posted January 27, 2026 01:35 PM            

With Mars and Pluto the rulers of your 7th house and sitting on the cusp of your 7th house natally, you seek out very intense transformative relationships. So you are thriving on those shared Scorpio contacts, even if they are falling in your 6th house, which is not exactly where romantic relationships happen.

You two have opposite ascendants, which is always an attractive factor and a marker of compatibility as you can be complementary partners.

On the not so good side, neither of you have planets in the other's 7th house or 8th houses of partnership and sex. Your Sun conjunction to his Venus might offset some of that because Venus is the ruler of his 7th.

Still, if you decide to continue with this relationship, the current and upcoming transit of Pluto in Aquarius which is going to square all those Scorpio planets and contacts one by one is going to be a really rough ride for this relationship.

posted January 28, 2026 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by 93nov:
Sheesh, you came to that conclusion just off that one aspect? (:

His Saturn also trines my Jupiter.

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The trine won't cancel the square. I don't think that's how astrology aspects work.

Yes, the Saturn/Jupiter clash alone can be a deal-breaker, there's plenty of studies online, and that's the very first thing I check for in a potential synastry. I've never seen it in the chart of people who are in love, and I've seen hundreds of relationship charts. Why else would you and him still be playing the cat and mouse game after two decades in your own words? If you ask me that's all for the best. But the Scorpio's obsessive side might have a hard time letting go.

Perhaps the real dilemma here is you asking yourself if you really want to keep ruminating on something high risk with that Jupiter/Saturn clash.

Check out this link (the Magi Society carry out intensive research before making statements):

posted January 29, 2026 11:19 AM            

I just don't think this aspect will kill an entire synastry.

& I know for sure the trine doesn't cancel out the square, BUT it does add more to the picture and IS a double-whammy.

posted January 29, 2026 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by 93nov:
Thank you so much for your reply, Belage2.

Transit Pluto is definitely making its way through our Composite stellium. I wonder if it matters if we're already both Plutonic natally and going through the same transits.

Pluto just completed its 3rd pass out 5 on my chart ruler (Venus) and the only thing intense are the brief relationships I've been experiencing for one reason or another. But I've known this CURRENT interest for almost two decades now so that description doesn't really apply here.

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It is a valid question and I have thought about it. I think the two of you already being very plutonic may understand and handle these Pluto transits better than other signs on the conditions that you are both ready to release the dead weight Pluto urges you to release in hard transits.

In your case, you will have transit pluto in the house of career, so that might signify that there will be things in your job or career that create serious issues for the two of you and also affect your health and everyday work, since your Scorpio planets being squared are in your 6th house.

And in the case of your partner, having transit Pluto in the 4th house, that may indicate he has to do lots of work dealing with childhood issues or mother issues, and I would look at his first house, his physical body and appearance, the way he presents himself to the world, as the battlefields where these issues will be felt.

But of course, keep in mind, this is all conjecture.

posted January 29, 2026 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by 93nov:

& I know for sure the trine doesn't cancel out the square, BUT it does add more to the picture and IS a double-whammy.

& I'm not ruminating on anything. To be fair, we're kind of meeting each other for the first time again considering how long its been and we didn't maintain contact for the most part.

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If anything, the double-whammy trine would actually put the Saturn/Jupiter clash more at the center, and felt deeper and more intensely, hence the feeling you describe in your OP: 👇

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Originally posted by 93nov:
But there seems to be another roadblock. Something about the way we're coming off is rubbing each other the wrong way at different times.

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I'd say those Scorpio planets in your chart might be reading too much into what he's communicating to you online. And with his current Jupiter/Venus trine, you may not be the only woman he's talking to. Loyalty is vital to Scorpio, so you may need to make sure you're not being deceived.

The composite shows some promise with Sun trine Saturn, but again there're a Jupiter/Saturn aspect in the composite which could make falling in love hard.

The composite isn't passionate, with a lack of Sun, moon or venus aspects to Pluto. But with his AC conjunct your Venus, he may feel entitled to your affection which has the risk of ending up being taken granted for.

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Originally posted by 93nov:

Men are usually attracted to women who resemble their mothers and I don't fit the description AT ALL although he still finds me very attractive. I can tell he struggles with this a great deal. Even today as an adult. You can tell he wants to broaden his horizons, but his 4H Saturn is forcing him to uphold the status quo when it comes to his roots. We've discussed this deeper recently and actually made some progress this time around. He actually believes there is no issue, but I see it clear as day. I'm assuming his mother and even father struggled with self-esteem issues in certain spots and drilled a certain mentality into their children. He might be frozen in time in terms of emotional and psychological growth due to the trauma. Pretty heavy stuff (thanks Pluto (: ).

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