posted May 01, 2025 11:07 AM
Hi Dennis,When I take a look at your birthchart I can see why connecting with other people is important to you. There's a lot of air placements, both in sign and houses.vGemini ASC, Aquarius Sun, Aquarius Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 11th house. Air is communication, interacting with others, writing and reading, logical thinking, puzzles and gathering information.
However, there's friction with your Moon, it's in Cancer, a water sign. And that's of a very different nature than the air element. Water is about emotions and feelings, things that can't be rationalized. Moon represents our need for comfort, nurturing, how we take care of ourselves and others. When you get stressed, it might be very difficult for you to regulate yourself and calm down.
In addition, your Moon is in a jod with Sun and Uranus. This means your Cancer Moon is making an inconjunct (quicunx) aspect with your Aquarius Sun and Sagittarius Uranus, both in sextile aspect with each other. It's an aspect configuration that brings a lot of inner tension and can make someone feel like an outcast, black sheep or "victim of circumstances". Inconjuncts or quincunxes are symbolic for "misunderstanding". The planets don't share an element or modality with the planets they're aspecting.
With a jod you have to accept you don't have control over the circumstances but that you have to be patient and learn to develop your talents. Because aren't just trouble, they also indicate the potential for developing certain talents.
The air houses, are the 3rd, the 7th and the 11th house. The 3rd house represents your direct surroundings, your neighbours, your siblings,those you see on a day to day basis. It also represents talking, reading, writing, the education you receive in your childhood. Your Moon is the ruler of your 3rd house, so the jod can also represent tension in those areas of your life. Communication could come with plenty of misunderstandings.
Romantic relationships belong to the realm of the 7th house and Venus. In your birth chart your 7th house ruler is Jupiter. This planet is also challenged because it is in a "duet" with Saturn. This means that Jupiter makes no other aspects than Saturn and vice versa. This means there might be "all or nothing" type of situations when it comes to relationships, because these planets are isolated from the rest of your birth chart. Saturn can also indicate difficulties and lessons when it comes to relationships. It's an aspect that can indicate you're a late bloomer when it comes to romantic relationships.
Hobbyclubs, sports, politics, or other associations where you share common interests can really boost your mood. Ideally something that combines water (emotions) with your Venus (beauty) and Mars (action) conjunction, like maybe dancing, (synchronized) swimming, nature photography. Based on your birth chart, there could be a very creative side to you. And it's important to learn to nurture and feel at home with yourself.
In short, there are some obvious challenges when it comes to communication and relationships but there's no growth without friction.