posted April 27, 2025 08:35 AM            

But I want to protect myself because I get attached extremely quickly and deeply and we are on different continents, an 8 hour flight away. Is there a future here? I mean what do y'all see?

I'm inside (blue) - oh and I'm 6 years older, that's new for me. But he doesn't "feel" immature or anything, in fact I feel like we're the same age, and sometimes I feel younger lol.

Synastry:

posted April 27, 2025 11:53 PM            

You have opposite rising signs, which typically confers mutual attraction because you appear to be the ideal partner for each other. Nice!

However:

Planets and their elements:
-You are fire rising, but other than that, you are heavily water, with one planet in Fire and 2 outer planets in Earth.
-He is mostly Fire and Air, with 1 water and 1 earth.

You have a moon/Saturn conjunction in Pisces. His jupiter in Gemini squares this conjunction.

You have a Venus/Mercury conjunction in Scorpio. His Mars squares in Leo squares this conjunction.

Your Jupiter and Pluto square his Venus.

Your Neptune opposes his Mercury - potential for deception or illusion.

His Saturn opposes your Jupiter

--His not contributing anything positive to your Scorpio Venus. He is not contributing anything positive to your Pisces moon.
--You are not contributing anything to his Libra moon. You are not contributing anything positive to his Leo Venus.

posted May 01, 2025 04:04 PM            

But yes, strictly based on astrology the compatibility seems complicated.

Plus, distant relationships are always complicated anyway (I know it by experience) so it makes the situation even more doubtful.

The only way to know if you are compatible with this man would be to meet him directly and to "feel" his energy, using direct intuition. But it's not possible at distance of course, so the risk of delusion is important.

posted May 01, 2025 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Dennis5:
I would like to know if you continue this relationship or not and if it works. It's interesting.

But yes, strictly based on astrology the compatibility seems complicated.

Plus, distant relationships are always complicated anyway (I know it by experience) so it makes the situation even more doubtful.

The only way to know if you are compatible with this man would be to meet him directly and to "feel" his energy, using direct intuition. But it's not possible at distance of course, so the risk of delusion is important.

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I am afraid this is not a question I can answer for you. Anytthing can "work" if you put up with it and all the crap that comes with it.

posted June 09, 2025 10:03 AM            

We really had almost nothing in common. Idk what happened to me, this is really weird behavior on my part.

In April, he was being flirty and hinting at dating-type things and I started to fall for him, but on the very day I made this post I asked him if he actually wanted anything and he was like ohhh well I don't love you right now I think of you as a friend but I care blah blah and I was like okay dude bye this isn't something I want to continue. I don't do situationships. All this in just a week of knowing him. I was glad I cut it out and got over it very quickly. He was fun to chat to but had zero depth.

Unfortunately I did not block him and two weeks after I stopped contact, he messaged me saying "im sorry I ever hurt you" and two weeks after that I asked him where that came from and he was being cryptic and asked if I was okay during a conflict that took place in May. I was being very hesitant but since he was so sweet to ask if I was ok I kind of melted inside and threw him a bone but was very reserved. We exchanged only a handful of messages (I was holding back) until today. I asked for a phone call and made it very clear that I did not want to hurt him but it's odd when he said he felt jealous when I joked with him about going on a date (in April). I said I was 30 and would be dating other men and I cannot continue what we stopped i.e. a flirtationship. I asked him what he meant when he said "I care about you" yesterday and if this was anything romantic at all and he was blustering and being all "oh no just friendship". I have to say I was chipper and bright on the call but it kinda hit my gut. When I told him I'm deleting discord and he will not be able to contact me anywhere he had no reaction either. But I'm glad I stood up and ended things before they got messy.