posted January 25, 2026 06:55 AM            

Transit Pluto is halfway through its square to my Venus (3/5 passes) and I feel like I've been speed dating since 2024.

Mars is also conjunct my NN 7H natal so relationships are naturally a part of my life journey anyway so.. here's another one:

I've known and have been distant friends with this guy since high school. We never dated, slept together or even kissed. We exchanged a few words and a few books through the years, but never actually connected fully or took things further. Definitely a slow burn type thing.

We recently reconnected a few months ago and admitted we both feel like we have unfinished business. But there seems to be another roadblock. Something about the way we're coming off is rubbing each other the wrong way at different times. It's like a strange attraction/ compulsion. Mostly attraction on my end. I can't really read him fully because we haven't met up yet. It's been years since I seen him.

Any thoughts based on the charts?

Here's a few key things I noticed:

My moon is almost completely unaspected and his Sun is almost completely unaspected in our synastry, but the interesting part is, our natals kind of reflect that?

His Sun/Moon is in his 12H. My moon is square uranus/neptune, trine Saturn. No warm, close inner aspects. My 12H ruler is Mars which is right on my 7H cusp.

**Midpoints conjunct.**

His Sun/Moon midpoint conjuncts my Moon less than 1 degree.

My Venus/mars midpoint conjunct his Venus.

His ASC-Moon conjunct is conjunct my Venus.

Composite sun conjunct his moon (1 degree)
composite moon conjunct my Vertex exact.

Composite ASC conjunct his Saturn/Uranus midpoint.

His mars trine my mars/NN conjunction.

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His Uranus square my Moon (exact)
Poorly aspected Moon.
Poorly aspected Sun.
Poorly aspected Mars.

I FEEL the connection, but I also feel the disconnect too. I just want to know if this relationship would be worth pursuing ASTROLOGY WISE or are we still going to be in our 60s playing this same cat and mouse game at the nursing home.

All birth times are 100% accurate based on birth certificates.

MY NATAL:

HIS NATAL:

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