2025 03:00 PM            

Anyway, I have never felt such a rush of emotions for someone so quickly.. but nothing fairytale-like or too good to be true (his Saturn won't allow that 🙄 .

There seems to be a push-pull energy between us, though that is hard to grasp (Neptune).. he misconstrues my actions and words and then shuts down without wanting to hear an explanation. He is going through an extremely tough time with his living situation and his mother's health issues. He has been very vocal about this and clearly has PTSD/ emotional issues from past trauma. It might be transit Neptune on my mars right now, but something in me wants to help him. Something in me can totally relate to parts of his story.

Any indicators of twin flames? Karma? Even he doesn't end up being the love of my life, I feel like his presence is significant.

I've been seeing the number sequence #1017 for literally YEARS now. I mean popping up everywhere. Clocks, license plates, food order totals, email times, etc. & then he pops up.. and is my exact type, from looks to attitude.. with the birthday... OCTOBER 17. I know this all that Neptune at play, but my Scorpio stellium needs more clues lol.

posted May 16, 2025 01:55 PM            

This man's Saturn is definitely in his 7H natally. I almost 100% sure without a birth time. There's no other explanation for the weirdness lol.

His Saturn conjunct my Uranus/ Neptune exact most likely plays a role too ahem.

He's very distant, dismissive, standoffish. He finds the smallest reason to stop communicating with me, but I can tell by certain things he says and does that he's testing me? He'll cuss me out and ask me why I'm still trying to communicate with him, but when I text him have a nice life or something along those lines, he gets mad at that too. I am honestly confused.. which is usually a clear indicator that the guy isn't into me, but something is keeping me in his orbit.

[He dated someone with the exact same chart as me ten years or so ago except she had a Cancer mars. Her Venus was way more aspected too, by semi-squares from his planets. She apparently cheated on him and had a child before they got together. I find this very interesting considering I recently just ended a 2 year "friendship" with a guy with HIS same placements! So he had the exact same chart as this new guy, except a different moon and ASC].

Neptune is funny like this and usually presents weird coincidences.

Another example: I have been seeing the number #1017 for YEARS now. Literally almost a decade. Receipt totals, license plate sequence, lottery tickets, etc. I have been pondering on what it could mean, but have come up with absolutely nothing until I met this new guy whose birthday is on... you guessed it. 10/17!!! It's not just his birthday though. His family background, his mannerisms, his voice, etc are all exactly what I have been looking for. You know how as a child you create the perfect man? Well he checks most of the boxes (while unchecking a lot of others lmaoo but luckily they aren't the dealbreaker ones). I feel like if twin souls are real, he would definitely be mine.

posted May 16, 2025 06:26 PM            

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Originally posted by 93nov:
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This man's Saturn is definitely in his 7H natally. I almost 100% sure without a birth time. There's no other explanation for the weirdness lol.

His Saturn conjunct my Uranus/ Neptune exact most likely plays a role too ahem.

He's very distant, dismissive, standoffish. He finds the smallest reason to stop communicating with me, but I can tell by certain things he says and does that he's testing me? He'll cuss me out and ask me why I'm still trying to communicate with him, but when I text him have a nice life or something along those lines, he gets mad at that too. I am honestly confused.. which is usually a clear indicator that the guy isn't into me, but something is keeping me in his orbit.

He dated someone with the exact same chart as me ten years or so ago except she had a Cancer mars. Her Venus was way more aspected too, by semi-squares from his planets. She apparently cheated on him and had a child before they got together. I find this very interesting considering I recently just ended a 2 year "friendship" with a guy with HIS same placements! So he had the exact same chart as this new guy, except a different moon and ASC].

Neptune is funny like this and usually presents weird coincidences.

Another example: I have been seeing the number #1017 for YEARS now. Literally almost a decade. Receipt totals, license plate sequence, lottery tickets, etc. I have been pondering on what it could mean, but have come up with absolutely nothing until I met this new guy whose birthday is on... you guessed it. 10/17!!! It's not just his birthday though. His family background, his mannerisms, his voice, etc are all exactly what I have been looking for. You know how as a child you create the perfect man? Well he checks most of the boxes (while unchecking a lot of others lmaoo but luckily they aren't the dealbreaker ones). I feel like if twin souls are real, he would definitely be mine.

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Phew! Wow! I would move on if I were you. You already natally have Neptune and Uranus square to your moon, so unpredictabe, unreliable, unrequited and confusing relationships are very much a pattern in your psyche. You may not like it but it is the dirty bathwater you have been swimming in since birth and there is a pathological way in which it feels like home.

In addition to that, this man has his Saturn square your moon (and his stellium of course), so his powerful Saturn in Capp is always going to fight you, find something wrong with you, and will wreck your emotions.

Your moon placement and aspects are not the most life-building parts of your chart so you might be better off not looking for conjunctions there in synastry. It does not mean you and your moon are doomed. You can have great relatiomship with people whose planets sextile or trine your moon, not conjunct it.

For instance, someone with planets in Sagg that sextile your moon can support your moon without getting in the way of your Saturn. Or someone with planets in Aquarius that trine your moon can also support your moon without being at war with your Saturn.

posted May 18, 2025 09:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage2:
Phew! Wow! I would move on if I were you. You already natally have Neptune and Uranus square to your moon, so unpredictabe, unreliable, unrequited and confusing relationships are very much a pattern in your psyche. You may not like it but it is the dirty bathwater you have been swimming in since birth and there is a pathological way in which it feels like home.

In addition to that, this man has his Saturn square your moon (and his stellium of course), so his powerful Saturn in Capp is always going to fight you, find something wrong with you, and will wreck your emotions.

