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Topic: What are the positives about Neptune in Synastry/Composite?
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Rose06
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posted August 15, 2025 08:47 PM
  
Maybe it’s just because I am quite Saturnian in my own chart, but everything I’ve heard about Neptune in relationship charts just sounds so terrifying. Deception? Illusions? Confusion? Etc.? Just sounds like a total nightmare to have in a relationship all across the board.It frustrates me, as I have no Neptune aspects in my chart, literally except one square to my Jupiter exact, that’s it. I have no other Neptune, so I can’t really relate to it’s energy, and see the positives it could bring, especially in a relationship. You could have positive Neptune aspects between two people, but I’ve heard if you have TOO MANY good aspects, then that’s bad too? How much is too much exactly? Some people say there is unconditional love, but I feel like you could get that better with Moon-Venus aspects, and there’s no delusions involved with that, that’s for sure, hahaha. Starting to think Neptune might be WORSE than Saturn aspects. At least Saturn keeps you grounded and in reality. Neptune distorts all of that, and makes you completely disappointed afterwards. When I have a harsh Neptune aspect in my synastry charts, I’m always wary about what and how I am perceiving that other person, but I feel like it drives me crazy at times and makes me paranoid that every perception I may have of this person is wrong. I am willing to be convinced of it’s true benefits if anyone is willing to share/understand Neptune’s energies much better than a Saturnian person like me. IP: Logged |
Belage2
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posted August 15, 2025 09:34 PM
My opinion regarding Neptune in synastry.Neptune aspects can be wonderful, providing they are easy aspects like sextile and trine. Conjunctions can be tricky, depending on the planets, but are not entirely negative. I find that it is only when Neptune is conjunct Saturn that there can be negatives as these 2 planets are the antithesis of each other... The positives: At its best, Neptune promotes otherwordly love, tolerance, and self-sacrifice in relationships. I have seen many parent/child charts where the child's Neptune was conjunct, trine or sextile one or two of the parent's personal planets. This aspect brings out in the parent unconditional love and self-sacrifice toward the child. In romantic relationships, well aspected Neptune can predispose the parties to be loving, kind and forgiving toward each other, and it sprinkles a nice dose of fairy dust on the relationship, making things look and feel magical. In all cases, positive Neptune ties promote longevity in the relationship. The negatives: On the other hand, squares, oppositions, and also inconjunctions can bring negatives and serve as warning that all that shines is not necessarily gold and not to take your wishful thinking for reality. Negatives: Illusions, smoke and mirror sly of hands, one sided infatuation, deception, cheating, lies etc... IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 17, 2025 04:40 PM
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SuperVirgo
Newflake Posts: 17
From: Oakland CA USA
Registered: Apr 2025
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posted August 17, 2025 10:16 PM
Dreamy, romantic, otherworldly, triggers knowledge and experience of past life connections, deep soulmate connections. Agape love. The greatest possible compassion. Self-sacrifice. I have all luminaries and personal planets in the 12th house. Almost all my planets trine or sextile my Neptune. Synastry without Neptune is of no interest to me at all. However, I would say that Neptune Square Mars synastry and hard Neptune aspects to inner planets in composite are pretty difficult. It seems that people without the natal placements/aspects do not handle the energy well. 12th house/Neptune is deeply spiritual and takes a lot of maturity and evolution to integrate. For most people that means “I don’t want 12th house/Neptune synastry because I want easy synastry.” If you want soul evolution, and to clear karma in this lifetime, then you definitely want it. IP: Logged |
Rose06
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posted August 18, 2025 04:40 PM
I don’t think it’s just that people want easy synastry necessarily, I think it’s just they don’t want to be deceived into believing something is what it isn’t, they don’t want to live in delusion, which is often what is present in Neptune synastry/composites.IP: Logged |
SuperVirgo
Newflake Posts: 17
From: Oakland CA USA
Registered: Apr 2025
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posted August 18, 2025 05:09 PM
Yes, meaning they don’t want to experience the negative possibilities of Neptune. They want easy feel-good synastry, instead of deeply meaningful synastry that will clear their karma and evolve their soul. Neptune is not always delusional energy. That’s just one way it can play out—if one isn’t careful. IP: Logged |
Rose06
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posted August 18, 2025 06:40 PM
Realistically though, in the real world, most people who have the negatives will probably experience something like that. I do think there is a possibility of something great with them, even the negatives, but often times it just seems to be delusional bubbles popping, and a heap of disappointment afterwards. Of which people should probably steer away from if they don’t wish to experience something like that. Or, they could second guess every assumption they have of the other person, just so that they make sure they’re not seeing them for what they are not. Which in my case, is what I find myself doing. IP: Logged | |
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