posted September 14, 2025 10:57 AM            

When I told him he doesn't know how unbearable I am with my trust issues and whatever he offered to be tracked via GPS, AirTag, cameras and microphones if it helps. When I told him I cannot date him as I don't want to marry or raise children outside my faith he said nobody has to convert and I can raise the children in the Church. He checks up on me all the time, writes me poetry, wants to draw my hand, etc etc. He asks me how much money I think he should make. What?! Who does all that for someone they barely know?!? He has only heard my voice, (and he keeps replaying those VNs or songs) he's never even seen me! (I am very private).

I cannot understand what makes me so special to him esp since I have been cold and sometimes rude (in the beginning) to him. He speaks of how he's never felt this intensely for a woman esp in the last ten years and how I pretty much pulled him out of a 10-yr long depression. It's all a lot. Very flattering but he insists he knows me well enough every time I tell him it is too early and he keeps asking me if I like him but I tell him I don't know him yet that we're not even friends yet because even THAT takes time (for me). Yet he's always there always persistent always waiting always patient. He's said things like "you're mine" "time will show/prove me right" etc. I feel pulled into a fate pretty much that I almost cannot resist. Oh and the kicker is he's two years younger to me!

posted September 14, 2025 06:37 PM            

CONS:

His Uranus in Aqua squares your Mercury AND your Venus in Scorpio. You having Sun, Merc, Venus, Jupiter and Pluto in scorpio means you do like obsession so it's no wonder you find his obsessive behavior attractive.

Your respective Marses are opposite. Possibility of physical fighting is high with these Mars aspects.

His Mars squars your Sun. Dear, I do not like that. Again, potential of physical fights and I would say attacks from him.

Your Mars opposes his sun (wide orb)

His true node squares your Uranus and Neptune

His Pluto squares your moon. Not good!

He has Venus conjunct Pisces, so he can be very calculating. Venus conjunct Saturn is not usually the sappy, romantic kind of person.

Your True node squares his sun

Your Chiron opposes his Venus/Saturn conjunction

His True node in Libra squares your Uranus and Neptune.

PROS:

His moon trines your moon, Mercury and Venus.

Your Jupiter trines his Venus/Saturn conjunction.

Your Pluto loosely trines his Venus/Saturn conjunction.
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You are Aries rising and not afraid of a good fight, since your ruling planet is Mars, and it is square your Sun. You may even have a history of domestic violence, and I am afraid this relationship with all those Mars aspects and all these squares will not make it better.

I know this is not what you want to hear. But I am not a prophet. You can actually disregard astrology and whatever any astrologer has to say, and use your natural common sense, wisdom and intelligence, and determine for yourself based on what you have written in the OP, if this is the kind of relationship that would benefit you.