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LilyIris07
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posted July 31, 2025 03:24 AM
  
Guys, the guy I’m seeing has just found out his entire birth year is different… I don’t want to go into too many details to protect his privacy, but his entire life he’s been celebrating an entirely wrong birthday! Mercury retrograde is really bringing out some secrets… obviously with this comes with an entire chart change… and I’m going to say it’s not looking good in my eyes. If you want to check the previous charts, it should be in my previous post. Its confusing the exact day because he also follows the Iranian calendar, in the Iranian calendar it would be the 25th of January but the western calendar would be the 26th… I’ve always experienced him as an earthy moon. So I’m not sure which date is correct. There’s a huge t-square in the chart (if we keep the orbs a bit wider) and Jupiter is squaring literally everything… not to mention Uranus, and Saturn/moon. Just a lot of squares, and it looks unstable - although that’s not what we are experiencing now. I’m trying to see the good in these charts but I really don’t know. Synastry:
 
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LilyIris07
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posted July 31, 2025 07:15 AM
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LilyIris07
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posted August 09, 2025 02:34 AM
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Librapurr
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posted August 11, 2025 11:20 AM
It looks like a lot of going on in Progress comp. And all the soft Jupiter and Neptune! I would say the big reason why you got together. It might help you to fight all the instability.
I had the progress without much going on and we couldn’t interact at all. So it could be important.
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LilyIris07
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posted August 11, 2025 10:47 PM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
It looks like a lot of going on in Progress comp. And all the soft Jupiter and Neptune! I would say the big reason why you got together. It might help you to fight all the instability.
I had the progress without much going on and we couldn’t interact at all. So it could be important.
Yes I think so… because the original composite looks very difficult and busy, lots of growth and challenges - the progressed says a lot; but also I mean the progressed stays pretty much the same for a long period of time doesn’t it? IP: Logged |
LilyIris07
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posted August 11, 2025 11:28 PM
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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Yes I think so… because the original composite looks very difficult and busy, lots of growth and challenges - the progressed says a lot; but also I mean the progressed stays pretty much the same for a long period of time doesn’t it?
It’s also not a very “wow” connection - we’ve been friends for two years, we enjoyed each others company on a very chill level - and now it’s like an attraction that has grown, and we sort of hold similar ish values when it comes to partnerships. But we are not exactly each others dream person… it’s not the “soulmate” vibe, even though I do get the familiarity from him. I think us being together is a bit of a choice, realizing we could grow together and build a life but not necessarily like based on lust, love or attraction. You know what I’m saying…? So I’m not exactly sure if we are just settling or if it’s just a slow burn.
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Librapurr
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posted August 13, 2025 01:36 PM
There’s a saying: fireworks don’t last, so you might have better chances with a slow burn. He puts Saturn on your fire Mars what is a big cooldown. As his moon could be at Virgo as well. And he is Aqua what might feel more cold for you.
You know what they say about Saturn - it’s a glue, but it needs time to develop.
Only fast moving planet in progress comp. is moon (about 13 degree/year) When it got to closer square comp. Mars, I would think your rs has moved out of the friend-zone.
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LilyIris07
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posted August 14, 2025 03:28 AM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
There’s a saying: fireworks don’t last, so you might have better chances with a slow burn. He puts Saturn on your fire Mars what is a big cooldown. As his moon could be at Virgo as well. And he is Aqua what might feel more cold for you.
You know what they say about Saturn - it’s a glue, but it needs time to develop.
Only fast moving planet in progress comp. is moon (about 13 degree/year) When it got to closer square comp. Mars, I would think your rs has moved out of the friend-zone.
Definitely- I think a slow burn is a lot healthier, just hoping I don’t sabotage it. Our synastry is interesting, ASC/Moon (wide) ASC/Sun/Mercury, then the AC/IC angles are conjunct; as well as DC/MC…. Also his NN is opposite my moon a little wide though, and my NN is making all sorts of squares. Yes, his Saturn does cool my mars down - especially because I can have a bit of a temper. The passion is there, but it’s like it’s under the surface…. Bubbling up at times but needing more openness and trust. I notice with the composite the planets are mostly conjunct mine natal planets not really his, unless I’m missing something. Trust is still a bit of an issue…. Especially on my side.
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Librapurr
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posted August 14, 2025 01:56 PM
I thought you weren’t sure about his birth time. 11th house synastry is ok, especially for Aqua.
His Sun Venus in close t-square with your Venus NN is attraction and a bond. The most challenging is probably Mercury opp. Neptune. Be careful of BS.
I would think you were able to be friends first for a long time because Venus is stronger in charts than mars.Mercury Sun in comp. is a pretty solid connection challenged by hard Neptune. Neptune Juno is higher spiritual vibes and no control when Aries Sun Mercury needs more passion and straightforwardness.
And of course Uranus what could be not that disturbing given that you are from different backgrounds and he is Aqua. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07
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posted August 14, 2025 02:02 PM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I thought you weren’t sure about his birth time. 11th house synastry is ok, especially for Aqua.
His Sun Venus in close t-square with your Venus NN is attraction and a bond. The most challenging is probably Mercury opp. Neptune. Be careful of BS.
Mercury Sun in comp. is a pretty solid connection challenged by hard Neptune. Neptune Juno is higher spiritual vibes and no control when Aries Sun Mercury needs more passion and straightforwardness.
And of course Uranus what could be not that disturbing given that you are from different backgrounds and he is Aqua.
We are sure of his birth time and date now - so it’s pretty accurate. But yes I’m having issues with trust and I feel like I can’t figure out what it is… the Uranus makes sense with the age gap and cultural gap, we are also both in recovery. My Uranus is square my Venus, trine and sextile my moon and sun. So I’m not sure how hot and cold it will be…. I don’t know if he’s actually untrustworthy or if it’s just foggy.
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Librapurr
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posted August 15, 2025 11:56 AM
I don’t think you can use astrology for reassurance relationships will work and control the outcome.
Astrology is not a foolproof system. It offers a framework for self-reflection and relationships exploration.
You can only try and see what will happen. 🧡There is Saturn what give more opportunity to control and make stability. But you will overuse it and it will go at the wrong direction. His Saturn is in between you Sun Mars Pluto t-square. It might create severe resistance and clash.
It can indicate your general issues with male or dominant figures. What he can suppress with his Saturn, but you could be unhappy about it. Hopefully that nice Taurus stellium in progress can calm it down. Be aware of stubbornness. As I understand you already were interacting for couple years so you have more foundation to know each other.
Usually a problem with Uranus and Neptune is people jumping into rs too quickly without any idea who the other person is. Wishing you all the best at your journey. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07
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posted August 16, 2025 09:39 AM
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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I don’t think you can use astrology for reassurance relationships will work and control the outcome.
Astrology is not a foolproof system. It offers a framework for self-reflection and relationships exploration.
You can only try and see what will happen. 🧡There is Saturn what give more opportunity to control and make stability. But you will overuse it and it will go at the wrong direction. His Saturn is in between you Sun Mars Pluto t-square. It might create severe resistance and clash.
It can indicate your general issues with male or dominant figures. What he can suppress with his Saturn, but you could be unhappy about it. Hopefully that nice Taurus stellium in progress can calm it down. Be aware of stubbornness. As I understand you already were interacting for couple years so you have more foundation to know each other.
Usually a problem with Uranus and Neptune is people jumping into rs too quickly without any idea who the other person is. Wishing you all the best at your journey.
Thank you! Yes, I think maybe we did get into it too fast - it feels more like a friendship we are trying to turn into a relationship; the spark shouldn’t be that hard to create… but I think it’s best that I let it run its course.
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