Your moon placement and aspects are not the most life-building parts of your chart so you might be better off not looking for conjunctions there in synastry. It does not mean you and your moon are doomed. You can have great relatiomship with people whose planets sextile or trine your moon, not conjunct it.

For instance, someone with planets in Sagg that sextile your moon can support your moon without getting in the way of your Saturn. Or someone with planets in Aquarius that trine your moon can also support your moon without being at war with your Saturn.

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Thank you so much for your reply, Belage2!

Yeah, after this last cold interaction, I think I am off to greener pastures. I gave it a solid month to test the waters and nothing seems to be changing so no more time will be wasted. I felt the "zing" though lol sighs.

& Saturn being the wiser, more mature one in a square aspect is hilarious because in the grand scheme of things, I'm more educated, more established, and have way less baggage than he does. The insecurity part definitely reared its ugly head in this equation lol. How is Saturn so critical of me with obvious indicators that I am the one who is in a "higher" position? I actually tried to be there for him and help him out even within the short time we've known each other, but HE is the one who cannot communicate properly and shuts down at the slightest sign of someone challenging him. I would get criticized for showing my interest 'too fast' when all I did was express my interest and tried to communicate with him lol. The hurt feelings part is true 1000%. He has a ton of family/ personal issues going on too though so I am almost certain I just became an added, random burden, instead of a "saving grace" like Neptune convinced me I could be lmaoo.

posted May 30, 2025 10:59 AM            

More Neptune coincidences?

The mother of his child shares the same birthday with me lol. Except she was born in '91 and I was born in '93. His Saturn conjuncts her moon, but all of his personal planets square it. I am so intrigued!

My best friend from High School who shares the same birthday with HIM, just randomly popped up after years of no contact about a week or so ago.

Transit Pluto is currently approaching my Venus for its second pass by square.. I met this guy right after the first pass, March 31st. We started communicating April 7th. My father died April 8th. This is definitely karmic, but what am i supposed to take from all of this?

My mind has officially been blown.. but what do i do with this information? The guy clearly wants nothing to do with me now. But I can't shake him and too many things keep popping up as if I am supposed to keep exploring.

Any thoughts based on the synastry/ composite?

He seems to be drawn to women with children and responsibilities? His appearance is also on the heavier side since he entered his late 20s which leads me to believe his ASC is in Cancer which means Capricorn rules his 7H. He has expressed only having two serious relationships his entire life and both women eventually cheated on him. I have no children yet and seem to be foreign from what he's used to in terms of the type of women in his orbit.

I just wish I could gain more insight so I can let my brain rest lol.

posted June 02, 2025 09:57 AM            

My mars in my 7H is in full swing. My Scorpio Venus too.

His NN is sucking the life out of my Venus! I feel it.

I wonder if his Moon-Saturn square is genuinely repulsed because I feel so familiar or if some part of him wants me to chase him. He started wanting to get to know me more. We met in person and spent the night together without any physical contact.. aside from a hug and cuddling all night. I've never experienced anything like it before and I want more of it. But he is resisting and sabotaging it by criticizing my every move/ affectionate gesture. He is very cold and standoffish. But I can feel and tell there is a loving man underneath who is desperately crying out for help.

Sidenote: I never abided by normal gender roles and what's considered socially acceptable in terms of courting and dating. My mars in Sagittarius in my 7H just isn't going for it. I've seen and experienced too much to know there are literally no rules to any of this lol. So I do not mind courting a man or being the pursuer especially when my track record shows my attraction to the more elusive, unorthodox types like my father. My point is, I am perfectly aware how this looks haha.

posted June 05, 2025 10:25 AM            

UPDATE: I basically told him I won't chase him forever and I'm aware it's one-sided. That put a little fire under him considering he texted me afterwards which never happens. I usually have to call him repeatedly before we have an actual conversation. It's like it's so obvious he's terrified of opening up like it's a Lifetime Movie lmaoo.

posted June 06, 2025 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage2:
You are excited to go after and keep pursuing a man who has rejected you many times and who even seems repulsed by you. You are a textbook case of a native with Uranus and Neptune square Moon.

Maybe someone with Moon aspects similar to yours can chime in and offer their wisdom.

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It's not as bad as it sounds on paper lol. & repulsed is kinda a strong word considering he still calls and wants to be around me so maybe I shouldn't have used that term.

We're actually back on "stable" terms after some communication. He's very cold and shy, but honest.

I also have natal Moon trine Saturn so there's usually always a method to my madness.. or at least some grounding lol.

If things end up going completely sour, I will be okay lol.

Also, his moon is in Libra and maybe conjunct mine depending on his exact birth time.. but even if our moons are not conjunct, his is still in Libra and squared by Neptune...

his ENTIRE LIBRA STELLIUM IS ALSO CONJUNCT MY MOON.

So at the very least, we're both crazy and unconventional.. kinda delusional.. lol.

So although you are totally right Belage2, I think more needs to be considered here lol. Isolating two aspects when there's an interesting karmic pattern here is just not fair.

posted June 09, 2025 08:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage2:
Better you than me, lol.
Keep us updated. I sincerely wish you the best.

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Thank you.

SideNote: There are different ways to "hunt". Some men charge forward and hunt. Other men wait it out and let the prey come to them. It depends on environment, animal, the hunter, etc. The formula presented to us by society has usually been the former while the latter is equally effective. Mutual interest usually doesn't work either because there's a lack of spontaneity/ spark. I'm not plunging fwd with rose-colored glasses. All I'm doing is taking a risk and giving love another try. Something society seems to be void on nowadays. Podcasts and think pieces.. when love and romance is over rational. My Moon-Saturn trine always kicks in after the manic episode.